...And We're Just Changing
Real Friends Lyrics


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When I heard my parents cry
I realized that we're all lost kids
Trying to find our way home
Blood is thicker than water
And I still feel like everyone I love forgot how to swim
At least there are pictures of my sister and me
Hanging on the wall in my garage
They always give me peace of mind
They always give me peace of mind

Maybe this place is the same and we're just changing
I'm starting to see that
We're always changing
It's just so weird to think that we're always changing

I still love you mom and dad
But I feel more at home when I'm away from here
I'll never find anything in this dead place
My heart's been buried in the midwest
And I've been digging out for the past three years
For the past three years

I never spent my youth thinking of half the shit I'd go through
Living in the past never helped me
Last night I drove past the house that I grew up in
And tried to find that happiness

Living in the past never helped me
Or anyone move forward
There's no love, no growth for me here
Anymore, anymore

I still love you mom and dad
But I feel more at home when I'm away from here
I'll never find anything in this dead place
My heart's been buried in the midwest
And I've been digging out for the past three years
For the past three years

Maybe this place is the same and we're just changing




I know this place is the same and that I'm changing
And I'm just

Overall Meaning

trying to find my way home


The lyrics of " ...And We're Just Changing" by Real Friends are a poignant reflection on the idea of change and feeling lost. The song opens with the singer listening to his parents cry, which leads to an epiphany that everyone is simply lost kids trying to find their way home. The singer reflects on how blood is thicker than water, yet he feels like the people he loves have forgotten how to swim. The tone is melancholic and reflective as the singer realizes that he might never find anything in his current environment.


The song showcases the struggles of not belonging and feeling disconnected from one's roots. The singer feels he's lost the happiness he had as a child, and any prospect of love or personal growth is in the distant past. However, he still loves his family, but he feels more at home when he's away from them. The lyrics echo the emotions of many people who are trying to navigate through life's ups and downs while remaining anchored to their roots.


The chorus reinforces the idea of constant changes in life, both in oneself and one's environment. The singer wonders if the place he calls home is the same or if it's changing, but he concludes that change is inevitable. He's just trying to find his way home despite everything happening.


In summary, " ...And We're Just Changing" is an introspective song that explores the theme of change and feeling lost. It taps into the inner struggles of many people who experience these emotions and sends a message of hope that everyone can find their way home.


Line by Line Meaning

When I heard my parents cry
Realized we're all lost kids, struggling to find home


Trying to find our way home
In life, we're all searching for where we belong


Blood is thicker than water
Family means a lot, but may not always be enough


At least there are pictures of my sister and me
Memories can be comforting, reminding us of who we are


Maybe this place is the same and we're just changing
Our surroundings may stay the same, but we must keep evolving


Living in the past never helped me
We can't stay stuck in old memories, but must move forward


There's no love, no growth for me here
Stagnant places don't allow us to flourish or find happiness


My heart's been buried in the midwest
Our hearts may hold onto a certain place, even if we leave it physically


Maybe this place is the same and we're just changing
We must embrace change, even if it means leaving our hometown behind




Lyrics © BMG Rights Management
Written by: Brian Blake, Daniel Lambton, David Knox, Eric Haines, Kyle Fasel

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Most interesting comments from YouTube:

@Juriinn

When I heard my parents cry
I realized that we're all lost kids
Trying to find our way home
Blood is thicker than water
I still feel like everyone I love forgot how to swim
At least they're on pictures with my sister and me
Hanging on the wall in my garage
They always give me peace of mind
They always give me peace of mind

Maybe this place is the same and we're just changing
I'm starting to see that
We're always changing
It's so weird to think that we're always changing

I still love you mom and dad
But I feel more at home away from here   <-  (I didn't get these lyrics right I think)
I'm leaving everything in this dead place   <-
My hearts been buried in the mid west

I've been digging out for the past three years
For the past three years

I never spent my youth thinking of half the shit I go through
Living in the past never helped me
Last night I drove past the house that I grew up in
I tried to find that happiness

Living in the past never helped me
Or anyone forward
There's no love, no truth for me here
Anyone, anyone

I still love you mom and dad
But I feel more at home away from here    <-  (I didn't get these lyrics right I think)
I'm leaving everything in this dead place    <-
Always said this

I've been digging out for the past three years
For the past three years.

Maybe this place is the same and i'm just changing
I know this place is the same and i'm changing 
And i'm just..



(I copied the lyrics but I did correct some of it the best I could. Feel free to correct it.) Love the album :D!



