I Love You so Much It Hurts
Ray Charles Lyrics


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Oh I love you so much it hurts me
Darlin' that's why I'm so blue
I'm so afraid to go to bed at night
I'm afraid of losing you

You know, I love so much it hurts me
And there's nothing I can do
I want to hold you, my dear, forever and ever
I love you so much it hurts me so

I love you so much it hurts me
And that's why I'm so blue
I'm so afraid to go to bed at night
I'm afraid of losing you

I love so much it hurts me
And there's nothing I can do
I want to hold you, my dear, forever and ever
I love you so much oh it hurts me





It hurts me so
Hurts me so

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of Ray Charles's 'I Love You So Much It Hurts' convey a deep sense of fear and vulnerability in a lover's heart. The opening lines of the song say, 'Oh I love you so much it hurts me, Darlin' that's why I'm so blue. I'm so afraid to go to bed at night, I'm afraid of losing you.' Here, the singer is expressing his fear of losing his loved one, which is causing him immense emotional pain, resulting in a feeling of constant anxiety. The use of the phrase 'so blue' is often used to connote feelings of sadness and melancholy, which is what the singer is experiencing as well.


The chorus of the song, 'You know, I love you so much it hurts me, And there's nothing I can do. I want to hold you, my dear, forever and ever, I love you so much it hurts me so,' further highlights the intensity of the singer's emotions. He loves his partner so much, but his fear of losing them is causing him so much pain that it is almost physical. The desire to hold on to his love forever is something that he expresses, which suggests that the threat of separation is causing an almost unbearable pain.


Overall, the lyrics of 'I Love You So Much It Hurts' beautifully capture the sentiment of love and fear that often mix in a relationship. The song is a testament to the power of love and its ability to bring both happiness and sorrow into a person's life.


Line by Line Meaning

Oh I love you so much it hurts me
My love for you is so intense that it causes me emotional pain


Darlin' that's why I'm so blue
Because of the deep love I have for you and the fear of losing you, I am constantly sad and down


I'm so afraid to go to bed at night
My fear of losing you is so strong that I am afraid to sleep, as it feels like there's a possibility of losing you in my absence


I'm afraid of losing you
I am scared of losing you, because of how much I love you and how painful it would be to endure that loss


You know, I love so much it hurts me
You are aware of how deep and painful my love for you is


And there's nothing I can do
I feel completely powerless to the emotions I have for you, as they overwhelm me entirely


I want to hold you, my dear, forever and ever
All I want is to be close to you, to hold you and never let go, because of how much I love you


I love you so much it hurts me so
My feelings for you are so strong that they cause me pain that feels physical


It hurts me so
The love I have for you causes me such extreme emotional pain that it feels unbearable




Lyrics © Peermusic Publishing
Written by: FLOYD TILLMAN

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Most interesting comment from YouTube:

@Dovahkiin069Nighfury

Hi matz, i wrote this comment in hopes of having to read this someday... though it may not today, tomorrow, next week, next month or next year... but i hope that someday... you'll read this comment and know that i really love you so much that it hurts me.

 i only knew you on the internet but we've talked everyday, shared our love everyday, made me smile when i am sad and made me feel that i was really loved and i've never been so happy and so inspired in such a very long time... and everyday i keep on falling in love with you. little by little... piece by piece, you've rebuilt my broken heart... and healed it. only to break it again into a million more pieces.


 my love, you've hurt me when you told be you didn't have anyone besides me only to find out that you've been with him for 8 months... who am i kidding? i really thought you were the one... i loved you very much that i'll do everything for you. cook you dinner everyday, take care of you every single moment for the rest of my life... and spend an eternity of eternities with you... but i guess you haven't loved me enough. as much as i love you... and if destiny permits it that you will be able to come across this comment, i would like you to know... that a permanent part of my heart has already been taken by you that even if i love again...

 i won't be able to love her fully because a part of it remains for you. i may be young by my heart is not. we may be 9 years apart... you being 26 and i being 18... but i have a heart that would go millions and millions of miles just to go the distance for you. you were my heart, my love, and my life...

 but i guess my love weren't enough for you... matz, i love you so very much that it hurts... and it does, it is and it will always be... i know this comment might be forgotten in time. but please, bear with me. and my madness... and i thank you guys for respecting my humble words and feelings... :)



All comments from YouTube:

@batcird

I love this record so much, not only the beautiful songs but also the cultural place that it holds, a bridge between soul, r&b, gospel, folk, blues, and country & western. I was fortunate to find a well-priced copy of both volumes of this album on vinyl at Atlantic Sounds in Daytona Beach a couple years ago, such a treasure to have for my turntable.

@MrMusicguyma

One of the first LP albums I owned, incredible work by the Genius of Soul (and R&B and jazz and whatever he wanted). He was advised against making this album by virtually everyone. But Brother Ray followed his own mind, and we are the lucky beneficiaries of his work. It is little known that Ray played piano in a (white) country band in Florida in the 1940s, until segregationists made it too difficult for them to perform together. A pity, but Ray finally prevailed to all our collective benefit. RIP.

@ursamagickmt672

Mine too.

@mirabellegreen

The classic old song I've been hearing in old movies!!! This is the perfect one!!

@TermiteUSA

I honestly love this music, I have the album and cherish it and the summer on the Bay when you had more than one song from the same LP competing for the Top10 played HOURLY.
IF ONLY Ray had been allowed to cut the album with background voices of HIS choosing instead of stupid record execs.

@greenhornet299

Greatest Album I ever owned...a Genius.

@standamann100

Ray Charles was often called the "Genius of Soul".   James Brown was the Godfather of Soul, and Aretha Franklin was the Queen of Soul. 

@robinwilson1433

Try Vol 2!!

@mickthomas7509

such a beautiful song x

@user-yn1ex5ko1e

One of my favorite ♥️♥️

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