Mistress And Maid
Paul McCartney Lyrics


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She Said
Come In My Dear,
You're Looking Tired Tonight.
Your Bath Is Drawn, Let Me Loosen Your Tie
And Fix You Your Usual Drink.

He Settles Back,
Takes A Magazine,
Kicks Off His Shoes, As He Studies The Form
Of Every Appealing Soubrette.
But Where Are The Flowers That He Used To Bring?
Every Endearing Remark
Reminds Her Of Passionarte Promises,
That He Only Made In The Dark.

In Her Bed,
She Wants To Shout At The Back Of His Head
Look At Me, Look At Me, Look At Me I'm Afraid
See What It's Come To,
I'm Just Your Mistress And Maid.

The Wine Is Warm
But The Dinner Is Cold.
The Look In His Eye Tells Her It Won't Be Long
'Till The Girls On The Page Come To Life.
And They'll Get The Flowers That He Used To Bring
With Every Endearing Remark,
And All Of The Passionate Promises
He'll Never Fulfil In The Dark.

In Their Bed,
She Wants To Shout At The Back Of His Head
Look At Me, Look At Me, Now That I'm Not Afraid.
See What It's Come To,
I'm Not Your Mistress And Maid.





See What It's Come To,
I'm Not Your Mistress And Maid.

Overall Meaning

"Mistress and Maid" is a song by Paul McCartney, released in 1993 as a part of his album Off the Ground. The song tells the story of a mistress who is tired of being just a sexual object for the man she loves. The first verse talks about how the woman wants to help her lover relax after a tiring day. The second verse highlights how the man now seems to prefer his magazines and fantasizing over the real woman in front of him. The chorus shows the woman's frustration as she wants her lover to see her as an equal and not just his mistress. Finally, the last verse reveals that the woman has had enough and doesn't want to be his mistress anymore.


The song is an excellent depiction of the power dynamic between a man and a woman in a society where women are still seen as lesser than men. The mistress here is pleading to be seen as an equal, but her lover only sees her as an object that satisfies his sexual desires. The song draws attention to the idea that women often become helpless victims of societal norms, which allow men to treat them in a certain way.


This song was inspired by Paul McCartney's relationship experience from the 1980s. He had a companion named Julie, and he wrote the song to ask for forgiveness after their breakup. The song was not released at that time, but it lay in his archive. He revived it in 1992 for his upcoming album, Off The Ground.


Line by Line Meaning

She Said Come In My Dear, You're Looking Tired Tonight. Your Bath Is Drawn, Let Me Loosen Your Tie And Fix You Your Usual Drink.
She greets him warmly and offers him a drink and a relaxation after seeing he is tired, showing care for him.


He Settles Back, Takes A Magazine, Kicks Off His Shoes, As He Studies The Form Of Every Appealing Soubrette. But Where Are The Flowers That He Used To Bring? Every Endearing Remark Reminds Her Of Passionarte Promises, That He Only Made In The Dark.
He relaxes and starts examining every detail of attractive models but forgets to bring her flowers like he used to, and his kind words lack genuine intent.


In Her Bed, She Wants To Shout At The Back Of His Head Look At Me, Look At Me, Look At Me I'm Afraid See What It's Come To, I'm Just Your Mistress And Maid.
She feels insecure and unimportant in their sexual relationship, wishing for his attention.


The Wine Is Warm But The Dinner Is Cold. The Look In His Eye Tells Her It Won't Be Long 'Till The Girls On The Page Come To Life. And They'll Get The Flowers That He Used To Bring With Every Endearing Remark, And All Of The Passionate Promises He'll Never Fulfil In The Dark.
Their dinner is unappealing, and he clearly desires intimacy with the women in his magazine. They will receive his attention and promises while she is ignored.


In Their Bed, She Wants To Shout At The Back Of His Head Look At Me, Look At Me, Now That I'm Not Afraid. See What It's Come To, I'm Not Your Mistress And Maid.
Upset with their physical relationship, she now finds her confidence to tell him she wants his affection, refusing to be just his mistress.


See What It's Come To, I'm Not Your Mistress And Maid.
She has realized her worth and refuses to be just his mistress.




Lyrics © BMG Rights Management, Universal Music Publishing Group, Kobalt Music Publishing Ltd.
Written by: ELVIS COSTELLO, PAUL MCCARTNEY

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