Him or Me
Paul Revere & The Raiders Lyrics


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Now have you got yourself a brand new baby
Don't tell me maybe
Is it so
I got to know
What's it gonna be
Him or me
Him or me
Him or me
Him or me

I can still recall when you told me I was all
Everything you looked for in a man
But I know that it's not true
I've seen the way he looks at you
And I thing you're gonna hang me up again

Now have you got yourself a brand new baby
Don't tell me maybe
Is it so
I got to know
What's it gonna be
Him or me
Him or me
Him or me
Him or me

So if you'd like to be so kind
Would you please make up your mind
I won't share your lovin' with another man
And if you see things my way
Won't you let me know today
But if you decide it's him
I'll change my mind

So have you got yourself a brand new baby
Don't tell me maybe
Is it so
I got to know
What's it gonna be
Him or me
Him or me
Him or me
Him or me

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What's it gonna be

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Him or me
What's it gonna be

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to Paul Revere & The Raiders's song Him or Me are about a man who is unsure if his significant other is going to choose him or someone else. The singer is struggling with the possibility that his partner may have found a new love interest and is asking her to make a decision between him or the other man. He is desperate to know where he stands in the relationship and is willing to change his mind if she chooses the other man. He's essentially saying that he will not share his significant other's love with anyone else.


The song captures the feeling of insecurity and fear of losing someone that many people go through in romantic relationships. The singer is struggling with the uncertainty of where he stands and is asking for honesty from his partner. The line "I won't share your lovin' with another man" sums up the theme of the song, which is the fear of losing the person you love.


Overall, the lyrics to Him or Me are about communication and honesty in relationships. It's about being clear on one's desires and intentions and making a decision, so both parties can move forward. It's a timeless message that still resonates with many people today.


Line by Line Meaning

Now have you got yourself a brand new baby
Have you found a new lover


Don't tell me maybe
Don't be indecisive


Is it so
Did you really find a new lover


I got to know
I need to know the truth


What's it gonna be
Who will you choose?


Him or me
Choose between your new lover or me


So if you'd like to be so kind
I'm pleading with you


Would you please make up your mind
Decide who you want


I won't share your lovin' with another man
I won't accept being in a love triangle


And if you see things my way
If you agree with me


Won't you let me know today
Please tell me now


But if you decide it's him
If you choose your new lover


I'll change my mind
I'll move on


Him or me
Still deciding


What's it gonna be
The question remains unanswered




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doonbiz

Rest In Peace Paul Revere...all he wanted was a good performance and a happy audience. He seemed to live for being on stage. The original band, with Mark Lindsay, have four gold albums, and one platinum song (Indian Reservation - The Lament of the Cherokee Reservation Indian). Their farcical, cartoon-like image obscured the proto-hard rock sound their music often displayed, perhaps kept the band from higher praise. Like so many other musical acts embraced by music lovers, The Rock And Roll Hall Of Fame never recognized PR&R for the musical force the band was.

Interestingly, when The Beatles' Let It Be was released in 1970, the Rolling Stone magazine originally gave the album a "poor review", yet in 2003, Rolling Stone ranked it number 86 in the magazine's list of the 500 Greatest Albums of All Time.

The hiring of former FHM editor Ed Needham further enraged critics who allege that Rolling Stone had thoroughly lost all credibility as a magazine, a respected voice of the music industry, or music lovers in the U.S. and Internationally.

NOT in the R&R Hall of Fame: Stevie Ray Vaughan, Jethro Tull, John Coltrane, Chicago, Judas Priest, The Cure, T Rex, Yes, Todd Rundgren, The Moody Blues, Nine Inch Nails, Bon Jovi, Lou Reed, The Cars, The Monkees, The Doobie Brothers, Procol Harum, Warren Zevon, Cheap Trick Def Leopard, Duran Duran, Ozzy Ozbourne, Emerson Lake & Palmer, The Spinners, B-52s, Herby Hancock, or Journey...and the list of fine music, seemingly not "in-the-club", goes on and on.

Paul Revere...I think can be proud of what he gave.



All comments from YouTube:

Steven Orsinelli

This generation has no clue how much fun we had during these times! The music was amazing!

Ken Velickoff

Two things, FUN, and NO CLUE!

Mitchell Hancock

I don't drink but I'll drink to that

Douglas J. Arcuri

Sorry Steve Our boys were dying in rice patties while others rocked at home.

John Puplic

@Douglas J. Arcuri 3 USMC combat tours. I still had fun and would go back in a heartbeat.

Peter Bullock

Couldn't agree more, incredible music non stop, what a time we had.

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Hal Eisenberg

This group rocked, there's no denying it. The writing, the arrangements, the lead singing of Mark - who is without a doubt in my mind one of the finest rock voices ever... They were just a very underrated band probably due to the costumes and on-stage antics, but if you listen to their catalogue, you'll agree that their music ranks right up there with anything that was produced back then - or even now.

Patszer

What can I say? You have good taste in music. Take care!

marciefree

They were a great group. One of my favorites. Do you still remember gettin home from school in time to watch “Where The Action Is”? I always loved it cuz The Raiders were on. 🤩🤩🤩

Hal Eisenberg

@marciefree Yes I do!

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