In early live performances of the song (September 2004), the band would play Michael Stipe's "It's pulling me apart. Change." album backing vocal during the chorus and bridge of live performances. As early as February 2005, however, as evidenced on the R.E.M. Live disc, the band worked up an alternative whereby the backing vocals would be shared amongst Mike Mills, Scott McCaughey and Ken Stringfellow in order to make the song flow more smoothly.
Leaving New York
R.E.M. Lyrics
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Comes calling back a brilliant night
I'm still awake
I looked ahead
I'm sure I saw you there
You don't need me to tell you now
That nothing can compare
You might have hidden your frown
You might've succeeded in changing me
I might've been turned around
It's easier to leave than to be left behind
Leaving was never my proud
Leaving New York never easy
I saw the light fading out
Now life is sweet and what it brings
I tried to take
The loneliness it wears me out
It lies in wait
And on a loss still in my eyes
Shatter a necklace across your thigh
I might've lived my life in a dream
But I swear this is real
Memory fuses, and shatters like glass
Mercurial future forget the past
But it's you, it's what I feel
You might've laughed if I told you
(It's pulling me apart)
You might have hidden your frown (change)
You might've succeeded in changing me
(It's pulling me apart)
I might've been turned around (change)
It's easier to leave than to be left behind
(It's pulling me apart)
Leaving was never my proud (change)
Leaving New York never easy
(It's pulling me apart)
I saw the light fading out
You find it in your heart, it's pulling me apart
You find it in your heart (change)
I told you forever, I love you it's forever
I told you if I love you, I love you forever
I told you forever, I love you it's forever
I told you if I love you, I love you forever
You never
You might've laughed if I told you
(It's pulling me apart)
You might have hidden your frown (change)
You might've succeeded in changing me
(It's pulling me apart)
I might've been turned around (change)
It's easier to leave than to be left behind
(It's pulling me apart)
Leaving was never my proud (change)
Leaving New York never easy
(It's pulling me apart)
I saw the light fading out (change)
Leaving New York never easy
(It's pulling me apart)
I saw the light fading out (change)
Leaving New York never easy
(It's pulling me apart)
I saw the light fading out (change)
"Leaving New York" explores the emotions behind leaving and saying goodbye. The opening lines suggest calmness in the present moment, but also reminisces on a past experience. The memories of a relationship or connection are vividly present, and they evoke the raw feeling of emptiness after leaving someplace or someone that felt like home. The song is autobiographical, as songwriters stated that it’s about their departure from New York after 9/11, when they felt like the energy and the vibe of the city had changed. The line “Leaving was never my proud” gives a sense of sadness and loss that comes with leaving.
The song embodies both the bitter-sweet feeling of departure and the hope of a new start somewhere else. “It’s easier to leave than to be left behind” portrays the idea that leaving is always a one-sided decision, but it still brings a sense of loneliness and fatigue. The song evolves to present time, and it's clear that the writer has taken steps towards a better life. However, the underlying loneliness follows, and the realization that memories linger painfully. The line "Memory fuses and shatters like glass, mercurial future forgets the past, but it's you it's what I feel" perfectly encapsulates the paradox behind leaving; a better future may await, but the past will always stay.
Overall, the song's melancholic and nostalgic mood evokes a powerful sense of nostalgia that anyone who has ever left someplace or someone behind can relate to.
