It'… Read Full Bio ↴Vedder about "Elderly Woman Behind the Counter in a Small Town":
It's kind of about a lady, and she's getting on in years, and she's stuck in this small town. Small towns fascinate me: You either struggle like hell to get out, to some people want to stay 'cause then they're the big fish in the small pond, and then others just kind of get stuck there. So here she is working in this little place, and then an old flame comes in, and he's probably driving a nice car and looking kind of sharp—not a fancy car, but he's moved on. And then she sees him, and at first she doesn't even remember who he is, and then she realizes who it is. She's just too embarrassed to say 'hello.'
Elderly Woman Behind the Counter in a Small Town
Pearl Jam Lyrics
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Haunting, familiar yet
I can't seem to place it
Cannot find the candle of thought to light your name
Lifetimes are catching up with me
All these changes taking place
I wish I'd seen the place
Hearts and thoughts they fade, fade away
Hearts and thoughts they fade, fade away
I swear, I recognize your breath
Memories like fingerprints are slowly raising
Me, you wouldn't recall for I'm not my former
It's hard when you're stuck upon the shelf
I changed by not changing at all
Small town predicts my fate
Perhaps that's what no one wants to see
I just want to scream hello
My God it's been so long
Never dreamed you'd return
But now here you are and here I am
Hearts and thoughts they fade away
Hearts and thoughts they fade, fade away
Hearts and thoughts they fade, fade away
Hearts and thoughts they fade away
Hearts and thoughts they fade, fade away
Hearts and thoughts they fade, fade away
Hearts and thoughts they fade, fade away
Hearts and thoughts they fade
The song "Elderly Woman Behind the Counter in a Small Town" by Pearl Jam is a ballad about nostalgia and longing for the past. The opening lines set the stage for the theme, as the singer recognizes a face that is both haunting and familiar, but cannot quite remember who it is. The line "cannot find the candle of thought to light your name" suggests that the memory is there, but the singer is struggling to retrieve it. This is followed by the admission that "lifetimes are catching up with me," implying a sense of aging and loss.
The second verse continues the idea of change and loss, as the singer reflects on "all these changes taking place" and regrets not having seen the place he might be thinking of. The idea of hearts and thoughts fading away is repeated in the chorus, suggesting the inevitable passage of time and impermanence of all things.
The third verse adds a personal note to the song, with the singer addressing the person he recognizes directly. He admits that she probably wouldn't recall him, because he has changed since they last met. The line "it's hard when you're stuck upon the shelf" suggests a sense of feeling stagnant or trapped, unable to move on from the past.
Overall, the song portrays a sense of sadness and longing for a time that has passed. It taps into universal feelings of nostalgia and regret, inviting the listener to reflect on their own experiences of loss and change.
Line by Line Meaning
I seem to recognize your face
The singer recognizes the subject's face but can't remember who they are.
Haunting, familiar yet
The familiar face is haunting the singer's thoughts but they can't figure out why.
I can't seem to place it
The singer can't put a name to the familiar face.
Cannot find the candle of thought to light your name
The artist can't remember the name associated with the familiar face despite trying to remember and trying to bring it to their mind.
Lifetimes are catching up with me
The artist feels like life is slipping away and they're running out of time.
All these changes taking place
The singer is noticing changes around them, but they aren't sure what to make of them.
I wish I'd seen the place
The singer regrets not seeing a certain location or place.
But no one's ever taken me
Despite wanting to see the location, the artist has never been there.
Hearts and thoughts they fade, fade away
The artist is acknowledging that memories and emotions fade over time.
I swear, I recognize your breath
The artist is confident they recognize the person based on their breath.
Memories like fingerprints are slowly raising
Memories are resurfacing slowly, like fingerprints being revealed by dust.
Me, you wouldn't recall for I'm not my former
The artist doesn't expect the subject to remember them because they have changed since they last met.
It's hard when you're stuck upon the shelf
The singer is feeling stuck in their life, helpless to change their situation.
I changed by not changing at all
The singer feels like they've changed in small ways, but overall are still the same person.
Small town predicts my fate
The singer feels trapped and like they have no control over their destiny in the small town.
Perhaps that's what no one wants to see
The artist thinks that others don't want to acknowledge the limitations and constraints of small town life.
I just want to scream hello
The artist is eager to connect with the person they recognize and say hello.
My God it's been so long
The singer is amazed and shocked at how long it's been since they've seen the person they recognize.
Never dreamed you'd return
The singer is surprised by the unexpected return of the person they recognize.
But now here you are and here I am
The artist and the subject are both present and able to meet again.
Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group, Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: DAVE ABBRUZZESE, JEFF AMENT, STONE C GOSSARD, MICHAEL DAVID MCCREADY, EDDIE VEDDER
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LYRICS:
I seem to recognize your face
Haunting, familiar yet
I can't seem to place it
Cannot find the candle of thought to light your name
Lifetimes are catching up with me
All these changes taking place
I wish I'd seen the place
But no one's ever taken me
Hearts and thoughts they fade, fade away
Hearts and thoughts they fade, fade away
I swear, I recognize your breath
Memories like fingerprints are slowly raising
Me, you wouldn't recall for I'm not my former
It's hard when you're stuck upon the shelf
I changed by not changing at all
Small town predicts my fate
Perhaps that's what no one wants to see
I just want to scream hello
My God it's been so long
Never dreamed you'd return
But now here you are and here I am
Hearts and thoughts they fade away
Hearts and thoughts they fade, fade away
Hearts and thoughts they fade, fade away
Hearts and thoughts they fade away
Hearts and thoughts they fade, fade away
Hearts and thoughts they fade, fade away
Hearts and thoughts they fade, fade away
Hearts and thoughts they fade
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@thomaspeeno9253
I changed by not changing at all..
...I swear I recognize your breath...
...not my former...
Stuck up on a shelf...
Only Black moves me more.
Hearts and thoughts they fade.
Thanks Eddie. For deep uncountable reasons...thanks
@lehnsvier1971
I JUST WANT TO SCREAM HELLO
@romy4858
MY GOD IT'S BEEN SO LONG, NEVER DREAMED YOU'D RETURN
@purplequeen1727
But now here you are and here I ammmm...
@TrixieDevani
Oh, hello 🖐🏻
@jonreidinger1579
HI!!!!!!
@rcs4737
'Sup?!
@antmothirteen6540
I used to sing this song to my sons when they were infants. 93 & 99. Love you sons. Thank you for teaching me what life is really about.
@seanduddy3298
This is difently a drunkin comment..? love it 😅
@antmothirteen6540
@seanduddy3298 not in the least. This is a comment from an actual human being. That appreciates the only thing worthwhile he was ever given. They taught me. Maybe you can grow up someday too.
@MK-ki1wg
This takes me back. Makes me smile. Makes me cry. Every. Single. Time.