It's Not Me
Paul Stanley Lyrics


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You tell me what you want
And you try to tell me what I need
But your smile can never sell me what I don't believe

Now the gun is in your hand
And all the words are on your tongue
They gave you everything when you were young
You threw it all away when you were done
You pray you found the chosen someone

[Chorus:]
It's not me
I don't wanna be
I'm not the cure, I'm not your savior
Now there's danger every second that you breathe

It's not me
I don't wanna be
Another truth cuts like a razor
You're gonna have to save yourself
You better look for someone else

You turn the world your way
And you lose the truth within your lies
But the feeling that you crave, money never buys
(Money never buys)

All the warnings come too late
And your body starts to scream
And if you think you see me in your dreams

[Chorus:]

No, it's not me
I don't wanna be
Another truth cuts like a razor
You better look for someone else

When you run in a world full of trouble
Trouble always runs to you anyway
Now the damage is done and you want me to stay
But it's not me

(solo) No, No, No

They gave you everything when you were young
You threw it all away when you were done
You pray you found the chosen someone

[Chorus:]

It's not me
I don't wanna be
Another truth cuts like a razor

No, it's not me
I don't wanna be
I'm not the cure, I'm not your savior
You're gonna have to save yourself
You better look for someone else





'Cause it's not me

Overall Meaning

Paul Stanley's song "It's Not Me" is a defiant rejection of false authority and the pressure to conform, set to a pulsing rock beat. In the first verse, the singer rejects the advice of someone who thinks they know what the singer needs, but can't convince them of anything they don't already believe. The second verse is more ominous, with the singer addressing someone who has taken control, but has squandered the gifts they were given and now finds themselves in danger. The chorus repeats the refrain "It's not me" over and over, as a way of rejecting the idea that the singer is responsible for this person's problems, or that they can provide the solution.


The lyrics seem to be directed at someone who has made a mess of their life and is now looking for someone else to clean it up for them. The singer refuses to be that person, but also acknowledges that they can't simply walk away, as the problems caused by this person's actions are now a constant threat. The song is a reminder that we should be careful who we trust and not let others dictate our lives, even if they claim to have our best interests at heart.


Line by Line Meaning

You tell me what you want
The other person in the relationship tries to enforce their wants upon me


And you try to tell me what I need
The other person in the relationship tries to convince me of what I need


But your smile can never sell me what I don't believe
The other person in the relationship can never sell me something I don't believe is right


Now the gun is in your hand
The other person has all the power in the relationship


And all the words are on your tongue
The other person has the upper hand in being able to articulate their points of view more effectively


They gave you everything when you were young
In the past, the other person was given everything they wanted, either by family or society


You threw it all away when you were done
The other person wasted all of their opportunities and privileges


You pray you found the chosen someone
The other person thinks they have found their perfect match


It's not me
I am not the person the other is looking for


I don't wanna be
I am not willing to be the person to fit the other person's wants and needs


I'm not the cure, I'm not your savior
I cannot solve the other person's problems solely by myself


Now there's danger every second that you breathe
Being with the other person puts me in constant danger or at risk of being hurt


Another truth cuts like a razor
Telling the other person the truth is like using a sharp object that might harm them


You're gonna have to save yourself
The other person has to take responsibility for their own well-being and happiness


You better look for someone else
It would be better for the other person to find someone else who can fulfill their wants and needs


You turn the world your way
The other person wants things to go according to their wishes


And you lose the truth within your lies
The other person is unable to distinguish and choose the right thing because they are constantly lying


But the feeling that you crave, money never buys
Even though the other person wants a feeling of satisfaction, money cannot give them that


All the warnings come too late
It is too late to heed any warning signs or advice


And your body starts to scream
The situation has become so untenable that it is affecting the person's physical health


And if you think you see me in your dreams
If the other person thinks about me in their dreams, it means they are still attached to me in some way


When you run in a world full of trouble
The world can be filled with troubles and tribulations


Trouble always runs to you anyway
Even if one tries to run away from trouble, it will always eventually catch up to them


Now the damage is done and you want me to stay
Although the other person has caused much harm, they still want me to stay with them


No, it's not me
I cannot stay with the other person because I do not fit their ideal of a perfect partner




Lyrics © BMG Rights Management, Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC, Warner Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: HOLLY KNIGHT, CHARLIE MIDNIGHT, PAUL STANLEY

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