ball and chain
Paul Young Lyrics


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Oh the room goes quiet at the mention of her name
As her face comes back to haunt you once again
And the rumour's going 'round she's with another guy
Don't worry, all of the damage is done
No reason to tell her 'Get outta here'
She's in a party of one
And one is such an unhappy number
(Chorus)
I wonder why she came
Everywhere there's thunder
Sure you're gonna find some rain
I wonder why you play the game
Oh that spell you're under
Maybe she's your ball and chain
All I see is a girl who's having to pretend
And I'd tell her 'have a heart'
If she had a heart to mend
Don't worry, all of the damage is done
No reason to tell her "Get outta here"
She's in a party of one
And one is such an unhappy number
(repeat chorus)
Don't worry, poor little rich girl have fun
Her jealousy fears you're the stronger one
Maybe tomorrow won't come
And one is such an unlucky number
I wonder why she came
Everywhere there's thunder
Sure you're gonna find some rain
I wonder why you play the game




Oh that spell you're under
Maybe she's your ball and chain

Overall Meaning

The first verse of “Ball and Chain” by Paul Young presents a haunting image of a woman who is still very much present in the memory of the person singing. The mention of her name brings with it a wave of emotions, and the lyrics suggest that she’s with another guy, adding to the heartache the singer is feeling. The chorus of the song continues this theme of heartbreak and confusion, with the singer wondering why the woman in question has come back into their life. The lyrics suggest that this woman may be the singer’s “ball and chain,” a phrase used to describe a person or situation that weighs you down and makes you feel trapped.


However, the verse that follows complicates this image of the woman as a negative force in the singer’s life. The lyric “all I see is a girl who’s having to pretend” suggests that despite her seeming confidence and possibly outward happiness, the woman may be struggling internally. The singer expresses sympathy, wishing that the woman had a heart to mend, but ultimately, there’s no need to tell her to leave because she’s already “in a party of one.” Overall, the song paints a complex picture of a past love, exploring the emotional baggage that comes with such a relationship and the lingering questions that can follow.


Line by Line Meaning

Oh the room goes quiet at the mention of her name
When someone talks about her, it becomes pin-drop silence in the room.


As her face comes back to haunt you once again
Her memories continue to haunt you.


And the rumour's going 'round she's with another guy
There's a rumor that she is seeing someone else.


Don't worry, all of the damage is done
There is no need to worry, the harm has already been done.


No reason to tell her 'Get outta here'
There is no reason to ask her to leave.


She's in a party of one
She is alone in this party.


And one is such an unhappy number
Being alone is not a happy feeling.


I wonder why she came
I'm wondering why she is here.


Everywhere there's thunder
There seems to be a storm brewing everywhere.


Sure you're gonna find some rain
There will definitely be some problems.


I wonder why you play the game
I'm wondering why you are involved in this situation.


Oh that spell you're under
You are under some kind of influence which is not allowing you to come out of this situation.


Maybe she's your ball and chain
Maybe she is the reason that's holding you back from moving on.


All I see is a girl who's having to pretend
All I can see is a girl who is trying to act as if everything is normal.


And I'd tell her 'have a heart'
If she had a heart, I would ask her to be compassionate.


If she had a heart to mend
If she had a heart that needed to be fixed.


Don't worry, poor little rich girl have fun
She should enjoy herself, despite being a rich girl who maybe has problems.


Her jealousy fears you're the stronger one
She is jealous of you and is afraid that you might be stronger than her.


Maybe tomorrow won't come
Perhaps there is no future for this situation.


And one is such an unlucky number
Being alone is an unlucky situation.




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Comments from YouTube:

@nataliotovich7820

Beautiful song. Paul's wonderful voice. Paul is a handsome man.

@davidkelly1414

Paul's best song, with that superb ringing guitar background. Brings back nice memories

@kevinlawlor412

I like the guitar work, plus, Paul's Bill Ray Cyrus look.

@thebassbat7882

Takes me back to spending time in London 96-98 happy days.

@randiewasserman8831

Love the Barry Gibb hairstyle!!!

@philipperepetylo3742

Pour moi la meilleure de toutes
Merci Paul pour cette magnifique musique...
Your's the best Singer ...with love

@Bojan1764

Great album! Should be remastered and re-released on vinyl.

@iainholmes2735

I loved this album.

@rosangelabandeira122

Você não tem noção do quanto te amamos aqui no Brasil 🇩🇰❤️🇧🇷🎅🎄

@user-iq9lc4dw2g

いい

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