@jameslord6282

When I heard my parents cry
I realized that we're all lost kids
Trying to find our way home
Blood is thicker than water
And I still feel like everyone I love forgot how to swim
At least there are pictures of my sister and me
Hanging on the wall in my garage
They always give me peace of mind
They always give me peace of mind

Maybe this place is the same and we're just changing
I'm starting to see that
We're always changing
It's just so weird to think that we're always changing

I still love you mom and dad
But I feel more at home when I'm away from here
I'll never find anything in this dead place
My heart's been buried in the midwest
And I've been digging out for the past three years
For the past three years

I never spent my youth thinking of half the shit I'd go through
Living in the past never helped me
Last night I drove past the house that I grew up in
And tried to find that happiness

Living in the past never helped me
Or anyone move forward
There's no love, no growth for me here
Anymore, anymore...

I still love you mom and dad
But I feel more at home when I'm away from here
I'll never find anything in this dead place
My heart's been buried in the midwest
And I've been digging out for the past three years
For the past three years...

Maybe this place is the same and we're just changing
I know this place is the same and that I'm changing
And I'm just...



All comments from YouTube:

@emmasteagall5034

This song nails it right on the head. Thank you Real Friends for your musicianship, and also your capability of bringing such a good sense of emotion and relevance to your music.

@bigeyecutie

This record will always remain my favorite because it's like the soundtrack to my high school years. I remember going on a road trip to tour my future college and playing this on repeat for all 4 hours. Now I'm 18 and I have two months until graduation, and this song is hitting me in the heart. I will always be thankful to this band for helping me cope with my emotional growing pains.

@willm5032

How's being 21 tho

@shawshifter2510

This album has so much weight to it... its helped me in ways that still amaze me, I'm still finding similarities through out my own life.
I still remember when this album was released, I was fresh into Army basic training, and having to wait roughly 4 months to listen to it, those were some hard times.
after getting out, Im amazed that no matter how many times i listen to this record, I find new meanings to lyrics, and just the weight it carries.
absolutely amazing album.

@ashtonairwaves

Its Dec 2022. How have I missed this album for so long?? This song captures exactly those moments of revisiting familiar places. Only when revisiting, you cant shake the indescribable dull cloud of feeling separated from those places. Realizing that the only attachment to them is by a distant proxy of swirling memories, ..memories of wasted efforts to make a lasting impact (and changed nothing); but also, the memories showing how much you've grown inside. ...The indelible mark of change is the perspective inside and moving on.. equipped with more wisdom from the journey. Meaning the wasted efforts were not wasted afterall.

@angelicabriseno1209

This is probably my fav song off the new album. I love it so much and I can totally relate to it because we really are all just lost kids.

@Juriinn

When I heard my parents cry
I realized that we're all lost kids
Trying to find our way home
Blood is thicker than water
I still feel like everyone I love forgot how to swim
At least they're on pictures with my sister and me
Hanging on the wall in my garage
They always give me peace of mind
They always give me peace of mind

Maybe this place is the same and we're just changing
I'm starting to see that
We're always changing
It's so weird to think that we're always changing

I still love you mom and dad
But I feel more at home away from here   <-  (I didn't get these lyrics right I think)
I'm leaving everything in this dead place   <-
My hearts been buried in the mid west

I've been digging out for the past three years
For the past three years

I never spent my youth thinking of half the shit I go through
Living in the past never helped me
Last night I drove past the house that I grew up in
I tried to find that happiness

Living in the past never helped me
Or anyone forward
There's no love, no truth for me here
Anyone, anyone

I still love you mom and dad
But I feel more at home away from here    <-  (I didn't get these lyrics right I think)
I'm leaving everything in this dead place    <-
Always said this

I've been digging out for the past three years
For the past three years.

Maybe this place is the same and i'm just changing
I know this place is the same and i'm changing 
And i'm just..



(I copied the lyrics but I did correct some of it the best I could. Feel free to correct it.) Love the album :D!

@armandovicario7977

Were hard to find thanks for simplifying .

@jameslord6282

When I heard my parents cry
I realized that we're all lost kids
Trying to find our way home
Blood is thicker than water
And I still feel like everyone I love forgot how to swim
At least there are pictures of my sister and me
Hanging on the wall in my garage
They always give me peace of mind
They always give me peace of mind

Maybe this place is the same and we're just changing
I'm starting to see that
We're always changing
It's just so weird to think that we're always changing

I still love you mom and dad
But I feel more at home when I'm away from here
I'll never find anything in this dead place
My heart's been buried in the midwest
And I've been digging out for the past three years
For the past three years

I never spent my youth thinking of half the shit I'd go through
Living in the past never helped me
Last night I drove past the house that I grew up in
And tried to find that happiness

Living in the past never helped me
Or anyone move forward
There's no love, no growth for me here
Anymore, anymore...

I still love you mom and dad
But I feel more at home when I'm away from here
I'll never find anything in this dead place
My heart's been buried in the midwest
And I've been digging out for the past three years
For the past three years...

Maybe this place is the same and we're just changing
I know this place is the same and that I'm changing
And I'm just...

@cojo65691

This song really brings me back to when I first started college. My favorite song by RF still!

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