Understanding
Ray Charles Lyrics


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Understanding is the best thing in the world,
Between a boy and a girl
Boy and girl and even a woman or a man,
It's always better when you really understand
You know understanding is a mighty powerful thing,
that's why it makes me so sad

When I see my friends wandering around through the world,
Never knowing the meaning of the word
Understanding, so in the next few minutes, I'm gonna
Try to explain just exactly what it means
Now wait a minute, listen, for instance, you take me
And my old lady, we gotta good thing goin'

Because I know If I don't work and pay the rent and the
Bills and buy her fine pretty clothes to wear well,
There are fifteen other guys just waitin' round the
Corner, and I don't care how much that woman loves me,
She's gonna go out and find herself one of them who
Will and that's why I believe that
Understanding is the best thing in the world,
Between a boy and a girl

Boy and girl and even a woman or a man,
It's always better when you really understand
Now listen I don't want you to think that this is a
One sided affair, no no
Because my old lady also understands that a man must
Have respect

What I mean is, if she must play around don't let me
Catch her, because what I don't see can't hurt me, you
Understand? but on the other hand, If I should ever
Catch her I'm not gonna talk about-a
And call her a bunch of bad names like you all might
No no

What I'm gonna do, I'm gonna go down-town to the
Hardware store and buy myself a double blade axe,
Come back, square off, and believe her soul's gonna
Belong to the good lord

Because her head's gonna belong to me, and I
Guarantee she'll know what I mean when I'll say
Understanding is the best thing in the world,
Between a boy and a girl





Boy and girl and even a woman or a man,
It's always better when you really understand

Overall Meaning

The song "Understanding" by Ray Charles explores the concept of understanding in relationships, highlighting its importance between couples of all kinds – men and women, boys and girls, and even women and men. Charles emphasizes that understanding brings power and stability to relationships and implies that without it, one’s relationship is at risk. The lyrics suggest that understanding is a two-way street – both partners need to respect each other, their needs and boundaries, and, most importantly, communicate with each other to build trust.


Charles uses humor to juxtapose the seriousness of the message with his comment on what he would do if his old lady were to cheat on him – buying himself a double blade axe to make her head belong to him. However, he quickly follows it up by reiterating the importance of understanding in relationships, emphasizing the value of trust over violence.


The overall message of the song is that a relationship cannot thrive without true understanding. Charles believes that couples must be willing to work hard and communicate effectively, and if both partners are committed to doing so, they can enjoy a happy and fulfilling life together.


Line by Line Meaning

Understanding is the best thing in the world, Between a boy and a girl
Understanding is the most important aspect of any relationship, whether it is between a young or adult male and female.


Boy and girl and even a woman or a man, It's always better when you really understand
It is always beneficial when both parties in a relationship truly understand each other, whether they are male or female.


You know understanding is a mighty powerful thing, that's why it makes me so sad
Understanding is a very powerful tool, which is why Ray Charles is disappointed when he sees his friends who do not comprehend the importance of it.


When I see my friends wandering around through the world, Never knowing the meaning of the word Understanding, so in the next few minutes, I'm gonna Try to explain just exactly what it means
Ray Charles notices that his friends are not familiar with the concept of understanding, and he proceeds to explain it.


Now wait a minute, listen, for instance, you take me And my old lady, we gotta good thing goin' Because I know If I don't work and pay the rent and the Bills and buy her fine pretty clothes to wear well, There are fifteen other guys just waitin' round the Corner, and I don't care how much that woman loves me, She's gonna go out and find herself one of them who Will and that's why I believe that
Ray Charles believes that it is critical for a man to comprehend his obligation to provide for his partner in order to ensure they remain committed and devoted to each other.


Understanding is the best thing in the world, Between a boy and a girl
The key to a successful relationship is understanding, irrespective of the gender of the individuals involved.


Now listen I don't want you to think that this is a One sided affair, no no Because my old lady also understands that a man must Have respect
Ray Charles emphasizes the importance of mutual understanding in a relationship, as his partner also understands the importance of respect within the relationship.


What I mean is, if she must play around don't let me Catch her, because what I don't see can't hurt me, you Understand? but on the other hand, If I should ever Catch her I'm not gonna talk about-a And call her a bunch of bad names like you all might No no
Ray Charles acknowledges that infidelity can occur in a relationship, but he prefers to ignore such incidents as long as he does not commit and hurt him intentionally. However, he also states that he will not resort to insults and verbal abuse as others would.


What I'm gonna do, I'm gonna go down-town to the Hardware store and buy myself a double blade axe, Come back, square off, and believe her soul's gonna Belong to the good lord Because her head's gonna belong to me, and I Guarantee she'll know what I mean when I'll say
Ray Charles makes a joke about taking extreme measures if he discovers his partner is unfaithful, alluding to the notion of cutting off the head of the infidel. However, this is just a humorous way of underlining the importance of a faithful relationship.


Understanding is the best thing in the world, Between a boy and a girl Boy and girl and even a woman or a man, It's always better when you really understand
Once again, Ray Charles reiterates that understanding is crucial to relationships regardless of age, ethnicity, or gender and can improve intimacy, enhance devotion and create harmonious connections.




Lyrics © O/B/O APRA AMCOS
Written by: JIMMY HOLIDAY, RAY CHARLES

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Alejandro Quiñones Lozano

Oh dude... I was born in the wrong age. Ray Charles still alive!

Chris_ Robby

@Julverino Take the L

Julverino

@Chris_ Robby *y

Chris_ Robby

@Mc Holocaust You’re*

Mc Holocaust

He’s dead lol u dumb

Matthew Jackson jr.

Inspiración!🙏🎼🎹🎤

ekrieves

An incredible incredible genius... You are missed Mr. Charles

Antoinette Phillips

My grandmother had a favorite saying it's biblical
" In all thy getting get understanding" never paid much attention to her until she past on! So sad 😪

Connor Selby

makes you wonder what other gems they're sitting on

Samantha Grant

Rest in peace ray charles he died a year before I was born. Now I'm 15 I'm going to be 16 next year. I cant wait. But he will be truly missed.

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