Looking At Her
Paul McCartney Lyrics


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If you ask her how it’s done, she won't know
It’s like trying to catch the sun on the water
She tries to explain, then it happens again

Everybody’s looking at her
She’s got everybody talking about her
She’s good, she’s kind, she’s so refined
But me, I’m losing my mind

Though she haunts me like the sound of the rain
Or a river running down to the ocean
I hate to complain, but it’s happening again

Everybody’s looking at her
She’s got everybody talking about her
She’s good, so fine, she’s sweet as wine

But me, I’m losing my mind
Doesn’t she know, why can’t she see
Look at the effect that she’s having on me
I’m not alone, I’m part of the crowd
Turning our heads as she walks down the street

She tries to explain, then it happens again

Everybody’s looking at her
She’s got everybody talking about her
She’s good, she’s kind, she’s so refined

But me, I’m losing my mind
I’m losing my mind




I’m losing my mind
I’m losing my mind

Overall Meaning

In Paul McCartney's "Looking at Her," the singer is completely captivated by a woman who makes everyone else turn their heads. The woman is elegant and refined, and everyone talks about her. Unsurprisingly, the singer is enamored and distraught, wondering why the woman has such an effect on him. He calls her good, kind, and refined, while he's losing his mind. The singer sees the woman's effect on others, as well as himself, and wonders why she doesn't see it too.


The opening verse is particularly vivid, comparing the woman's allure to trying to catch the sun on water. She's elusive and her mysteriousness adds to her charm. Despite her beauty and charm, the singer is about to despair over the power she holds over him. His comparison of her to the sound of the rain suggests that she's always present in his mind, whether he wants her there or not.


"Looking at Her" is a great example of Paul McCartney's talent for crafting memorable melodies and lyrics. The song is simple yet effective in conveying the singer's distress, particularly in the chorus's repetition of "She's got everybody," which emphasizes the woman's power. Overall, "Looking at Her" is a straightforward but touching exploration of love and longing that captures the complexity of human emotions.


Line by Line Meaning

If you ask her how it’s done, she won't know
She doesn't know how she does it, like trying to catch the reflection of the sun on water.


It’s like trying to catch the sun on the water
It's something that's unexplainable and impossible to grasp, like catching the reflection of the sun on water.


She tries to explain, then it happens again
She tries to explain her charm and magnetism, but it still works on people like a spell.


Everybody’s looking at her
She attracts attention from everyone around her.


She’s got everybody talking about her
She's the subject of everyone's conversations and gossip.


She’s good, she’s kind, she’s so refined
She has positive qualities and exudes sophistication and grace.


But me, I’m losing my mind
But for the singer, he's losing his composure, becoming entranced by her and unable to think straight.


Though she haunts me like the sound of the rain
She's ever-present in his thoughts and feelings, like the sound of the rain that keeps echoing in one's ears.


Or a river running down to the ocean
She's like a river that always flows, steadily and endlessly towards the ocean, representing a powerful, inevitable force.


I hate to complain, but it’s happening again
He's aware that his attraction to her is irrational and senseless, yet it keeps happening regardless of his intentions.


Doesn’t she know, why can’t she see
The singer wishes she could recognize the effect she has on him and marvel at it like he does.


Look at the effect that she’s having on me
He wants her to acknowledge how she's overwhelming him with her presence and attractiveness.


I’m not alone, I’m part of the crowd
He's not the only one affected by her charm and beauty, everyone seems to be mesmerized by her.


Turning our heads as she walks down the street
People can't help but stare and look at her as she goes by.


I’m losing my mind
The singer repeats this phrase because it emphasizes his mental and emotional state of being consumed by his fascination for her.




Lyrics © Kobalt Music Publishing Ltd.
Written by: PAUL MCCARTNEY

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