It's Not Me It's You
Paul Mac Lyrics


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Should have been beautiful, should have been everything
I'd have done anything for you
Could have been wonderful, could have been all the things that you will never know
Ooh, got me thinking I couldn't get no better
And nothing in the world would make me right
You sucked me in, why did I let ya', everytime?

CHORUS
I want to thank you baby, I thought it was me, but you're messing with my mind
I've got to thank you baby
'Cause you know that it's sad but true
It's not me, it's you

Tried to analyse questions in my mind
What more can I do?
First you build me up, then you cut me down
Leave me so confused

Ooh, got me thinking I couldn't get no better
And nothing in the world would make me right
You sucked me in, why did I let ya', everytime?

REPEAT CHORUS x 2

You know there was a time
I was feeling you and melting inside
But it's not enough
I gave myself and I gave my trust but you took too much, took my pride
And it's not enough
All I needed, all I missed was what I got inside


REPEAT CHORUS x 2

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of "It's Not Me It's You" by Paul Mac portray the regretful feelings experienced by someone who was once in love with their significant other. The verses express the singer’s longing to have a perfect relationship that they would have done anything for, but unfortunately the relationship did not turn out that way. The chorus explicitly states that the singer wants to thank their partner because they thought they were at fault for the relationship’s bitterness when in actuality, it was their partner’s doing. This shift in perspective is revealed when the singer sings, "It's not me, it's you". The lyrics of the song suggest that the singer is finally ready to move on after the relationship has ended.


The lines, "I gave myself and I gave my trust but you took too much, took my pride/And it's not enough/All I needed, all I missed was what I got inside" suggest that the singer has realized that they may have compromised their own happiness in the relationship, and it was their own trust and pride that had been taken away. Eventually, they realize that they do not need their partner to feel complete and that they have everything they need inside. The song follows a common trajectory of a relationship gone awry, with the singer expressing their feelings of confusion, regret and ultimately, resignation.


Line by Line Meaning

Should have been beautiful, should have been everything
I had high expectations for our relationship, but it didn't turn out as I hoped.


I'd have done anything for you
I was willing to go above and beyond for you.


Could have been wonderful, could have been all the things that you will never know
Our relationship had the potential to be amazing, but you didn't give it a chance.


Ooh, got me thinking I couldn't get no better
You made me feel like I couldn't find anyone better than you.


And nothing in the world would make me right
Despite my efforts, I couldn't make things work with you.


You sucked me in, why did I let ya', everytime?
You had a way of drawing me in, even though I knew it wasn't good for me.


I want to thank you baby, I thought it was me, but you're messing with my mind
I used to blame myself for our problems, but now I realize that you were the one causing them.


Tried to analyse questions in my mind
I tried to figure out what was going wrong in our relationship.


What more can I do?
I was at a loss for how to fix things between us.


First you build me up, then you cut me down
You would give me hope for our relationship, only to disappoint me later.


Leave me so confused
Your actions often left me feeling unsure and uncertain.


You know that it's sad but true
It's unfortunate, but the reality is that our relationship wasn't working.


All I needed, all I missed was what I got inside
I realized that what I was missing all along was self-love and self-worth.




Writer(s): Elizabeth Ida Winstanley, Paul Francis Mcdermott

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