For as much as the world has changed since Real Friends first emerged in 2010, the band’s mission hasn’t. The Illinois quintet continue to bleed without apology and write songs that make it okay to feel everything: the ups, the downs, and anything else in between. Rather than shy away from emotion, the group run right towards it with distortion cranked and hearts opened, tightening their careful distillation of pop and punk on each subsequent release. When the band—Dave Knox (lead guitar), Kyle Fasel(bass), Eric Haines (rhythm guitar), and Brian Blake (drums) —welcomed vocalist Cody Muraro in 2020, the goal stayed the same as they crafted new music for Pure Noise Records.
Over the years, Real Friends have forged and strengthened a deep connection with fans. The group’s 2014 full-length debut, Maybe This Place Is the Same and We’re Just Changing, marked a turning point. Rock Sound named it one of the “Top 50 Albums of the Year.” 2016’s The Home Inside My Head maintained this momentum with further acclaim and sold out shows. In 2018, Composure incited applause from Music Connection, Alternative Press, Substream Magazine, New Noise, and Billboard who described it as “raw.” To date, they’ve also amassed over 100 million streams and counting. In 2021, they turned the page on a new chapter with the singles “Nervous Wreck” and “Storyteller.”
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In the fall of 2010 bassist Kyle Fasel "wasn't happy" with the music he was working on and wished to start over. Fasel called lead guitarist Dave Knox and the pair soon started talking about the goals they wished to achieve. Fasel didn't expect it to lead anywhere. Vocalist Dan Lambton, who was friends with Knox, received a call from Fasel, asking if he would like to join him and Knox. They were soon joined by drummer Aaron Schuck. The band recorded its debut EP, This Is Honesty, in the spring of 2011. Following the release of the EP, the band began playing shows around the Midwest. The group soon realized that it "didn't feel right, playing the songs they currently had. Almost forcing ourselves into sound." They had a meeting and came to the conclusion to start over. During this period of change, Fasel and Knox were playing in The Fastest Kid Alive. Shortly afterwards, Schuck was replaced by Brian Blake. Blake had emailed the band after he found out they needed a drummer.
Real Friends didn't have a permanent second guitarist, often having their friends to substitute. Eric Haines soon joined as a rhythm guitarist. Until Haines joined Fasel and Knox would typically write the songs and they didn't have "another guitarist's opinion", according to Fasel. Shortly after the release of the Everyone That Dragged You Here EP, the band's popularity increased and the audience at their shows also increased. The band later released the Put Yourself Back Together EP. Reviewing the EP for Rock Sound, Andy Biddulph said noted that he would not be "surprised" if the band was "mixing it with the big boys in a year's time". In November, the group supported The Wonder Years on their UK shows, included UK Warped Tour.
Fearless signed the band in December 2013. The band were initially hesitant to sign to a label but called Fearless "different. They made it feel more like a family." The group "still wanted full control of our band" while Fearless would help with marketing and distribution, according to Fasel. The band recorded their debut studio album in February with producer Seth Henderson. The band released its debut studio album, Maybe This Place Is the Same and We're Just Changing on July 22, 2014. The album sold over 10,300 copies, charting at number 24 on the Billboard 200. The band played on the 2014 Vans Warped Tour supporting the album's release, appearing on the Journey's Stage. More Acoustic Song EP was released for Record Store Day in April 2015. One of the tracks, an acoustic version of "Late Nights in My Car", features Kevin Jordan from This Wild Life.
Fearless Records announced that a new Real Friends record would be released on their label in 2016, through a post on their official Twitter account, which was made on December 22, 2015. Prior to the Fearless announcement, the band had made several references to the recording of a new album throughout 2015 on their Facebook and Twitter pages. Real Friends finished recording their second full-length album on the road, in February 2016. Prior to the album's announcement, the band began to play a new song entitled "Colder Quicker" during their live sets. On April 1, 2016, the band announced the title of their new album as being The Home Inside My Head, along with the album's release date, cover art and track listing. Additionally, on the same day the band released a music video for "Colder Quicker". The album was released on May 27, 2016.
On November 16, 2017 the band released a single entitled "Get By". On June 18, 2018 the band announced the new album 'Composure' set for release on July 13, 2018 to their home town fans during an RSVP Acoustic session. It was preceded two weeks prior by a single entitled "From the Outside", which was accompanied by a music video.
