Giving You The Benefit
Pebbles Lyrics


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Lately I've been trying to figure out your mind
And why condition me poor little me
And why you have a change of heart turn it all around and then
Try to put it on me poor little me
Don't ya know I can make ya trip I can make things hard
But baby I believe that you've still got a heart that's why
I try to stop myself before I start 'cause I can make it tough
I can make it rough but won't

[Chorus]
And I'll be giving you the benefit of the doubt
Giving you a minute to try to work it all out
And I'll be giving you the benefit of the doubt
And I'll be giving you a minute to try to work it all out

Baby work it all work it all out
(Work, work, work)
Baby work it all work it all out
(Work, work, work) oooohh

Baby how could you be hangin' out on a diamond queen
Ain't you missin' me poor little me
When you knew all the time that you could have been
With your home girl lovin' and a
Kissin' on sweet little me

Don't you know if you want to be a man you
Gotta work real hard
If you want to make me feel like I'm your number one then
Nothin' in the world should make us part
'Cause we can make it work if you
Take it with the hurt from the heart

[Chorus]

Baby work it all work it all out
(Work, work, work)
Work it baby (work, work, work)
Keep tryin' to work it all out

I can make you trip but I choose not to
Inside of you I think there's still good in you boy
Don't gimmie no reason not to trust you
Just take the benefit don't gimme no lip and I'll be sweet to you
(1-2-3-4) Try to understand you right boy So you need some time (time) to
Work it out work it work it There's really no need to fuss and fight no
All I want is for you to try and work it out (1-2-3-4)

[Chorus]

(I'll be giving) I want to give it
Giving you the benefit
I want to give it giving you the benefit
(I'll be giving I want to give it giving you the benefit
I want to give it giving you the benefit




I'll be giving you a minute or two to try and work it out
But don't you take too long baby

Overall Meaning

In "Giving You The Benefit Of The Doubt," Pebbles expresses her frustration with her partner's behavior and how it has affected her. She wonders why he seems to have a change of heart and then tries to blame her for it, but she recognizes that he still has a heart and gives him the benefit of the doubt. Pebbles insists that she is capable of making him trip and making things hard for him, but she chooses not to because she believes there is still good in him. She encourages him to work it out, assuring him that she will be patient and understanding, but cautions him not to take too long.


It seems that Pebbles is tired of being blamed for everything that goes wrong in their relationship. She recognizes that they both have to work hard if they want to make it work, but she also believes that he still loves her. She wants to give him a chance to prove that he is still the man she fell in love with, but she is also ready to walk away if he doesn't want to put in the effort. In essence, the song is about trying to reconcile a troubled relationship and giving someone the benefit of the doubt.


Line by Line Meaning

Lately I've been trying to figure out your mind
I am attempting to understand your thoughts and feelings as of late


And why condition me poor little me
Why are you causing me to feel this way?


And why you have a change of heart turn it all around and then
Why did you have a change of heart and suddenly do something different?


Try to put it on me poor little me
You are attempting to blame me for your change of heart and actions


Don't ya know I can make ya trip I can make things hard
I have the ability to make things difficult for you


But baby I believe that you've still got a heart that's why
I still believe that you have a good heart


I try to stop myself before I start 'cause I can make it tough
I try to avoid making things difficult for you, even though I could


I can make it rough but won't
I have the ability to make things rough, but I choose not to


And I'll be giving you the benefit of the doubt
I will trust and believe in you, even when unsure


Giving you a minute to try to work it all out
I am allowing you time to figure things out


Baby how could you be hangin' out on a diamond queen
Why are you spending time with someone else?


Ain't you missin' me poor little me
Don't you miss me?


When you knew all the time that you could have been
You had the opportunity to be with me


With your home girl lovin' and a
With someone you are close to and love


Kissin' on sweet little me
Showing affection towards me


Don't you know if you want to be a man you
If you want to be a responsible and mature person


Gotta work real hard
You need to put in a lot of effort


If you want to make me feel like I'm your number one then
If you want me to feel like a priority


Nothin' in the world should make us part
Nothing should come between us


'Cause we can make it work if you
We have the ability to make things work if


Take it with the hurt from the heart
We handle it with heartfelt emotion


I can make you trip but I choose not to
I can make things difficult, but I choose not to


Inside of you I think there's still good in you boy
I still see good in you


Don't gimmie no reason not to trust you
Don't give me a reason to not trust you


Just take the benefit don't gimme no lip and I'll be sweet to you
Just accept my trust and I will be kind to you


Try to understand you right boy So you need some time (time) to
I am trying to properly comprehend your thoughts and feelings, so I understand you may need time


Work it out work it work it There's really no need to fuss and fight no
We should work it out without arguing


All I want is for you to try and work it out (1-2-3-4)
I just want us to fix this


I want to give it giving you the benefit
I want to trust and believe in you


I'll be giving you a minute or two to try and work it out
I will give you the time you need to fix things


But don't you take too long baby
But don't take too much time to fix things




Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC, Peermusic Publishing
Written by: ANTONIO REID, KENNETH BABYFACE EDMONDS, UNKNOWN COMPOSER AUTHOR

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@Tee-kk6tj

Pebbles hair stylist was on point her layers were EVERYTHING! It’s something you could wear today

@emmrivera8857

I copied this look lol in high school. I was only semi successful, my layers grew out and I went pinup.

@deewoo2776

And that was her R.E.A.L. hair. No weave or extensions. 😀

@Msboochie2

I tried to copy it in Junior High School, didn’t get it right until Junior year of high school.

@jasoncable8789

Her voice and beauty are mesmerizing.

@jasoncable8789

Some people are beautiful no matter what there wearing! However, with that said, I have wondered what she would look like with nothing close to my body.

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@ShyGuy83

Babyface is one of my favorite composer/producers of all time.

@beautiful80sladies22

As an 80s graduate I must say the women were beautiful......the hair, the heels, the classiness.....many clubs were dress to impress

@alexxio5369

90s , this Song came out in 1990

@sgrace7607

@@alexxio5369 1990 was still basically the 80s.

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