Have You Seen Her Lately?
Pulp Lyrics


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First you let him in your bed.
Now he's moved inside your head.
And he directs all the dreams you are dreaming.
I saw a friend of yours today,
she called me over just to say,
"I dunno if you've seen her lately but God she's looking rough".

No don't go round to see him tonight,
he's already made such a mess of your life.
Find something else to do with your time,
and do it quickly while you've still got the chance.

Do you think he'll fall apart?
Do you think you'll break his heart?
If you leave him on his own.
You are dreaming.
'cause he can fasten all his clothes,
tie his laces,
blow his nose.
It's time to teach him how to walk,
yeah, teach your baby how to walk away.

No don't go round to see him tonight,
he's already made such a mess of your life.
Find something else to do with your time,
and do it quickly while you've still got the chance.

You're not his mother,
you're not sister & brother.
He's not even your lover.
He's just a piece of luggage you should throw away.

No don't go round to see him tonight,
he's already made such a mess of your life.
Find something else to do with your time,
and do it quickly while you've still got the chance.

No don't go round tonight,
you'll never make it right.
He's already made such a mess of your life.




Find something else to do with your time,
and do it quickly while you've still got the chance.

Overall Meaning

The song "Have You Seen Her Lately" by Pulp is a cautionary tale of a woman who has become involved with a man who is toxic and controlling. The first few lines indicate that the man has managed to infiltrate the woman's thoughts and dreams, indicating that he has a significant hold over her. The singer then mentions a friend who has seen the woman recently and noted that she is not doing well, presumably due to the relationship. The chorus then repeats the message of warning to the woman not to go see the man tonight and to find something else to do with her time.


The second verse suggests that the woman may be considering leaving the man but is perhaps worried about how he will fare without her. The singer dismisses this concern as the man is capable of taking care of himself and performing basic tasks such as dressing himself and blowing his nose. The final verse offers a final push for the woman to leave the man behind, as he is not family nor a true romantic partner and is better off leaving behind.


Overall, the song offers a powerful warning against getting involved with people who have the potential to bring chaos and negativity into one's life. It can be interpreted as a warning to women to be wary of men who attempt to control them, as well as a reminder that it is important to prioritize one's own well-being and happiness.


Line by Line Meaning

First you let him in your bed.
You allowed him into your most intimate space.


Now he's moved inside your head.
He has taken up a permanent residence in your thoughts.


And he directs all the dreams you are dreaming.
He is controlling your subconscious and influencing your desires.


I saw a friend of yours today, she called me over just to say, "I dunno if you've seen her lately but God she's looking rough".
Someone who cares about you is worried about your well-being and appearance because of the impact this relationship has on you.


No don't go round to see him tonight, he's already made such a mess of your life. Find something else to do with your time, and do it quickly while you've still got the chance.
It's best to avoid him because he has caused irreparable harm in your life. Focus on other activities before it's too late.


Do you think he'll fall apart? Do you think you'll break his heart? If you leave him on his own. You are dreaming.
Don't be fooled into thinking he can't handle life without you or that you'll hurt him by leaving. He's not your responsibility.


'cause he can fasten all his clothes, tie his laces, blow his nose. It's time to teach him how to walk, yeah, teach your baby how to walk away.
He's capable of taking care of himself, so it's time to cut him loose and teach him how to live without depending on you.


You're not his mother, you're not sister & brother. He's not even your lover. He's just a piece of luggage you should throw away.
You don't have any familial or romantic obligation to him. He's just excess baggage that needs to be discarded.


No don't go round tonight, you'll never make it right. He's already made such a mess of your life. Find something else to do with your time, and do it quickly while you've still got the chance.
There's no fixing what he's done to you, so don't bother trying. Focus on moving on and finding happiness elsewhere before it's too late.




Lyrics © BMG Rights Management, Universal Music Publishing Group, Kobalt Music Publishing Ltd.
Written by: Candida Doyle, Jarvis Branson Cocker, Nick Banks, Russell Senior, Stephen Patrick Mackey

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