Control
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Don't you mess with a little girl's dream
'Cause she's liable to grow up mean

Surprised you to find that I'm laughing?
You thought that you'd find me in tears
You thought I'd be crawling the walls
Like a tiny mosquito and trembling in fear
Well you may be king for the moment
But I am a queen understand
And I've got your pawns and your bishops
And castles
All inside the palm of my hand

While you were looking the other way
While you had your eyes closed
While you were licking your lips
'Cause I was miserable
While you were selling your soul
While you were tearing a hole in me

I was taking control

Now I have taken control
Now I have taken control...

This is beginning to feel good
Watching you squirm in your shoes
A small bead of sweat on your brow
And a growl in your belly your scared to let through

You thought you could keep me from loving
You thought you could feed on my soul
But while you were busy destroying my life
What was half in me has become whole

While you were looking the other way
While you had your eyes closed
While you were licking your lips
'Cause I was miserable
While you were selling your soul
While you were tearing a hole in me

I was taking control

Now I have taken control
Now I have taken control...

So this is how it feels
To breath in the summer air
The feel the sand between my toes
And love inside my ear
All those things that you taught me to fear
I've got them in my garden now
And your not welcome here

Come a little bit closer
Let me look at you
I gave you the benefit
Of the doubt it's true
But keep in mind my darling
Not every saint is a fool

While you were looking the other way
While you had your eyes closed
While you were licking your lips
'Cause I was miserable
While you were selling your soul
While you were tearing a hole in me

I was taking control

Now I have taken control
Now I have taken control...

Don't you mess with me

Father: there has to be more to life than this, because in our
confrontation with a cold cold universe, there is something comical
to the idea that we can really impose our will on humanity-- power corrupts!

Daughter :
This is scaring me

Father and daughter 2:

Daughter : ...I live at the end of a 5 and 1/2 minute hallway

Father:
And at the end of it all lies of course the final
phenomenon of deterioration entropy, which is a predictable
disintegrations which the creative life ceases: everything has to fall apart.





Daughter:
Why are you always so serious?!

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of Poe's song Control depict a woman who has taken control of her life after being mistreated by a man. She warns that one should not mess with a little girl's dream because it could make her grow up mean. The man thought he could break her down, but instead she has taken control of her life, and now she's laughing at him. She compares herself to a queen who has control over the man's pawns, bishops, and castles. While the man was busy tearing her apart, she was taking control of her life. She is now feeling good while watching the man squirm in his shoes. Everything that the man taught her to fear, she now has in her life, and he is not welcome there.


The song is a powerful message of independence and taking control of one's life. The lyrics resonate with anyone who has experienced mistreatment from others and has had enough. The song reminds the listener that they are in charge of their own life, and they have the power to take control and no longer be a victim.


Line by Line Meaning

Don't you mess with a little girl's dream 'Cause she's liable to grow up mean
Do not interfere or try to manipulate someone's aspirations or hopes, especially if it is a girl, because it can lead to a fierce and vengeful reaction.


Surprised you to find that I'm laughing? You thought that you'd find me in tears You thought I'd be crawling the walls Like a tiny mosquito and trembling in fear
Are you amazed to see me happy? You assumed that I would be weeping and depressed, but instead, I am strong and fearless.


Well you may be king for the moment But I am a queen understand And I've got your pawns and your bishops And castles All inside the palm of my hand
Although you may have temporary power, I am the real ruler here, and I have all of your subordinates right where I want them.


While you were looking the other way While you had your eyes closed While you were licking your lips 'Cause I was miserable While you were selling your soul While you were tearing a hole in me I was taking control Now I have taken control Now I have taken control...
While you were not paying attention, neglectful, or maliciously trying to harm me, I was becoming stronger and taking charge of my life, now I have complete command.


This is beginning to feel good Watching you squirm in your shoes A small bead of sweat on your brow And a growl in your belly you're scared to let through
Finally, it feels satisfying to witness you uncomfortable and uneasy, with a mixture of sweat on your forehead and a suppressed growl of anxiety and danger within you.


You thought you could keep me from loving You thought you could feed on my soul But while you were busy destroying my life What was half in me has become whole
You presumed that you could prevent me from experiencing love, and also attempt to consume and destroy me, but instead, your efforts have led to my transformation into a complete and fulfilled person.


So this is how it feels To breath in the summer air The feel the sand between my toes And love inside my ear All those things that you taught me to fear I've got them in my garden now And you're not welcome here
I am now savouring the peaceful and joyous moments in life and experiencing everything that you once made me frightened of, including enjoying nature and delighting in love, which I have cultivated within me, and you no longer have access to my life.


