Access Me
Phish Lyrics


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The first time I came over I was bitten by your dog
You weren't even there 'cause you were walking in the fog
I call you up and plead and beg and talk to your machine
My friends say not to bother when you're acting pretty mean

But I don't need to bother you, no I won't play that part
I just want access to the inside of your heart
Access to your thoughts on the way that I should be
So I could start to change and maybe you could access me

Access me, access me

You could tell me all about all the things you did at work
The guy who sits beside you and how he's acting like a jerk
And you don't have to open up the secrets of your soul
But if that's the place you want me I'd be glad to pay the toll

But I don't need to bother you, no I won't play that part
I just want access to the inside of your heart
Access to your thoughts on the way that I should be
So I could start to change and maybe you could access me





Access me

Overall Meaning

Phish's "Access Me" is a love song that ponders the idea of access and communication between two individuals. In the first verse, the singer recalls a time when he was bitten by his lover's dog. He pleads with her through her answering machine, even though his friends tell him not to bother. This highlights his willingness to ignore the suggested norms and pursue his heart's desires. In the chorus, the singer expresses his wish to gain access to his lover's heart to understand their thoughts and feelings. He wants to know how he can change to be a better partner and hopes that she will also have access to his emotions in return.


In the second verse, the singer desires to hear about his lover's daily experience at work. He acknowledges that he does not need to know everything about her, but he is willing to pay a toll to get intimate access to her innermost thoughts. The song's central theme is access and what it means for a successful relationship. The singer is looking for a way to connect with his lover on a deeper level, and he is willing to make changes to do so. The song implies that communication is the foundation of any successful relationship.


Line by Line Meaning

The first time I came over I was bitten by your dog
During my first visit, I got bitten by your dog, and you weren't there as you were absent-mindedly wandering in the fog.


I call you up and plead and beg and talk to your machine
I call you on the phone, begging and pleading, and leave messages on your answering machine.


My friends say not to bother when you're acting pretty mean
My friends advise me not to pursue you when you're being cruel and unkind.


But I don't need to bother you, no I won't play that part
I don't want to trouble or harass you, so I won't act that way.


I just want access to the inside of your heart
I only want to understand what's going on inside your heart and mind.


Access to your thoughts on the way that I should be
I want your perspective on how I should change myself to fit your desires.


So I could start to change and maybe you could access me
I hope that by changing myself, you'll be drawn to connect with me on a deeper level.


You could tell me all about all the things you did at work
You could share with me the mundane details of your workday.


The guy who sits beside you and how he's acting like a jerk
You could complain to me about your annoying coworker.


And you don't have to open up the secrets of your soul
You don't need to reveal your deepest, darkest secrets to me.


But if that's the place you want me I'd be glad to pay the toll
However, if that's where you're willing to let me in, I'm willing to go the extra mile.


Access me, access me
I want you to access my heart and mind in the same way I want to access yours.




Lyrics © Downtown Music Publishing
Written by: MIKE GORDON

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Comments from YouTube:

Clyde Glyde

Love this too much. Heard this song at alpine as a kid and it never left me.

Daniel A

I was soooo happy to hear this saturday night at Dick's!

Joseph Meyers

Same! I was at this Alpine show too and LOVE this song.

HipCrew167

This song is awesome.

Eric Voigt

Play this more.

Dave Leafey

Phish in AC tonight & tomorrow!!!!!

Cool Breeze

who else wishes they'd pan over to page when he lays it the fuck down?

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