Old Before Your Time
Ray LaMontagne and the Pariah Dogs Lyrics


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When I was a younger man lookin' for a pot of gold
Everywhere I turned the doors were closin'
It took every ounce of faith I had to keep on keepin' on
And still I felt like I was only losin'

I refused then like I do now to let anybody tie me down
And I lost a few good friends along the way
I was raised up poor and I wanted more
And maybe I'm a little too proud
Lookin' back I see a kid who was just
Afraid, hungry and old before his time

Through the years I've known my share of broken hearted fools
And those who couldn't choose a path worth taking
There's nothin' in the world so sad as talking to a man
Who never knew his life was his for making

Ain't it about time you realize? It's not worth keepin' score
You win some, you lose some and you let it go
What's the use of stacking on every failure, another stone
Till you find you've spent your whole life building walls,
Lonely and old before your time

It took so long to see
That truth was all around me

Now the wren has gone to roost and the sky is turnin' gold
Like the sky my soul is also turnin'
Turnin' from the past, at last and all I've left behind
Could it be that I am finally learnin'?

Learnin' that I'm deserving of love and the peaceful heart
I won't tear myself apart no more for tryin'
I'm tired of lyin' to myself, tryin' to buy what can't be bought
It's not livin' that you're doin' if it feels like dyin'




Cryin', growin' old before your time
Cryin', growin' old before your time

Overall Meaning

The song "Old Before Your Time" by Ray LaMontagne and the Pariah Dogs's is about a man reflecting on his life, and the struggles he faced starting out as a young man looking "for a pot of gold." He talks about how he had to face countless closed doors and struggled to maintain faith in himself, feeling like he was constantly "losin'." He describes his determination to never let anybody tie him down, even if that resulted in losing some good friends along the way. Understanding his upbringing, he wanted more from life, which at times made him seem a little too proud. Looking back, he realizes that he was just afraid, hungry, and old before his time.


Throughout the years, the man had seen plenty of broken-hearted individuals who could never choose a path worth taking in life. The song recognizes the sadness in realizing that one's life is theirs for the making and not taking advantage of it. The song goes on to share the valuable lesson that we win some, we lose some, and it's not worth keeping score. Stacking every failure like another stone will only lead to building walls that will ultimately make someone lonely, and old before their time.


The final verses of the song describe how the man has come to a moment of realization. He understands that truth has always been around him, and now, he sees it. His soul and the sky are both turning from the past, and he's learning to accept that he is deserving of love and a peaceful heart. He is no longer going to tear himself apart, trying to purchase what can't be bought, living a life that feels like dying. Instead, he is turning towards growth and away from the idea of crying, growing old before his time.


Line by Line Meaning

When I was a younger man lookin' for a pot of gold
When I was younger, I was searching for wealth and success.


Everywhere I turned the doors were closin'
Despite my efforts, I faced many rejections and obstacles.


It took every ounce of faith I had to keep on keepin' on
I had to rely on my belief and perseverance to keep going.


And still I felt like I was only losin'
Nevertheless, I felt like I was not making progress and failing.


I refused then like I do now to let anybody tie me down
I never wanted to be held back or restricted by anyone or anything.


And I lost a few good friends along the way
I had to let go of some close friends during this journey.


I was raised up poor and I wanted more
Being raised in poverty made me crave for a better life.


And maybe I'm a little too proud
I admit that I may have been overly confident and arrogant.


Lookin' back I see a kid who was just afraid, hungry and old before his time
Reflecting on the past, I realize that I was a fearful and anxious kid who grew up too fast.


Through the years I've known my share of broken hearted fools
Over the years, I've met many people who have experienced heartbreak and failure.


And those who couldn't choose a path worth taking
I've also encountered individuals who struggled to find their purpose or direction in life.


There's nothin' in the world so sad as talking to a man
I find it heartbreaking to talk to someone who has wasted their life without realizing their potential.


Who never knew his life was his for making
Some people fail to recognize that they have the power to shape their own destiny.


Ain't it about time you realize? It's not worth keepin' score
Isn't it time to understand that keeping track of wins and losses is pointless?


You win some, you lose some and you let it go
Sometimes you succeed, sometimes you fail, and you should learn to move on.


What's the use of stacking on every failure, another stone
What's the point of dwelling on every mistake and making it weigh you down?


Till you find you've spent your whole life building walls,
If you're not careful, you might realize that you've built walls around yourself and missed out on life's opportunities.


Lonely and old before your time
You may end up lonely and feeling older than your years.


It took so long to see
It took me a long time to realize.


That truth was all around me
That the answers to my problems were right in front of me.


Now the wren has gone to roost and the sky is turnin' gold
The day is ending and the sky is turning orange-yellow.


Like the sky my soul is also turnin'
My soul is also changing and growing.


Turnin' from the past, at last and all I've left behind
I am finally moving away from my past and leaving behind all my previous mistakes and regrets.


Could it be that I am finally learnin'?
Is it possible that I'm finally starting to understand and learn from my experiences?


Learnin' that I'm deserving of love and the peaceful heart
I am realizing that I deserve love and a peaceful heart.


I won't tear myself apart no more for tryin'
I won't destroy myself anymore trying to achieve success.


I'm tired of lyin' to myself, tryin' to buy what can't be bought
I'm tired of deceiving myself and trying to buy things that can't be purchased with money.


It's not livin' that you're doin' if it feels like dyin'
It's not really living if it's making you miserable.


Cryin', growin' old before your time
Crying and aging prematurely because of your choices.


Cryin', growin' old before your time
Crying and aging prematurely because of your choices.




Lyrics © HIPGNOSIS SONGS GROUP
Written by: RAYCHARLES JACK LAMONTAGNE

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Most interesting comment from YouTube:

@Allagi22

I refused then like I do now to let anybody tie me down
And I lost a few good friends along the way
I was raised up poor and I wanted more
And maybe I'm a little too proud
Lookin' back I see a kid who was just
Afraid, hungry and old before his time
Ain't it about time you realize? It's not worth keepin' score
You win some, you lose some and you let it go
What's the use of stacking on every failure, another stone
Till you find you've spent your whole life building walls,
Lonely and old before your time



All comments from YouTube:

@therebellion96

One Of The Best Songs He's Ever Written!

@sonicfoxxmusic4281

WOW....you rock...always felt this way about this song.

NICE ONE.

@theboyjames3065

Completely agree!

@kellyslingerland6611

One of the best songs anyone has ever written.
Front to back, a lesson in living

@unknownbrother273

I like this one too

@kareth117

Once in a while, there comes along an artist who truly speaks the words of a man's heart... this is purely beautiful. I love it. Ray, you're wonderful. Keep it up!

@schoolvocalize

True

@mikefromchelsea8119

Hits the soul. Thanks for this gift

@tainted_timmy6726

Saw him in Nashville with David Gray. You talk about about a concert that was worth every dime I had. Absolutely amazing!!!

@Therealhtrinity

Tim Smith dream concert!

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