The Tender Trap
Rat Pack Lyrics


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You see a pair of laughing eyes,
And suddenly you're sighing sighs,
You think nothin's wrong,
You string along,
Boy, then snap!
Those eyes,
Those sighs,
They're part of the tender trap!

You're hand in hand beneath the trees,
And soon there's music in the breeze,
You're acting kinda smart,
Until your heart
Just hoes Whap!
Those trees,
That breeze,
They're part of the tender trap!

Some starry night,
When her kisses make you tingle,
She'll hold you tight,
And you'll hate yourself for being single;

And all at once it seems so nice,
The folks are throwin' shoes and rice,
You hurry to a spot
That's just a dot
On the map.
You're hooked!
You're cooked!
You're caught in the tender trap!

Some starry night,
When her kisses make you tingle,
She'll hold you tight,
And you'll hate yourself for bein' single;

And all at once it seems so nice,
The folks are throwin' shoes and rice,
You hurry to a spot
That's just a dot
On the map;
And then you wonder how it all came about,
It's too late now, there's no gettin' out,




You fell in love,
And love is the tender trap.

Overall Meaning

The Tender Trap by Rat Pack is a song that describes the common situation of falling prey to the idea of love. The song starts with the person seeing someone and being drawn to their eyes and sighs. They think nothing is wrong and are strung along by these small interactions until they are trapped in the person's charm. The lyrics beautifully describe a romantic evening with a musical breeze and being swept up by the moment. The singer finds himself acting smart but then falling for the person and getting trapped in the tender trap.


The song also highlights how one might hate oneself for being single and that love is often a trap that one gets caught up in. The lyrics capture the essence of how love can sneak up on someone, and all of a sudden, they find themselves in a different world. The folks throwing shoes and rice mean that the couple is getting married in a small town. The singer is caught up in love and finds themselves trapped by the thought of it. Love is the tender trap that makes people fall in love and get lost in its magic.


Line by Line Meaning

You see a pair of laughing eyes,
You notice someone's happy and joyful eyes


And suddenly you're sighing sighs,
And just like that, you find yourself sighing with admiration


You think nothin's wrong,
You believe there's no harm in what's happening


You string along,
You go with the flow and are easily led


Boy, then snap!
Then it hits you like a ton of bricks


Those eyes, Those sighs, They're part of the tender trap!
That person's charm and allure is drawing you into a trap


You're hand in hand beneath the trees,
You're walking hand in hand among nature


And soon there's music in the breeze,
The surroundings seem to make music out of the gentle wind


You're acting kinda smart, Until your heart Just hoes Whap!
You act as if you're not falling for them but your heart betrays you


Those trees, That breeze, They're part of the tender trap!
The environment or setting is playing a part in luring you in


Some starry night, When her kisses make you tingle, She'll hold you tight, And you'll hate yourself for being single;
Some night, she'll give you affection and you'll regret ever being alone before


And all at once it seems so nice, The folks are throwin' shoes and rice, You hurry to a spot That's just a dot On the map.
Everything becomes so idealized until you find yourself in the middle of a chaotic celebration


You're hooked! You're cooked! You're caught in the tender trap!
You're hopelessly unable to escape the trap of love


And then you wonder how it all came about, It's too late now, there's no gettin' out, You fell in love, And love is the tender trap.
You question how you found yourself in this trap but it's too late, you're already in love which is a trap in itself




Lyrics © BMG Rights Management, THE MUSIC GOES ROUND
Written by: Jimmy Van Heusen, Sammy Cahn

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