This Love Is Over
Ray LaMontagne and the Pariah Dogs Lyrics


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Goin' out of my mind
Don't even know my own name half the time
How'd I get so blind that I couldn't see
What was right in front of me?

I wish I was wrong
I wish that you were right here lyin' in my arms
Deep down inside I got to face the truth
You're not comin' home

This love is over
This love is over

God knows I tried
Everything I could to keep you satisfied
Being my baby was just a part you played
It's all some kind of game

And just like a child
Just like a child you got to have your way
Nothing ventured, nothing gained
Now there's nothing left to say

This love is over
This love is over

Baby, I know I'll get along
Sometimes you got to make it on your own
It's more than my pride that's got me all tied
Up inside, girl, it's all the lying

Think it's time to close the door
I don't wanna cry anymore
It's just not worth fighting for this love

It's over, this love is over




This love is over
This love is over

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of this song tell the story of someone who has come to terms with the end of a romantic relationship, which was perhaps once fulfilling, but no longer is. The singer is confessing to being haunted by memories of their past relationship, to the point where they feel like they are out of their mind and have lost themselves. They wonder how they could have missed the signs that the relationship was unraveling.


The singer then admits that they wish their ex was still with them, but they must face the truth that their lover has moved on. The chorus of the song repeats the message that this love is over. The singer reflects on how they tried everything they could to keep their lover happy but they were just playing a part in the end. The singer feels that their lover had to have things their way like a child, and in the end, the relationship just wasn't worth fighting for. The song ends with the singer admitting that sometimes one has to make it on their own.


In conclusion, this song is a true reflection of how tough it is to come to terms with the end of a romantic relationship that once meant the world. It speaks to the painful process of moving on when one is still haunted by the memories of a past love.


Line by Line Meaning

Goin' out of my mind
Feeling extremely overwhelmed and unable to focus


Don't even know my own name half the time
Feeling so out of sorts that one's own identity becomes unclear


How'd I get so blind that I couldn't see
Feeling regretful that one failed to recognize the signs of a lost love


What was right in front of me?
Wondering how one could have been so oblivious to what was happening in the relationship


I wish I was wrong
Desperately hoping that the intuition is incorrect


I wish that you were right here lyin' in my arms
Longing for the closeness and intimacy of lost love


Deep down inside I got to face the truth
Knowing that the reality of the situation cannot be denied any longer


You're not comin' home
Acknowledging that the relationship is over and there is no turning back


This love is over
Affirming that the relationship has ended


God knows I tried
Recognizing the efforts that were made to save the relationship


Everything I could to keep you satisfied
Doing everything possible to make the partner happy


Being my baby was just a part you played
Realizing that the partner did not have the same level of feelings and commitment in the relationship


It's all some kind of game
Feeling that the relationship was not genuine


And just like a child
Behaving immaturely like a kid in the relationship


Just like a child you got to have your way
Expecting everything to be done the way one wants, like a spoiled child


Nothing ventured, nothing gained
Believing that taking risks is necessary to achieve one's goals


Now there's nothing left to say
Understanding that there is no point in trying to fix the relationship anymore


This love is over
Acknowledging that the relationship is truly finished


Baby, I know I'll get along
Having the confidence to move on from the relationship


Sometimes you got to make it on your own
Learning to be self-sufficient after the end of the relationship


It's more than my pride that's got me all tied
Feeling emotionally distraught after the breakup


Up inside, girl, it's all the lying
Feeling frustrated about the partner's deception and dishonesty


Think it's time to close the door
Deciding that it is time to move on from the relationship


I don't wanna cry anymore
Being tired of feeling emotional pain and sadness due to the relationship


It's just not worth fighting for this love
Realizing that the relationship is not worth fighting for anymore


This love is over
Reiterating that the relationship is truly over


This love is over
Confirming again that the relationship is finished for good




Lyrics © BMG Rights Management
Written by: Raycharles Lamontagne

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Most interesting comment from YouTube:

@the_gift100

"Baby, I know I'll get along
Sometimes you got to make it on your own
It's more than my pride that's got me all tied
Up inside, boy, it's all the lyin'

Guess, it's time to close the door
I don't wanna cry anymore
It's just not worth fightin' for this love

It's over, this love is over"...

Ray your voice does something to me,it speaks to my soul!



All comments from YouTube:

@melaniegill196

God I love his voice so friggin’ much! Just melts me!

@tjm4809

He is so in tune with artistry which makes his music so authentic and real. When I hear him sing it touches the deepest part of my being. I have seen him twice and was in amazed by his live performances.

@EchelonSiobhann

Stunning... and to be sitting in the crowd, in the darkened room while he sings... its like pure liquid magic. One of the best artists I have ever seen live

@ticksspoon

My universe freezes in mid-collapse as the liquid nitrogen of his voice sets me adrift to places I would otherwise never reach. So friggin' beautiful.

@tweedpenguin712

Makes zero sense

@videnoir4me

Very Nice, Well said. 👍

@emillelopes1457

Minha música favorita ❤

@jacquelineruhnau2279

Absolutely perfect! Thank you Ray! So much love and pain in his voice :'( <3

@peggyjenkins999

I LOVE this song. Thank you Mr. Lamontagne.

@ianennis1280

Special talent,deep,profound,gutwrenchingly good

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