When You Get to Know Me Better
Prefab Sprout Lyrics


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I can tell you'd like to love me,
But you haven't known me long
And you don't yet know the ways I'll find
To hurt and do you wrong
I'm a man with one small weakness,
Any woman in a dress
When you get to know me better
You'll learn to love me less

Tonight if I'm your angel
And I've flown before you wake
Well it's just that I would hate to let you see my wings are fake
Tonight if I'm your angel
One that God forgot to bless
When you get to know me better
You'll learn to love me less

If I sing you, 'Love me Tender'
In a way that you believe
Remember that I'll mean it
Till the moment that I leave

What I have to tell you,
I know in time you'll guess
When you get to know me better
You'll learn to love me less




When you get to know me better
You'll learn to love me less

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of Prefab Sprout's song, "When You Get to Know Me Better," explore the idea of self-doubt and the fear of revealing one's true self in a new relationship. The song's narrator admits that he longs for love, but is cautious about revealing himself because he knows that he is flawed and may hurt the woman he desires. He acknowledges his weakness for women and the way he can be hurtful, which is why he believes that as she discovers more about him, she will come to love him less.


The metaphor of the angel with fake wings highlights the fear of being exposed as someone who is not perfect. The line "One that God forgot to bless" emphasizes the singer's sense of unworthiness and suggests that he may be prone to making mistakes. The repeated verse "When you get to know me better, you'll learn to love me less" emphasizes the fear of rejection and the belief that others will inevitably see the flaws and negativity in him.


The song captures the vulnerability of falling in love and the fear of being unlovable. The singer recognizes that he wants love but understands the risks that come with it. The ending line suggests that the person may still cling onto the hope that someone will still love them, even with all their flaws and difficulties.


Line by Line Meaning

I can tell you'd like to love me,
I am aware that you desire to love me


But you haven't known me long
However, we haven't spent enough time together


And you don't yet know the ways I'll find
You are unaware of the methods I may find


To hurt and do you wrong
That could potentially cause harm to you


I'm a man with one small weakness,
My only vulnerability is with a woman who wears a dress


Any woman in a dress
I find any woman wearing a dress irresistible


When you get to know me better
As you get to know me better


You'll learn to love me less
It is probable that you will begin to love me less


Tonight if I'm your angel
This evening, If I am the one you cherish


And I've flown before you wake
And I leave before you wake up


Well it's just that I would hate to let you see my wings are fake
This is because, I do not want to reveal my insincerity


One that God forgot to bless
I consider myself undeserving of divine grace


If I sing you, 'Love me Tender'
In a case where I serenade you with 'Love Me Tender'


In a way that you believe
In a manner that convinces you


Remember that I'll mean it
Be mindful that I am sincere


Till the moment that I leave
For the duration of my stay


What I have to tell you,
What I am to reveal to you,


I know in time you'll guess
You will eventually discover on your own


When you get to know me better
As you get to know me better


You'll learn to love me less
It is likely that you will develop less affection for me


When you get to know me better
At a point when you know me more intimately


You'll learn to love me less
You may possibly lose some of your love for me




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Edvard Couto

Quando penso conhecer sou surpreendido por mais uma fantástica e espetacular composição. Obrigado Paddy por mais essa. Prefab Sprout Forever!

Diego Roman

Muy buen tema e interprete. Tienen muy buenas canciones este grupo!!

Rita Oliveira

Maravilhosa

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