I Don't Know How To Love Him
Peggy Lee Lyrics


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I don't know how to love him
What to do, how to move him?
I've been changed, yes, really changed
In these past few days, when I see myself
I seem like someone else

I don't know how to take this
I don't see why he moves me
He's a man, he's just a man
And I've had so many men before
In very many ways, he's just one more

Should I bring him down?
Should I scream and shout?
Should I speak of love, let my feelings out?
I never thought I'd come to this
What's it all about?

Don't you think it's rather funny
That I should be in this position?
I'm the one who's always been running every show
He scares me so

I never thought I'd come to this
What's it all about?
What's it all about?

Yet, if he said he loved me
I'd be lost, I'd be frightened
I couldn't cope, just couldn't cope
I'd turn my head, I'd back away

I wouldn't want to know, he scares me so
I want him so, I love him so

Overall Meaning

In Peggy Lee's song "I Don't Know How To Love Him," the singer expresses her confusion and uncertainty about her feelings towards a man she has recently become involved with. She begins by acknowledging that she doesn't know how to love him or how to approach their relationship. She feels changed by their interaction, almost like she has become a different person. This highlights the impact he has had on her and how it has thrown her off balance.


The singer questions why this man affects her so deeply when he is just like any other man she has encountered before. She has had previous experiences with many men, but this one seems to have a profound effect on her. She wonders if she should try to bring him down, express her emotions, or let her feelings out. The confusion and desperation are evident as she finds herself in a situation she never expected to face.


The singer finds it ironic that she, the one who has always been in control, now finds herself in a position where she is unsure and vulnerable. She is used to being the one who runs the show, yet this man scares her. The sudden shift in power dynamics has left her feeling unsettled and out of her comfort zone.


Despite her fear, the singer admits that if he were to profess his love for her, she would be lost and frightened. This reveals the deep desire and love she feels for him, even though she struggles to understand and cope with these intense emotions. She confesses that she would turn her head and back away because the thought of fully accepting his love terrifies her. The juxtaposition of her fear and love for him creates a complex and conflicted emotional state within the singer.


In the end, the lyrics convey the singer's inner turmoil and the overwhelming emotions she experiences as she grapples with her love for this man. The song explores themes of self-discovery, vulnerability, and the fear of emotional intimacy. It captures the confusion and uncertainty that can arise when someone unexpectedly enters our lives and alters our sense of self and understanding of love.


Line by Line Meaning

I don't know how to love him
I am unsure of how to truly love him


What to do, how to move him?
I am uncertain of how to make him feel deeply and respond to my actions


I've been changed, yes, really changed
I have undergone a significant transformation, a real change within myself


In these past few days, when I see myself
Recently, as I reflect upon myself


I seem like someone else
I appear as a different person, someone unfamiliar to me


I don't know how to take this
I am unsure of how to handle this situation


I don't see why he moves me
I cannot understand why he evokes such strong emotions within me


He's a man, he's just a man
He is merely a man, nothing more or less


And I've had so many men before
I have experienced relationships with numerous men in the past


In very many ways, he's just one more
In many aspects, he is similar to the others I have encountered


Should I bring him down?
Should I try to diminish his significance or impact?


Should I scream and shout?
Should I express my emotions in a loud, forceful manner?


Should I speak of love, let my feelings out?
Should I openly confess my love and reveal my true emotions?


I never thought I'd come to this
I never expected to find myself in this situation


What's it all about?
What is the meaning or purpose of all of this?


Don't you think it's rather funny
Do you not find it somewhat ironic or amusing


That I should be in this position?
That I would find myself in such a predicament?


I'm the one who's always been running every show
I am usually the one in control and charge of everything


He scares me so
He instills fear and unease within me


Yet, if he said he loved me
However, if he were to express his love for me


I'd be lost, I'd be frightened
I would feel confused and scared


I couldn't cope, just couldn't cope
I would be incapable of dealing with the situation


I'd turn my head, I'd back away
I would physically and emotionally retreat from him


I wouldn't want to know, he scares me so
I would rather not acknowledge or be involved with him, as he generates fear within me


I want him so, I love him so
However, I still desire and possess strong feelings of love for him




Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group, Warner Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: Andrew Lloyd Webber, Tim Rice

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on Why Don't You Do Right (Get Me Some Money Too)

Why Don't You Do Right - Casey Abrams - Lyrics
You had plenty money 1922
You let other women make a fool of you
Why don't you do right, like some other men do?

Get out of here and get me some money too?
You're sitting there wondering what it's all about
You ain't got no money, they will throw you out
Why don't you do right, like some other men do?
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You had plenty money 1922
You let other women make a fool of you
Why don't you do right, like some other men do?
Get out of here and get me some money too?
Why don't you do right, like some other men do?
Why don't you do right, like some other men do?

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