Style and influences
Real Friends has been described as pop punk and emo, as well as emo pop punk. Punknews reviewer said "If American Football went totally pop-punk, Real Friends would be the result." Vocalist Dan Lambton has been described as a cross between The Starting Line's Kenny Vasoli, The Wonder Years' Dan Campbell and The Dangerous Summer's AJ Perdomo. Bassist Kyle Fasel has cited American Football, Dashboard Confessional, The Early November, Jimmy Eat World, The Promise Ring, Saves the Day, The Starting Line, Spitalfield, Taking Back Sunday and Thursday as influences.
Bassist Kyle on the often used phrase "sleepy eyes and bony knees":
I think there’s something that needs to be explained on our end here. We released a new EP on June 4th titled “Put Yourself Back Together.” There are some references in the songs that mention sleepy eyes and bony knees. There have been some negative comments regarding the amount of times we mention those two things. I want to make this post to explain the detailed meanings of both of those subjects. I assure all of you out there that we would never put something in multiple songs that doesn’t have a great amount of meaning. These songs are my life summed up into some verses and choruses. These songs are my therapy, and that goes for the four other dudes in my band too. So here we go….
Sleepy eyes refers to a time in my life in 2011. I was going through a very messy break up which then lead to a love triangle and that lead me to be depressed. The girl that I was in love with since I was eighteen had found someone else that she grew to love. She told me that she still loved me as well though. This lead to lots of sleepless nights and some weight loss as well. Thirty pounds of weight loss to be exact. Listen to our song “Floorboards” for more details on that whole situation. Well anyway, this situation and some other ones over the past few years have led me to not being able to sleep at night. I had resorted to sleeping pills in 2011 when I was depressed. I also consider myself a night owl in general. I haven’t gone to bed before 2 am in years. But mainly sleepy eyes is something that I think we have all been through in life. It’s about those nights when you’re so overworked and have so much going on that you can’t fall asleep, even if you are physically tired. Not only do I write these songs for my own therapy, but I would hope that some of you could find some peace in them. So of course I’m going to reference this subject multiple times. And that is sleepy eyes.
Bony knees is a subject that pops up in a lot of our songs as well. I will keep it general at first here. I in fact do physically have bony knees. But I will surely say that there is a way deeper meaning behind these bony knees. It kind of all dates back to my depression in 2011. Like I stated before there was some weight loss, which made these knees a little more bony than before. I also found myself physically and mentally down on my knees while going through depression. Even after 2011, after I started feeling better, I would still find myself down and out on my bony knees physically and mentally. We all go through dirt in life and lot of times it makes us fall on our knees for awhile. I can easily say that dirt has put me on my knees more than I want to say. But the beautiful part about falling on your knees is getting back up. And that’s the main point of the bony knees reference. You have to get up in life and move on. We have all been there and we will all be there again. When I write bony knees in a song it reminds me of how I put all of the bullshit behind me and moved on. And that is bony knees.
I just wanted to clear this all up. I don’t want anyone to ever think that we are using this as some sort of gimmick or something. We keep things real and it will always be that way. I hope you can all now find deeper meaning and connection with sleepy eyes and bony knees.
I Think I'm Moving Forward
Real Friends Lyrics
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I don't let it get to me like the rest of the world
I smile and think about how much I've grown over this year
It gives me time to open my mind and know that
I'm moving forward just like that train
I'm moving forward just like that train
Being broken opens my eyes, wide enough to see
I'm doing just fine without you
I hope that I'm fine without you
I've laid to rest the shit that was always out of my hands
I finally sent all my skeletons away
Like everything I couldn't fix and people I couldn't change
Konstantine always tore me apart and made me cry
Now I hear that song and know that
I'm moving forward just like that train
I'm moving forward just like that
On its own happiness won't get me over anything
Being broken opens my eyes, wide enough to see
I'm doing just fine without you
I hope that I'm fine
Happiness, won't get me over this
Happiness, won't get me over anything, over anything
Being broken opens my eyes, wide enough to see
The first verse of "I Think I" by Real Friends talks about how the singer does not let the train stoppage bother them, and how it has been a year of growth for them. They use the time to "open their mind" and reflect on their life. The chorus repeats the phrase "I'm moving forward just like that train" to show that they are growing and progressing, like the train. The singer acknowledges that happiness alone cannot fix everything and that being broken has helped them see things more clearly. They are doing fine on their own and don't need anyone else to be happy.
The second verse discusses how the singer has put to rest things that were out of their control, such as their past mistakes and other people's behavior, including a past lover (possibly Konstantine) that caused them emotional pain. The singer has let go of those negative aspects and moved on with their life, indicated by the repeated use of "I'm moving forward just like that train." The chorus repeats the idea that being broken opens up one's eyes, and they hope to continue moving forward without needing to rely on someone else's happiness.
