The One You Love
Randy Newman Lyrics


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The one you love
I know you need a friend,someone you can talk to
Who will understand what you're going through
When it comes to love,there's no easy answer
Only you can say what you're gonna do

I heard you on the phone, you took his number,
Said you were alone but you called him ";Sue";
Isn't he the guy, the guy who left you crying?
Isn't he the one who made you blue?
When you remember those nights in his arms,
You know you gotta make up your mind

Are you gonna stay with the one who loves you
Or are you goin' back to the one you love?
Someone's gonna cry when they know they've lost you
Someone's gonna thank the stars above

What you gonna say when he comes over?
There's no easy way tosee this through
All the broken dreams, all the disappointments
Oh girl, what you gonna do?




Your hear keeps sayin', "It's just not fair"
But still you gotta make up your mind

Overall Meaning

Randy Newman's "The One You Love" is a moving ballad that explores the complexities of love and relationships. The song speaks directly to the listener as if offering a personal advice on the matter. Newman acknowledges that love is never simple and that the decisions we make have real consequences. He suggests that when it comes to love, there is no easy answer, and the only person who can decide what action to take is the person in question.


Newman’s lines "Are you gonna stay with the one who loves you or are you going back to the one you love?" sends chills down the spine. He paints the picture of a complicated love triangle where the singer is torn between two lovers. One of them, the "one who loves you" is someone who is ready to be there for you, to listen to you, and to care for you. The other love interest, "the one you love," is someone from your past who may have hurt you but with whom you still share a deep connection. The lyrics focus on the struggle between the past and the present, and the songwriter urges the listener to make a decision and stick by it.


Overall, "The One You Love" is a touching and thought-provoking song that offers insight into the human experience of love and relationships. It encourages critical thinking about the complexities of love and reinforces the need to take ownership of our choices in life.


Line by Line Meaning

The one you love
The person you still have feelings for


I know you need a friend, someone you can talk to
I understand that you need someone to confide in and seek advice from


Who will understand what you're going through
Someone who can empathize with your situation


When it comes to love, there's no easy answer
Love is a complex emotion and there's no straightforward solution


Only you can say what you're gonna do
Ultimately, the decision of what to do in your love life is up to you


I heard you on the phone, you took his number
I overheard you exchanging phone numbers with someone


Said you were alone but you called him 'Sue'
You lied about being alone and used a fake name while talking to him


Isn't he the guy, the guy who left you crying?
Isn't he the person who caused you emotional pain in the past?


Isn't he the one who made you blue?
Isn't he the one who caused you sadness and regret?


When you remember those nights in his arms
When you think back to the times you spent together


You know you gotta make up your mind
You realize that you have to make a choice


Are you gonna stay with the one who loves you
Do you plan on staying with the person who cares for you?


Or are you goin' back to the one you love?
Or are you considering rekindling things with the person you still love?


Someone's gonna cry when they know they've lost you
Someone will be emotional when they realize they no longer have your affections


Someone's gonna thank the stars above
Someone will be grateful for the opportunity to move on from the situation


What you gonna say when he comes over?
What will you tell him when he visits?


There's no easy way to see this through
This isn't going to be a simple or effortless process


All the broken dreams, all the disappointments
All the hopes and desires that didn't come to fruition


Oh girl, what you gonna do?
What choices will you make, my dear?


Your heart keeps sayin', 'It's just not fair'
Your emotions are telling you that this isn't just or equitable


But still you gotta make up your mind
Regardless, you have to make a decision




Lyrics © Warner/Chappell Music, Inc., Universal Music Publishing Group
Written by: RANDY NEWMAN

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