Starvin' to Death
Peter Wolf Lyrics


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She's always coming too close
I wish she'd leave me alone
But I want her to stay
By the length of my arm
Or a 20-foot pole
I keep her away

The more that she gives me
The hungrier I get
But I would not give an inch
If I were starvin' to death

And every message I send
I have to send out in code
Just to cover my tracks
And I can't understand
How she knows what she knows
She should be facing the facts

It's a sad, sad story
Like the one in Macbeth
And I'll never, never let her know
That I'm starvin' to death

There are times when I call her
She answers the phone, she knows
She calls out my name
And waits for my voice
But I don't say a word, not a word

And pretty soon I'm guessing
She'll be saving her breath

And I'll never say a word
'Cause I'm starvin' to death

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to Peter Wolf's song Starvin' To Death describe the conflict between the singer's desire for independence and his attraction to someone who he wishes would leave him alone. He wants her to stay, but only at a distance--the length of his arm or a 20-foot pole--because he can't resist her, even though the more she gives him, the hungrier he gets. He sends messages in code to cover his tracks, but he can't understand how she knows what she knows. The sad irony of the situation is that the singer is so starved for emotional connection that he is unable to let go of this person, even though it is clear that they are not right for him.


The song is structured around a central metaphor of starvation, which is used to convey the intensity of the singer's longing. He is "starvin' to death," not in a literal sense, but in an emotional one--he is so deprived of love and affection that he feels like he is dying. This metaphor is reinforced by the use of Macbeth as a reference point--like the tragic hero of Shakespeare's play, the singer is consumed by his own desires and unable to break free from them.


Overall, the lyrics to Starvin' To Death speak to the universal human experience of longing for love and connection, even when it is not healthy or fulfilling. The metaphor of starvation is a powerful one, underscoring the intensity of the singer's feelings and the depth of his need.


Line by Line Meaning

She's always coming too close
The person in question is always invading my personal space.


I wish she'd leave me alone
I do not want her to come near or talk to me as it makes me uncomfortable.


But I want her to stay
I do have feelings for her but I am also struggling to deal with them.


By the length of my arm
I try to keep her away from me at all times by extending my arm as far as I can.


Or a 20-foot pole
I would rather keep her away by any means necessary such as a long stick.


I keep her away
I do not let her come close to me due to my personal problems.


The more that she gives me
The more affection and attention she gives me, the more I want from her.


The hungrier I get
I am becoming more and more dependent on her love and attention as time passes.


But I would not give an inch
I am not willing to compromise on my personal space or communication with her.


If I were starvin' to death
Even if I was extremely desperate and in need of her love, I wouldn't let her know.


And every message I send
I communicate with her in secret and code as I do not want her to know what I am going through.


I have to send out in code
I encode my messages to keep them hidden from her.


Just to cover my tracks
I take extra measures to ensure that she does not find out about my personal struggles.


And I can't understand
It is beyond my comprehension how she knows about my troubles, despite my efforts to hide them.


How she knows what she knows
I am confused as to how she is so good at reading my emotions and problems.


She should be facing the facts
She should realize that I am not ready or comfortable discussing my issues with her.


It's a sad, sad story
What I am going through is a very sad and difficult situation.


Like the one in Macbeth
My situation is similar to that of the tragic story in Macbeth.


And I'll never, never let her know
I will always keep my issues hidden from her and not discuss them with her.


That I'm starvin' to death
Even though I desperately need her love and attention, I will not let her know as it makes me uncomfortable.


There are times when I call her
There are moments when I do reach out to her for help or comfort.


She answers the phone, she knows
She always answers my calls and knows it is me calling.


She calls out my name
She greets me and calls my name hoping for a response from me.


And waits for my voice
She is expecting to hear from me and waits for a response from me.


But I don't say a word, not a word
Despite reaching out to her, I still cannot bring myself to discuss my personal problems.


And pretty soon I'm guessing
I am assuming that soon she will stop waiting for me to respond to her calls.


She'll be saving her breath
She will become tired of waiting for me and will stop calling out to me.


And I'll never say a word
I will continue to keep my personal struggles hidden from her, even if it means losing her in the process.


'Cause I'm starvin' to death
Even though I need her love and attention to heal, I still cannot expose my vulnerability to her.




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