It's So Easy
Plain White T's Lyrics


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Tell me what you want from me
And I will do my best to please
Pleasing's all I ever do
'cause they all expect me to
And everybody thinks I'm strong
But they don't know what's going on
They don't know what's on my mind
I fall behind

Tell me to be what they want me to be
Everybody thinks that it's so easy
Sometimes it seems like there's two sides of me
Everybody thinks it's so easy being me

Tell me what you want to know
And I will do my best to show
Everything you ever need
Don't be concerned with me
'cause everybody thinks I'm fine
But they don't even to take the time
To find out who I really am
They don't understand

Tell me to be what they want me to be
Everybody thinks that it's so easy
Sometimes it seems like there's two sides of me
Everybody thinks it's so easy being me

Well tell me what to be
And don't pretend to care when you're not even there
You think that it's so easy

Tell me to be what they want me to be
Everybody thinks that it's so easy
Sometimes it seems like there's two sides of me
Everybody thinks that it's so easy

Tell me to be
Everybody thinks that it's so easy




Sometimes it seems
Everybody thinks it's so easy being me

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of Plain White T's's "It's So Easy" centers around feeling overwhelmed and powerless due to the expectations and perceptions others have of the singer. The singer feels like he is constantly trying to please others, and that is all he can do. He is struggling with the weight of their expectations, and no one is taking the time to understand him or his struggles.


Despite how everyone else sees him as strong and capable, he feels like he is falling behind and has two sides to him, which create an inner conflict. He is asking people to tell him what they want him to be because he doesn't even know who he is anymore. He's made to feel that being the person others want him to be is easy, but it's not. The singer is not even sure that the people demanding him to be certain ways care about him or his feelings.


The song's lyrics convey the emotional weight that comes with constantly feeling like a people-pleaser and hiding one's true feelings. The chorus's repetition of "everybody thinks it's so easy" shows how the singer's struggle is belittled by others who don't understand.


Line by Line Meaning

Tell me what you want from me
Ask me for whatever you want and I will try my best to satisfy you


And I will do my best to please
I will put in all efforts to make you happy and satisfied


Pleasing's all I ever do
Making others happy is the only thing I am known for


'cause they all expect me to
Everyone around me expects me to maintain their happiness


And everybody thinks I'm strong
People believe me to be powerful and capable


But they don't know what's going on
They are unaware of my emotional state


They don't know what's on my mind
Nobody understands my thoughts or feelings


I fall behind
I struggle to keep up with the expectations and demands of others


Tell me to be what they want me to be
People instruct me to take on their preferred persona


Everybody thinks that it's so easy
Others assume that it is effortless for me to satisfy them


Sometimes it seems like there's two sides of me
I feel as if there are two versions of myself: one that pleases others and another that reveals my true self


Tell me what you want to know
Ask me any questions that you have and I will do my best to answer them


And I will do my best to show
I will demonstrate or exhibit anything you require of me


Everything you ever need
I will provide anything that you may require


Don't be concerned with me
Do not worry about my well-being or feelings


'cause everybody thinks I'm fine
People assume that there are no issues with my state of being


But they don't even to take the time
They do not spend enough effort and time to understand me


To find out who I really am
They fail to see my true personality and individuality


They don't understand
Nobody comprehends my thoughts, feelings or situation


Well tell me what to be
Instruct me to take on any role or personality that you desire


And don't pretend to care when you're not even there
Do not pretend to care about me when you are not physically present with me


You think that it's so easy
You believe that pleasing you and others is simple for me


Tell me to be
Instruct me to take on any personality or role


Everybody thinks that it's so easy
Everyone perceives that it is effortless for me to satisfy people


Sometimes it seems
I often feel that others do not understand or care for me properly


Everybody thinks it's so easy being me
People believe that it is simple for me to handle the expectations and demands of others




Lyrics © Warner Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: TOM HIGGENSON

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@naveedahmed8835

Still bumping this in 2020. Plain White T’s was the band that got me into making music myself, like 13 years ago

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