Line by Line Meaning
It's quiet now and what it brings is everything
The moment is still and peaceful, yet it signifies something monumental
Comes calling back a brilliant night
The memory of a wonderful time floods back
I'm still awake
The singer is unable to sleep despite the late hour
I looked ahead, I'm sure I saw you there
The artist believes they caught a glimpse of someone from their past
You don't need me to tell you now that nothing can compare
The artist acknowledges that their present cannot match the greatness of the past, but the listener already knows this
You might've laughed if I told you
The singer acknowledges that their story might elicit a negative reaction
You might have hidden your frown
The listener may have tried to mask negative emotions in their reaction
You might've succeeded in changing me
The past encounter may have had a profound impact on the artist
I might've been turned around
The events of the past might have caused the artist to question their life
It's easier to leave than to be left behind
The artist feels it is less painful to be the one leaving than the one staying
Leaving was never my proud
Even though the singer prefers to leave, they still feel some regret about departing
Leaving New York never easy
The act of leaving the city is always difficult for the artist, regardless of the circumstances
I saw the light fading out
The brightness of the city is fading away as the singer prepares to leave
Now life is sweet and what it brings I tried to take
The singer is enjoying life now, trying to seize every opportunity
The loneliness it wears me out
The singer is still plagued by feelings of isolation
It lies in wait
Loneliness is always present in the background, waiting to return
And on a loss still in my eyes
Despite moving on, the artist still carries the pain of a past loss
Shatter a necklace across your thigh
A metaphor for breaking something precious, like a relationship
I might've lived my life in a dream, but I swear this is real
The singer realizes that their past may have seemed like a fairy tale, but their current life is authentic
Memory fuses, and shatters like glass
The artist's memories are both fragile and easily broken yet still stay with them
Mercurial future forget the past
The future is uncertain, and it is best to focus on it rather than dwell on the past
But it's you, it's what I feel
Despite trying to move on, the artist still feels a connection to the person they saw in the city
You find it in your heart, it's pulling me apart
The singer believes there is a mutual feeling of longing between them and the person from their past
I told you forever, I love you it's forever
The artist believes their connection with the person they spotted is everlasting
You never
The lyric is left unfinished, implying that there was something left unsaid or unresolved between the singer and the person from their past
Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group
Written by: Peter Buck, Mike Mills, Michael Stipe
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@ludmiladocarmo1855
It's quiet now and what it brings is everything
Comes calling back a brilliant night
I'm still awake
I looked ahead
I'm sure I saw you there
You don't need me to tell you now
That nothing can compare
You might've laughed if I told you
You might have hidden your frown
You might've succeeded in changing me
I might've been turned around
It's easier to leave than to be left behind
Leaving was never my proud
Leaving New York never easy
I saw the light fading out
Now life is sweet and what it brings
I tried to take
The loneliness it wears me out
It lies in wait
And on a loss still in my eyes
Shatter a necklace across your thigh
I might've lived my life in a dream
But I swear this is real
Memory fuses, and shatters like glass
Mercurial future forget the past
But it's you, it's what I feel
You might've laughed if I told you
(It's pulling me apart)
You might have hidden your frown (change)
You might've succeeded in changing me
(It's pulling me apart)
I might've been turned around (change)
It's easier to leave than to be left behind
(It's pulling me apart)
Leaving was never my proud (change)
Leaving New York never easy
(It's pulling me apart)
I saw the light fading out
You find it in your heart, it's pulling me apart
You find it in your heart (change)
I told you forever, I love you it's forever
I told you if I love you, I love you forever
I told you forever, I love you it's forever
I told you if I love you, I love you forever
You never
You might've laughed if I told you
(It's pulling me apart)
You might have hidden your frown (change)
You might've succeeded in changing me
(It's pulling me apart)
I might've been turned around (change)
It's easier to leave than to be left behind
(It's pulling me apart)
Leaving was never my proud (change)
Leaving New York never easy
(It's pulling me apart)
I saw the light fading out (change)
Leaving New York never easy
(It's pulling me apart)
I saw the light fading out (change)
Leaving New York never easy
(It's pulling me apart)
I saw the light fading out (change)
@scjoslin99
REM were awesome lucky to see them live twice. This is an amazing under rated song. I miss REM one of the best bands of the last 30 years
@katinkahealstheworld6350
thought the same, also losing my religion is epic.
@jean-baptiste6479
There is always a REM song that is relevant to your age and your mood
@romy9879
Bellissimaa❤️
@luissampaio2104
YES!!!
@peterthomas3554
After 32 years in New York City, my wife and I are leaving New York for Europe. This song hits my core.
@cillian1983
those harmonies actually make me cry every time , they're so beautiful
@inaminute1826
Yes
@darrelirvine5560
Hi, yes it's a beautiful, beautiful, song.
@davidmurray2539
Absolutely the greatest band America ever produced. The scope of their interests and the depth of intelligence they set to three + decades of musical creativity and to have "retired" as respectful friends is something I don't see ever being matched by another group. Simply the best.