It Ain't Love
Rahsaan Patterson Lyrics


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Is it really love that your feeling for me
Or is it a fantasy that only I dream
You slap me with anger while I kick you my love
You smack me with your hatred while I kick you my love

It ain't Love, It ain't Love.. .

Is it really love when I give you my time
Sharing with you my heart my soul and my mind
You tell me I'm yours baby only to stray.
Leaving me with the pain of being lonely

It ain't Love, It ain't Love.. .

If it ain't love I don't want to
If it ain't love babe
Cause if it ain't love it ain't gon' do
If it ain't love babe





It ain't Love, It ain't Love.. .

Overall Meaning

Rahsaan Patterson's song "It Ain't Love" explores the complexities and uncertainties of a romantic relationship. The lyrics suggest that there is a disconnect between the two partners - one person is feeling intense emotions and investing a lot into the relationship, while the other seems to be holding back or not reciprocating those feelings. The singer is questioning whether this relationship is really based on love or just a fantasy that they've created in their own mind.


The use of physical violence imagery in the lyrics is striking and suggests that the relationship may be unhealthy or even dangerous. The singer describes being "slapped" and "smacked" by their partner's negative emotions, while they are still offering up their own love and affection. This creates a sense of emotional turmoil and instability that is further emphasized by the repetition of the phrase "It ain't love" throughout the song.


Overall, the lyrics to "It Ain't Love" suggest a relationship that is full of conflict and doubt, leaving the singer unsure whether they should continue investing in it or let it go. The song provides a powerful message about the importance of recognizing unhealthy patterns in relationships and being willing to walk away if necessary.


Line by Line Meaning

Is it really love that your feeling for me
Are your feelings for me truly love, or just a figment of my imagination?


Or is it a fantasy that only I dream
Perhaps what I feel for you is just a fantasy, and not a mutual feeling.


You slap me with anger while I kick you my love
Even though I show you my love, you respond with anger and hostility.


You smack me with your hatred while I kick you my love
Despite my efforts to show you love and affection, you still respond with animosity and disdain.


It ain't Love, It ain't Love.. .
This situation can't possibly be called love; it falls short of such a label.


Is it really love when I give you my time
Can you truly call it love when I devote so much of my time and energy to you?


Sharing with you my heart my soul and my mind
I open myself up to you completely, sharing every part of me.


You tell me I'm yours baby only to stray.
Even though you claim me as your own, you still wander away from me.


Leaving me with the pain of being lonely
Your absence always leaves me feeling so desolate and alone.


If it ain't love I don't want to
If what we have isn't really love, then I don't want any part of it.


If it ain't love babe
I won't settle for anything less than genuine love.


Cause if it ain't love it ain't gon' do
Anything that falls short of love simply isn't enough to satisfy me.


It ain't Love, It ain't Love.. .
Once again, I emphasize that this isn't love; it simply fails to meet the criteria.




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