Stop Hurting People
Pete Townshend Lyrics


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A love born once must soon be born again
A spark that burned, then died, leaving cinders to be fanned
By the wind and thrown to flame;
Flames like tongues impassioned in a moments burst.
Tell me friend - why do you stand aloof from your own heart?
The truth confronts you - the truth confronts you as the sea
Crushing without detail,
Impassioned and detached,
Killing with love and power in God's Name.
Love conquers poses. Love smashes stances. Love crushes angles
Into black. So you, without question, know your first love
Is your last. And you, will never - never - Love again
I always wished to walk with her into resteraunts, (A clammy tale).
To be seen beside her at the public bar footrail.
I always wanted to be matched with her -
Yet her beauty was so different to mine.
My "beauty" needs an understanding, a knowledge of what I am.
Hers is enough. Earned through eons; for that is what true beauty is -
Time's gift to perfect humility.
May I be matched with you again
I know the match is bad
But God help me -




May I be matched with you again
- without your match there is no flame

Overall Meaning

In the lyrics to Pete Townshend's song "Stop Hurting People," the songwriter touches on the complex nature of love, its cyclical nature and the constant struggle to reconcile the past with the present. The song is about the singer's desire to be reconciled with a lost love, but acknowledges that the match is not perfect. The lyrics reflect that the same powerful love that brings people together can also be destructive, and that in order to be truly happy, individuals must overcome their own fears and insecurities and be open to the possibility of love once again.


The song begins with the singer acknowledging that love is often fleeting and requires constant attention and effort to keep it alive. He describes a love that was once passionate but has since faded, leaving behind only the ashes of what once was. The lyrics suggest that the roots of love run deep and that even when the flame has died, the embers remain, waiting to be fanned into flames once again.


The singer then confronts his own fear of love, asking why he has stood aloof from his own heart. He suggests that the truth of love is both crushing and empowering, that it can be both detaching and impassioned. The lyrics offer a powerful statement about the nature of true love, suggesting that it is more than just a feeling or an emotion, but a force of nature that can transform our lives in unexpected ways.


Overall, the lyrics to Pete Townshend's "Stop Hurting People" offer a poignant exploration of the complexities of love, its power to heal and to destroy, and the enduring hope that despite our fears and insecurities, we can find love again.


Line by Line Meaning

A love born once must soon be born again
Love is not a one-time occurrence but a continuous rebirth.


A spark that burned, then died, leaving cinders to be fanned By the wind and thrown to flame;
Sometimes the love that dies can still be rekindled if the right conditions arise.


Flames like tongues impassioned in a moments burst.
The passion of love is intense and can ignite quickly but may not last long without effort.


Tell me friend - why do you stand aloof from your own heart?
Why hold back your feelings and not fully express your love?


The truth confronts you - the truth confronts you as the sea Crushing without detail, Impassioned and detached, Killing with love and power in God's Name.
The truth can be as powerful and destructive as the sea, but it can also bring about love and redemption.


Love conquers poses. Love smashes stances. Love crushes angles Into black.
Love is not about putting up a facade or maintaining appearances, but rather tearing down walls and being vulnerable.


So you, without question, know your first love Is your last. And you, will never - never - Love again
The first love can be the only love, and without it, one may never find love again.


I always wished to walk with her into resteraunts, (A clammy tale). To be seen beside her at the public bar footrail. I always wanted to be matched with her - Yet her beauty was so different to mine. My "beauty" needs an understanding, a knowledge of what I am. Hers is enough. Earned through eons; for that is what true beauty is - Time's gift to perfect humility.
True beauty is not just external but also comes from within and requires humility and acceptance of oneself and others.


May I be matched with you again I know the match is bad But God help me - May I be matched with you again - without your match there is no flame
Even if the match is not perfect, it is better than no match at all, as without love, life lacks passion and vitality.




Lyrics © Spirit Music Group
Written by: PETER DENNIS BLANDFOR TOWNSHEND

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