Be Careful
R. Kelly Lyrics


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[Sparkle]
Two years ago, promises is all I heard
Wait a minute, let me finish
Two years ago, promises is all I heard
Out of your mouth
Now you want to walk away boy
And tear down the walls in this house
You used to tell me sweet things
Sweet things in the morning time
Now all you do is hurt me
And think that everything is fine

[Chorus]
You better be careful what you say to me
'Cause it might turn around on you
You better be careful what you do to me
'Cause somebody might do it to you

Now who was there for you when your ass was out of work?
All by myself, taking Little Man to church
So quick to hang up the phone, when I step in the room
Then you want to turn it all around
I'm gettin' tired of playin' fool

[Chorus]

[Sparkle]+(R.Kelly)
If the shoe fits, wear it boy (Yea yea yea yea, yea yea yea yea)
If the shoe fits, wear it boy (Yea yea yea yea, yea yea yea yea)

[R.Kelly]
Two years ago, didn't know you had male friends
Wait a minute, let me finish
Two years ago, didn't know you had male friends
Off up in college
I found out you're still reaching out to some of them
Misses Busy Body
You used to listen to me
When you were down and lost
But now, you don't even respect me
Ever since I got laid off

[Chorus]
Now who gave you money when your ass was broke, without a dime?
And even though Little Man is not my child, I made him mine, mm hmm
So quick to run to your friends
And talk about, what we do in this house
And then you want to party all night long
What the hell you talkin' 'bout?

[Chorus]
[R.Kelly]+(Sparkle)




If the shoe fits, wear it girl (Yea yea yea yea, yea yea yea yea)
If the shoe fits, wear it girl (Yea yea yea yea, yea yea yea yea)

Overall Meaning

The song "Be Careful" by R. Kelly and Sparkle is a duet where they talk about how a relationship soured due to broken promises, lack of respect, and mistrust. Sparkle begins the song by stating how promises were made, but now the guy wants to walk away and tear down the walls in the house. She then points out that the guy used to sweet talk her in the morning, but now all he does is hurt her. The chorus warns the guy to be careful of what he says and does because he might face similar consequences.


Sparkle continues by stating that she was always there for him even when he was out of work and had to take care of a child. However, he is too quick to hang up and is always turning everything around on her. R. Kelly responds by saying that a few years back, he didn't know she had male friends until he found out that she still reaches out to some of them. He accuses her of not respecting him since he's been laid off and adds that she has a tendency to run to her friends and talk about their problems.


The main theme of this song is the breakdown of a relationship, mistrust, and how one partner's actions affect the other. The chorus repeats, "If the shoe fits, wear it," which is a way of saying that if someone does something wrong, they should admit to it and correct it. Overall, the lyrics caution that being careless in a relationship can lead to regrettable consequences.


Line by Line Meaning

Two years ago, promises is all I heard
The singer was continuously promised a better life and treated well before, but it is not the same anymore.


Wait a minute, let me finish
The singer requests the audience to listen to her completely before jumping to any conclusion.


Out of your mouth
The audience is accused of speaking only empty promises and nothing else.


Now you want to walk away boy
The audience is trying to leave after abandoning and emotionally manipulating the artist.


And tear down the walls in this house
The audience wants to break the relationship and the trust the artist had built.


You used to tell me sweet things
The audience was once genuinely sweet to the singer.


Sweet things in the morning time
The audience used to do sweet things especially in the morning time that has stopped now.


Now all you do is hurt me
The audience keeps on hurting the artist intentionally.


And think that everything is fine
The audience thinks everything is alright just because the artist hasn't reacted negatively.


You better be careful what you say to me
The artist warns the audience to be mindful of what they say to her.


'Cause it might turn around on you
The singer warns that whatever the audience says might end up hurting them too.


You better be careful what you do to me
The artist warns the audience to be cautious of their actions toward her.


'Cause somebody might do it to you
The singer warns that someone else might treat the audience in the same hurtful way.


If the shoe fits, wear it boy (Yea yea yea yea, yea yea yea yea)
The audience is being asked to accept responsibility for their actions and take accountability.


If the shoe fits, wear it girl (Yea yea yea yea, yea yea yea yea)
The audience is being asked to accept responsibility for their actions and take accountability.


Two years ago, didn't know you had male friends
The audience was hiding certain aspects of their life from the artist.


Off up in college
The audience was in college while being in a relationship with the artist, which suggests that they were irresponsible and immature.


I found out you're still reaching out to some of them
The singer found out the audience has still kept in touch with some of these people.


Misses Busy Body
The audience is being referred to as someone who keeps on being active in other people's business.


You used to listen to me
The artist was heard and respected before.


When you were down and lost
The artist used to comfort the audience during their bad times.


But now, you don't even respect me
The audience disrespects the artist now due to a shift in the power dynamic of the relationship.


Ever since I got laid off
The singer believes that the audience started behaving differently after the singer lost their job.


Now who gave you money when your ass was broke, without a dime?
The artist helped the audience financially when they needed help the most.


And even though Little Man is not my child, I made him mine, mm-hmm
The singer is referring to nurturing their mutual child, even though the audience did not father them.


So quick to run to your friends
The audience seeks validation and reassurance by running to other people.


And talk about, what we do in this house
The audience is revealing intimate aspects of their relationship to other people.


And then you want to party all night long
The audience disregards the artist's feelings by partying all night long.




Lyrics ยฉ Universal Music Publishing Group, Warner Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: ROBERT S. KELLY

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@heavenlyblissful23

This man is the King of R&B no one can ever take that away from it

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yea but he is a bad person

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I agree

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@christianfischer9388

Even Sparkle would be nothing without his work

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โ€‹@@myathestar2636 Let God be the judge

@MsTynysha

This song teaches you there are ALWAYS 2 sides to every story! Good Song!

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The realist shit ever typed

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