Relator
Pete Yorn & Scarlett Johansson Lyrics


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When I met you
I didn't know what to do
I was tired, I was hungry, I'd fight
Now I'm away
I write home every day
And I see you on the TV at night

You can see that
Life's for us to talk about
You can leave
Whenever you want out

You don't relate to me
No, girl
You don't respect me
No, girl
No, girl, yeah

When I met you
I didn't know what to do
But I noticed that I didn't really feel
Now you're away
You write home everyday
I don't beg, I don't borrow, I steal

You don't think that
Life's for us to talk about
You can leave
Whenever you want out
You want out

You don't relate to me
No, girl
You don't respect me
No, girl
You don't relate to me
No, girl
You don't respect me
No, girl
You don't relate to me
No, girl
You don't respect me




No, girl
No, girl, yeah

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to Pete Yorn & Scarlett Johansson's song "Relator" explore the complexities of a strained relationship that seems to be on the brink of ending. The first verse hints at how overwhelming life was for Yorn when he first met the girl, and how he didn't know what to do with his emotions. Despite this, they continued on, and now that they are apart, Yorn writes home every day and sees her on TV at night. The second verse flips the perspective, instead focusing on the girl now that she is away. She writes home to Yorn every day, but he doesn't beg or borrow, he steals. The last verse repeats the refrain of "you don't relate to me, no girl, you don't respect me," positing that perhaps they have grown too far apart to have a functional relationship.


The repeated refrain of "you don't relate to me, no girl, you don't respect me" is a powerful and emotional statement. It speaks to the heart of what can make or break a relationship, and how sometimes people just grow too far apart to meet in the middle. Additionally, the use of "girl" as a modifier emphasizes the youthful and romantic nature of their relationship, adding an almost nostalgic layer to the song. Overall, "Relator" is a delicate and emotional exploration of love, loss, and the sometimes painful reality of growing apart.


Line by Line Meaning

When I met you
At the time I first encountered you


I didn't know what to do
I was unsure how to react


I was tired, I was hungry, I'd fight
I was exhausted, starving, and combative


Now I'm away
Presently, I am not near you


I write home every day
I correspond daily with my loved ones


And I see you on the TV at night
I observe you on the television in the evening


You can see that
It should be clear to you


Life's for us to talk about
We ought to engage in conversations about existence


You can leave
You possess the option to depart


Whenever you want out
Depart whenever you desire


You don't relate to me
Our experiences and emotions do not connect


No, girl
This is not a positive situation, young woman


You don't respect me
You do not hold me in high regard


But I noticed that I didn't really feel
I realized that I was not truly experiencing emotions


Now you're away
Now you are not present


You write home every day
You compose letters frequently


I don't beg, I don't borrow, I steal
I do not request, I do not take loans, I pilfer


You don't think that
It appears you do not believe


You want out
You wish to depart




Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group
Written by: Peter J. Yorn

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Most interesting comments from YouTube:

Gma Moreno

When I met you,
I didn't know what to do. I was tired,
I was hungry,
I fight. Now I'm away,
I write home everyday and I see you on the TV at night.

You can see that life's for us to talk about.
You can leave whenever you want out.
Whoa.
You don't relate to me,
no girl,
you don't respect me,
no girl,
no girl. Oh yeah.

When I met you,
I didn't know what to do,
But I noticed that I didn't really feel.
Now you're away,
you write home everyday. I don't beg,
I don't borrow,
I steal.

You don't think that life's for us to talk about.
You can leave whenever you want out,
you want out. Well,
you don't relate to me,
no girl…



Rob

When I met you
I didn't know what to do
I was tired, I was hungry, I fight

Now I'm away
I write home everyday and I see you on the TV at night

You can see that life's for us to talk about
You can leave whenever you want out
Whoa

You don't relate to me, no girl
You don't respect me, no girl
No girl, oh yeah

When I met you
I didn't know what to do
But I noticed that I didn't really feel

Now you're away
You write home everyday
I don't beg, I don't borrow, I steal

You don't think that life's for us to talk about
You can leave whenever you want out
You want out

Well, you don't relate to me, no girl
You don't respect me, no girl
(You can leave when ever you want out)
And you don't relate to me, no girl
And you don't respect me, no girl

No you don't relate to me, no girl
And you don't respect me, no girl
No girl, yeah



All comments from YouTube:

huskie heart

I don't understand why this song didn't take off, it's amazing

Violet Sky

Because it’s actually not amazing, it sucks.

Udayan Gupta

@Violet Sky it sucks? Really?

MaryPoopins

In France it got really popular when I was a teenager! (10 years ago) I never realised Scarlette Johansson was this talented at singing!

julie Ball

In France this song is quite popular !

Stephane Lemoine

@Violet Sky 0

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Pete

I still come here a few times yearly. I love the entire album. Pete Yorn's an incredible musician. I do scoff at those who knock Scarlett, I mean, she's not trying to be or needs to be a Linda Rondstat. She's a very good vocalist and obviously has poise/charisma when performing.

Quinto Creations

Exactly

edward tye

She still sings better than most of the female singers now adays anyways

Terry James

Scarlett is great..special quality to her very good voice and very cool as a performer. She seems to get all kinds of negative vibes..I like her and think she's all kinds of cool and talented..

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