Overall, "I Think I" is a song about growth and self-improvement. The train symbolizes progress, and the singer juxtaposes their own forward movement with the motion of the train. The song emphasizes the importance of self-reflection and accepting one's flaws and mistakes to move forward. The chorus repeats the phrase "I'm moving forward just like that train" to reassure the listener that progress is possible and necessary for personal growth.
Line by Line Meaning
When I get stopped by a train on my drive home
Sometimes life gives you unexpected delays that you can't control.
I don't let it get to me like the rest of the world
I choose to react differently to unexpected delays and not let them affect me.
I smile and think about how much I've grown over this year
Instead of getting frustrated, I use this time to reflect on my personal growth in the past year.
It gives me time to open my mind and know that
This delay gives me an opportunity to think and gain new perspectives.
I'm moving forward just like that train
I am not letting delays stop me from moving forward and progressing towards my goals.
On its own happiness won't get me over anything
Happiness is important, but it doesn't solve all of life's problems.
Being broken opens my eyes, wide enough to see
Experiencing hardships and struggles can provide valuable insight and perspective.
I'm doing just fine without you
I am capable of being happy and successful without relying on someone else.
I hope that I'm fine without you
I have faith in my ability to thrive on my own.
I've laid to rest the shit that was always out of my hands
I have let go of things that were beyond my control and stopped dwelling on them.
I finally sent all my skeletons away
I have dealt with and moved on from my past mistakes and regrets.
Like everything I couldn't fix and people I couldn't change
I have accepted that there are things in life that I can't change or fix, and that's okay.
Konstantine always tore me apart and made me cry
There was something or someone in my past that caused me pain and heartbreak.
Now I hear that song and know that
I have reached a point where I can look back on my past experiences and see how much I have grown.
Happiness, won't get me over this
Even if I am happy, it won't necessarily fix all of my current struggles.
Happiness, won't get me over anything, over anything
Happiness isn't a solution for everything, and it's important to acknowledge that.
Being broken opens my eyes, wide enough to see
Suffering and pain can provide insight and perspective that can't be gained from happiness alone.
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Written by: Brian Blake, Daniel Lambton, David Knox, Eric Haines, Kyle Fasel
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@Juriinn
When I get stopped by a train on my drive home
I don't let it get to me like the rest of the world
I smile and think about how much I've grown over this year
It gives me time to open my mind and know that
I'm moving forward just like that train
I'm moving forward just like that train
Oh you don't have to mess with getting over anything
Being broken opens my eyes, wide enough to see
I'm doing just fine without you
I hope that I'm fine without you
I'm laid to rest with the shit that was always out of my hands
I finally sent all my skeletons away
Like everything I couldn't fix and people I couldn't change
Cast...always tore me apart and made me cry
Now I hear that song and know that
I'm moving forward just like that train
I'm moving forward just like that train
You don't have to mess with getting over anything
Being broken opens my eyes, wide enough to see
I'm doing just fine without you
I hope that I'm fine
Happiness, won't get me over it
Happiness, won't get me over anything, over anything
Being broken opens my eyes, wide enough to see
@cassidyrodriguez3883
"Konstantine always tore me apart and made me cry" references to Konstantine by Something Corporate then, Konstantine links to Jimmy Eats world's For Me This Is Heaven. I love when bands reference eachother ^-^
@meadefamilyvideos
I love that I'm old enough to get the references, instead of having to figure out who they are on Napster!
@davidpadgett123
Never thought a Real Friends song could make me cry because I was so HAPPY. This song is so cute and happy.
@cowgba
Oh wow their sound really takes me back. Reminds me of long summer drives, hanging out at Warped Tour, filling out a completely unreasonable number of MySpace surveys...
@skylerjamesstroud6686
This band is great. I'm going through a lot right now and the lyrics are helping me so much.
@asentimentalskull
A great upbeat pop punk song about forward progress.
@krisyap9296
6 years and still the most underrated song in their whole discography!!
@lincolnsthename
+Julian Rincon i'm pretty sure the line is "Konstantine always tore me apart." It's an oldish like cult-favorite Something Corporate song.
@cassidyrodriguez3883
+Lincoln Vlogs then Konstantine links to For me this is heaven by Jimmy Eats world
@angeljohnson5031
My favorite song on the album definitely. This song means so much to me. It teaches me that it's ok to move on and get over things that have happened in my past, and now I actually am getting better ^_^