Come a little bit closer Let me look at you I gave you the benefit Of the doubt it's true But keep in mind my darling Not every saint is a fool
Step closer; let me examine your face. It is clear that I tried to give you the benefit of the doubt, but do not forget, my dear, not every person who seems virtuous is a naive or easily deceived individual.


Don't you mess with me
Do not cause problems or try to hurt me, as I have now taken control of the situation and I am capable of defending myself effectively.


...I live at the end of a 5 and 1/2 minute hallway
I exist in a place where everything is coming to an end, where time is running out, and where changes are inevitable.


And at the end of it all lies of course the final phenomenon of deterioration entropy, which is a predictable disintegrations which the creative life ceases: everything has to fall apart.
Regardless of what happens, the eventual outcome is always the same: the universe will come to an end. This is due to an essential principle called entropy, where everything dissolves and dissipates into chaos, leading even creative existences to decay.


Why are you always so serious?!
I do not comprehend why you are always so grave and pessimistic about everything, since life is meant to be enjoyed and lived to its fullest, not to be burdened by constant seriousness.




Lyrics © Kobalt Music Publishing Ltd.
Written by: ADKINS, DANIELEWSKI, SKARD

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Don't you mess with a little girl's dream
'Cause she's liable to grow up mean

Surprised you to find that I'm laughing?
You thought that you'd find me in tears
You thought I'd be crawling the walls
Like a tiny mosquito and trembling in fear

Well you may be king for the moment
But I am a queen understand
And I've got your pawns and your bishops
And castles
All inside the palm of my hand

While you were looking the other way
While you had your eyes closed
While you were licking your lips
'Cause I was miserable
While you were selling your soul
While you were tearing a hole in me

I was taking control

Now I have taken control
Now I have taken control...

This is beginning to feel good
Watching you squirm in your shoes
A small bead of sweat on your brow
And a growl in your belly your scared to let through

You thought you could keep me from loving
You thought you could feed on my soul
But while you were busy destroying my life
What was half in me has become whole

While you were looking the other way
While you had your eyes closed
While you were licking your lips
'Cause I was miserable
While you were selling your soul
While you were tearing a hole in me

I was taking control

Now I have taken control
Now I have taken control...

So this is how it feels
To breath in the summer air
The feel the sand between my toes
And love inside my ear
All those things that you taught me to fear
I've got them in my garden now
And your not welcome here

Come a little bit closer
Let me look at you
I gave you the benefit
Of the doubt it's true
But keep in mind my darling
Not every saint is a fool

While you were looking the other way
While you had your eyes closed
While you were licking your lips
'Cause I was miserable
While you were selling your soul
While you were tearing a hole in me

I was taking control

Now I have taken control
Now I have taken control...

Don't you mess with me

Father: there has to be more to life than this, because in our
confrontation with a cold cold universe, there is something comical
to the idea that we can really impose our will on humanity-- power corrupts!

Daughter :
This is scaring me

Father and daughter 2:

Daughter : ...I live at the end of a 5 and 1/2 minute hallway

Father:
And at the end of it all lies of course the final
phenomenon of deterioration entropy, which is a predictable
disintegrations which the creative life ceases: everything has to fall apart.

Daughter:
Why are you always so serious?!



All comments from YouTube:

mj carollson

This one song helped me through an abusive childhood and is always there when I have the occasional relapse. I'll probably never get to thank Poe in person, but I hope she knows how impactful her work has been on others!

Mariah J

same

darkangelcl4

same here

Sarah Wilson

mj carollson yup!

Brian Kerrigan

Shoot, it could have helped me. But, it wasn't around during my childhood. Plus, I am a guy. So, I am not allowed to need something to get me through my childhood. Fuck society!!!

Nicole McAuly

Agreed... I still turn to this song for strength

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Alex Mosher

This poetic vocal expression has been vital to my fierce, feminine metamorphosis. You might think you are powerless when an insecure man tries to cut your wings off and mold you into an entity you were never destined to be. If you are a wild woman at heart and your soul is in famine with natural instincts that are not being met, while you wait to escape your capture- prepare your spirit for the beautiful, mystical, unknown journey to the places that revivify and call out to your heart. Don't doubt yourself because of the oppressive society you live in and be bold and righteous to discover your innate true self. Be kind to yourself. Much love

Stew

I saw Poe when they opened up for Depeche Mode back in 2001. Over the years I’ve waited for her to release new material but she was fighting with the label. Always thought she was good

Orpheusftw

Great song. I just played Apocalypse, and got a a load of 90s nostalgia.

Stephen Paddock

I didn't know I'd find you here =)

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