1st Things 1st
Phantom Planet Lyrics


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You should get your story straight, before I start to doubt it
'Cause if you've worn your lipstick off, I want to hear about it
And telling me would be such a breeze, say it if you want to leave
I think I'm getting the drift

You want some time with your friends, on the nights and weekends
You take the time for yourself both of us used to spend
Before you make it better, before you make it worse
First things first

I don't think it's an accident, you treat me like a dummy
Hold on, hold on
Well I've been asking for the truth, at least just tell me something
Hold on, hold on
And telling me would be such a breeze, let me know, don't let me be
It's almost too easy

I'm holding you by the hand, more like the nape of your neck
Why don't you draw up a list you have to frequently check?
And put some things in order and lose it in your purse
First things first

I'm holding you by the hand, more like the nape of your neck
Well what your trouble is, you have to frequently check
And put some things in order and lose it in your purse
First things first

You spend all that time with your friends on every night and weekend
You take the time for yourself both of us used to spend
Before you make it better, before you make it worse

First things
First things




First things
First things first

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of "1st Things 1st" by Phantom Planet talk about a conflicted relationship in which the singer is questioning the honesty of their partner. They want their partner to be truthful and straightforward with them about why they are spending less time with them and more with their friends. The singer seems frustrated that their partner is avoiding explaining the situation directly to them and asks them to "get their story straight" before they start to doubt the relationship. The refrain of "first things first" emphasizes that the truth needs to be laid out before any progress can be made in the relationship.


Throughout the song, there is a sense of tension and frustration as the singer tries to get to the bottom of what is going on. They mention holding their partner by the hand and the nape of their neck, suggesting a physical need to be close to them and understand what is happening. The line "draw up a list you have to frequently check" implies that their partner may be avoiding addressing the situation head-on and needs to take charge of their own emotions and actions in order for the relationship to work.


Line by Line Meaning

You should get your story straight, before I start to doubt it
Make sure your explanation is clear and truthful, or else I will begin to question it


'Cause if you've worn your lipstick off, I want to hear about it
If you've been out doing something, I need to know the truth


And telling me would be such a breeze, say it if you want to leave
Being honest with me should be easy, especially if you want to end things between us


I think I'm getting the drift
I'm starting to understand what's going on


You want some time with your friends, on the nights and weekends
You want to spend some time with your friends on weekends and nights


You take the time for yourself both of us used to spend
You are now taking time for yourself that we used to spend together


Before you make it better, before you make it worse
Before things get any better or worse, we need to address what's going on


First things first
We need to deal with the most important issues first


I don't think it's an accident, you treat me like a dummy
I don't believe it's a coincidence that you're treating me like I'm unintelligent


Hold on, hold on
Wait a minute


Well I've been asking for the truth, at least just tell me something
I've been asking you to be honest with me, so please tell me something


And telling me would be such a breeze, let me know, don't let me be
Telling me the truth should be simple, so please don't keep me in the dark


It's almost too easy
Being honest with me is so simple, it's almost suspiciously easy


I'm holding you by the hand, more like the nape of your neck
I'm being forceful with you, grabbing you by the neck like I'm trying to control you


Why don't you draw up a list you have to frequently check?
Why don't you make a list of things you need to do regularly to make sure everything is in order?


And put some things in order and lose it in your purse
Organize the list, and keep it somewhere safe and convenient so you can refer to it regularly


First things first
We need to deal with the most important issues first


You spend all that time with your friends on every night and weekend
You're devoting a lot of time to your friends on weekends and nights


You take the time for yourself both of us used to spend
You are now taking time for yourself that we used to spend together


Before you make it better, before you make it worse
Before things get any better or worse, we need to address what's going on


First things
We need to deal with the most important issues first


First things
We need to deal with the most important issues first


First things
We need to deal with the most important issues first


First things first
We need to deal with the most important issues first




Lyrics © Kobalt Music Publishing Ltd.
Written by: Alexander Greenwald

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