Objects Of My Affection
Peter Bjorn and John Lyrics


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I remember when, when I first moved here,
A long time ago,
'cause I heard some song I used to hear back then,
A lone time ago.
I remember when, even further back,
In another town,
'cause I saw something written I used to say back then,
Hard to comprehend

And the question is, was I more alive
Then than I am now?
I happily have to disagree;
I laugh more often now, I cry more often now,
I am more me.

But of cause some days, I just lie around
And hardly exist,
And can't tell apart what I'm eating
From my hand or my wrist.
'cause flesh is flesh, flesh as flesh as flesh,
The difference is thin.
But life has a certain ability or breathing new
Life into me,
So I breathe it in.
It says here we are, and we all are here,
And you still can make sense,
If you just show up and present an honest face,
Instead of that grin.

And the other day, this new friend of mine
Said something to me
"just because something starts differently,
Doesn't mean it's worth less."
And I soaked it in, how I soaked it in,
How I soaked it in
And just as to prove how right he was,
Then you came.
So I'm gonna give, yes I'm gonna give,
I'm gonna give you a try,




So I'm gonna give, yes I'm gonna give,
I'm gonna give you a try

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of Peter Bjorn and John's "Objects of My Affection" are reflective and are centered around memories and how they make us feel. It seems that the singer is going through an emotional journey, realizing that although memories of the past are valuable, they aren't necessarily where life is the most alive. The singer reminisces about the past, the music, the things they used to say, and tries to make sense of it all. They question whether they were more alive back then, which is an interesting point to ponder because it's a sentiment that is shared by many people at some point in their lives.


The singer also talks about how life has an amazing capacity to breathe new life into us, and how we should make the most of it. We all have these moments of existence where we're barely hanging on, and everything seems to blend together. The lyrics also talk about how "flesh is flesh" and that life has a way of making a distinction, of adding something more to the equation. The concluding paragraphs reveal that the singer has made a new friend who tells us that just because something starts differently doesn't mean it's worth less. The singer takes this advice to heart and decides to give a new love interest a try.


Line by Line Meaning

I remember when, when I first moved here,
I recall the time when I arrived at this place for the first time.


A long time ago, 'cause I heard some song I used to hear back then,
It was quite some time ago when I was here last time and heard a song that felt familiar.


A lone time ago. I remember when, even further back,
It was even longer ago when I saw something written that I used to relate to.


In another town, 'cause I saw something written I used to say back then,
In a different place, I came across some written words that had a lot of significance for me then.


Hard to comprehend
It's challenging to understand the memories from the past and how they connect to where I am now.


And the question is, was I more alive Then than I am now?
I wonder if I was more vibrant, alive and active in the past compared to my current time now.


I happily have to disagree; I laugh more often now, I cry more often now, I am more me.
I truly disagree with the previous question as I laugh, cry, and express my most authentic self more often now.


But of cause some days, I just lie around And hardly exist, And can't tell apart what I'm eating From my hand or my wrist.
Although on some days I may not be as active and present, especially when it comes to small details like distinguishing what I am eating from my own body parts.


'cause flesh is flesh, flesh as flesh as flesh, The difference is thin.
Even though there's a difference between the flesh that makes up our body parts, it's still very similar to each other overall.


But life has a certain ability or breathing new Life into me, So I breathe it in.
Life has the power of renewing and refreshing me, so I choose to embrace it fully.


It says here we are, and we all are here, And you still can make sense, If you just show up and present an honest face, Instead of that grin.
We are all here and can still connect to each other in a meaningful way by showing up authentically instead of putting up a facade.


And the other day, this new friend of mine Said something to me "just because something starts differently, Doesn't mean it's worth less."
Recently, a new friend shared a valuable lesson with me that just because something has a different beginning, it doesn't mean it's less valuable or important.


And I soaked it in, how I soaked it in, How I soaked it in
I soaked in the message deeply and took it to heart.


And just as to prove how right he was, Then you came.
As if to support my friend's statement, you arrived and proved that anything can have true worth and value.


So I'm gonna give, yes I'm gonna give, I'm gonna give you a try, So I'm gonna give, yes I'm gonna give, I'm gonna give you a try
Because of this realization and newfound perspective, I choose to give you a chance and see what value you have to offer.




Lyrics © O/B/O APRA AMCOS
Written by: BJORN YTTLING, JOHN ERIKSSON, PETER MOREN

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Most interesting comment from YouTube:

@chaoticwriterchaoticflux

I remember when, when I first moved here
A long time ago
'Cause I heard some song I used to hear back then
A long time ago

I remember when, even further back
In another town
'Cause I saw something written I used to say back then
Hard to comprehend

And the question is, was I more alive then than I am now?
I happily have to disagree
I laugh more often now, I cry more often now
I am more me

But of course some days, I just lie around
And hardly exist
And can't tell apart what I'm eating
From my hand or my wrist

'Cause flesh is flesh, flesh is, flesh is flesh
The difference is thin
But life has a certain ability or beating new life into me
So I breathe it in

It says here we are, and we all are here
And you still can make sense
If you just show up and present an honest face
Instead of that grin

And the question is, was I more alive then than I am now?
I happily have to disagree
I laugh more often now, I cry more often now
I am more me

And the other day, this new friend of mine
Said something to me
"Just because something starts differently
Doesn't mean it's worth less"

And I soaked it in, how I soaked it in
How I soaked it in
And just as to prove how right he was
Then you came

So I'm gonna give, yes, I'm gonna give
I'm gonna give you a try
So I'm gonna give, yes, I'm gonna give
I'm gonna give you a try

And the question is, was I more alive then than I am now?
I happily have to disagree
I laugh more often now, I cry more often now
I am more me



All comments from YouTube:

@QUEERVEEART

"I laugh more often now, I cry more often now, I am more me"

so human <3

@Sphere-Friend

To be human is to give into your vulnerabilities. They are what makes us, us.

@Emy-fv5ny

So beautiful.

@lordblazer

yea I come back to this song time and time again. I got into this when it first came out

@Don1970

"And the question is, was I more alive then than I am now? I happily have to disagree; I laugh more often now, I cry more often now, I am more me." Wow...I love this song very much.

@clavididk1236

This song helps me remind myself I'm on the right path and not a junkie anymore. 🤙🏻😁

@Emy-fv5ny

Good for you! 😊

@clavididk1236

@@Emy-fv5ny thx 🙏

@hobodarkness7696

Good job brotha im proud of you ❤❤❤

@clavididk1236

@@hobodarkness7696 thanks homie

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