Living Well Is the Best Revenge
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It's only when your poison spins into the life you hoped to live
That suddenly you wake up in a shaking panic, now
You set me up like a lamb to slaughter
Garbo as a farmer's daughter
Unbelievable, the gospel according to who?
I lay right down

All your sad and lost apostles
Hum my name and flare their nostrils
Choking on the bones you toss to them
Well, I'm not one to sit and spin
'Cause living well's the best revenge
Baby, I am calling you on that

Don't turn your talking points on me
History will set me free
The future's ours and you don't even rate a footnote now
So who's chasing you? Where did you go?
You disappeared mid-sentence
In a judgment crisis I see my anecdote for it
You weakened shell

All your sad and lost apostles
Hum my name and flare their nostrils
Choking on the bones you toss to them
Well I'm not one to sit and spin
'Cause living well's the best revenge
Baby, I am calling you on that

You savor your dying breath
Well, I forgive but I don't forget
You work it out, let's hear that argument again
Camera three, go now!

All your sad and lost apostles
Hum my name and flare their nostrils
Choking on the bones you toss to them
Well I'm not one to sit and spin
'Cause living well's the best revenge
Baby, I am calling you on that





Baby, I am calling you on that
Baby, I am calling you on

Overall Meaning

R.E.M.'s song Living Well Is the Best Revenge is a powerful anthem about coming out on top despite the efforts of those who sought to bring you down. The lyrics describe the feeling of being betrayed by someone who meant to do you harm, and the subsequent realization that you've emerged victorious from the situation. The opening lines suggest that the singer has been poisoned by someone they trusted, and now they are shaking with panic. The imagery of setting someone up like a lamb to slaughter, and Garbo as a farmer's daughter, implies deception and manipulation.


The chorus, "All your sad and lost apostles, hum my name and flare their nostrils, choking on the bones you toss to them, well I'm not one to sit and spin, 'cause living well's the best revenge," is a defiant assertion of the singer's superiority over their enemies. The metaphor of apostles helps to emphasize the religious undertones of the song. The idea of living well being the best revenge is one that's been around for a long time, but R.E.M. puts a fresh spin on it by framing it in the context of betrayal.


The song ends with the singer forgiving but not forgetting, and urging their adversary to present their case one more time. Camera three, go now! The song is a powerful reminder that even in the face of adversity, it is possible to come out on top.


Line by Line Meaning

It's only when your poison spins into the life you hoped to live
Your negative actions will eventually catch up to you and ruin the life you envisioned for yourself.


That suddenly you wake up in a shaking panic, now
You'll find yourself in a state of fear and anxiety when you face the consequences of your actions.


You set me up like a lamb to slaughter
You betrayed me and put me in a vulnerable position to be taken advantage of.


Garbo as a farmer's daughter
Comparing yourself to someone who is not like you at all.


Unbelievable, the gospel according to who?
I can't believe the lies that you're spreading, who are you to preach?


I lay right down
I accept the situation for what it is and won't fight against it.


All your sad and lost apostles
The people who follow you blindly and have lost their way in life.


Hum my name and flare their nostrils
They speak my name with animosity and anger.


Choking on the bones you toss to them
You give them little to sustain themselves and leave them struggling and feeling lost.


Well, I'm not one to sit and spin
I won't remain stagnant and let you continue to hurt me and others.


'Cause living well's the best revenge
The best way to get back at you is to live a successful and fulfilling life without letting your actions hold me back.


Baby, I am calling you on that
I'm challenging you to see if you can do the same and live a positive life without causing harm to others.


Don't turn your talking points on me
Don't try to deflect from your own wrongdoings by pointing fingers at me.


History will set me free
My actions will speak for themselves and time will prove that I did nothing wrong.


The future's ours and you don't even rate a footnote now
The future belongs to those who make a positive impact and you will be forgotten and insignificant.


So who's chasing you? Where did you go?
Where did you disappear to and who is holding you accountable for your actions?


You disappeared mid-sentence
You suddenly became silent and stopped defending yourself once your wrongdoings were exposed.


In a judgment crisis I see my anecdote for it
In a time of chaos and judgment, I see my way of resolving the situation.


You weakened shell
You're not as strong as you appear to be and your actions have made you vulnerable.


You savor your dying breath
You're holding onto your own destruction and enjoying your downfall.


Well, I forgive but I don't forget
I can forgive you for what you've done, but I won't forget the harm you caused.


You work it out, let's hear that argument again
You need to figure out your own problems and I won't engage in your pointless arguments again.


Camera three, go now!
This is my moment to shine and prove myself while you fade into obscurity.




Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group
Written by: Peter Buck, Mike Mills, Michael Stipe

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It's only when your poison spins into the life you'd hoped to live
That suddenly you wake up in a shaking panic - wow!
You set me up like a lamb to slaughter
Garbo as a farmer's daughter
Unbelievable, the gospel according to who?
I lay right down.

All your sad and lost apostles hum my name and flare their nostrils
Choking on the bones you toss to them
Well I'm not one to sit and spin
'Cause living well's the best revenge
Baby, I am calling you on that

Don't turn your talking points on me, history will set me free
The future's ours and you don't even read the footnote now!
So who's chasing you? Where did you go?
You disappeared mid-sentence
In a judgement crisis I see my anecdote for it
You weakened shell.

You savour your dying breath
Well, I forgive but I don't forget
You work it out, let's hear that argument again
Camera three... GO NOW!



All comments from YouTube:

mimoocho dom

Rock at it's alternative finest. How good were these guys.

Mark Simpson

The best

Silky Wellman

What an amazing performance! Everyone is firing on all cylinders

Lee Indriks

Great Drums on all this album. Played along to it so many times. Rest in peace Bill, keep the beat buddy x

Eleanor Francis

Fuck! I forgot Bill had died. Too young. What a phenomenal player he was.

Jeroen Kleijn

Ouch. Totally missed that Bill has died. Way too young. Incredible drumming indeed, played along these tracks - and especially this one - many many times as well.

Matt Ritchey

Bill didn’t play on this album, though, did he? He left after HIFI.

David Lynch

@Matt Ritchey Different Bill. Bill Rieflin was R.E.M.'s drummer from 2003 until the band broke up (he's playing in this video). He sadly passed away earlier this year.

John G

Dude was solid.

Dry Scab

Michael walks on all relaxed, then delivers a blistering performance.

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