For as much as the world has changed since Real Friends first emerged in 2010, the band’s mission hasn’t. The Illinois quintet continue to bleed without apology and write songs that make it okay to feel everything: the ups, the downs, and anything else in between. Rather than shy away from emotion, the group run right towards it with distortion cranked and hearts opened, tightening their careful distillation of pop and punk on each subsequent release. When the band—Dave Knox (lead guitar), Kyle Fasel(bass), Eric Haines (rhythm guitar), and Brian Blake (drums) —welcomed vocalist Cody Muraro in 2020, the goal stayed the same as they crafted new music for Pure Noise Records.
Over the years, Real Friends have forged and strengthened a deep connection with fans. The group’s 2014 full-length debut, Maybe This Place Is the Same and We’re Just Changing, marked a turning point. Rock Sound named it one of the “Top 50 Albums of the Year.” 2016’s The Home Inside My Head maintained this momentum with further acclaim and sold out shows. In 2018, Composure incited applause from Music Connection, Alternative Press, Substream Magazine, New Noise, and Billboard who described it as “raw.” To date, they’ve also amassed over 100 million streams and counting. In 2021, they turned the page on a new chapter with the singles “Nervous Wreck” and “Storyteller.”
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In the fall of 2010 bassist Kyle Fasel "wasn't happy" with the music he was working on and wished to start over. Fasel called lead guitarist Dave Knox and the pair soon started talking about the goals they wished to achieve. Fasel didn't expect it to lead anywhere. Vocalist Dan Lambton, who was friends with Knox, received a call from Fasel, asking if he would like to join him and Knox. They were soon joined by drummer Aaron Schuck. The band recorded its debut EP, This Is Honesty, in the spring of 2011. Following the release of the EP, the band began playing shows around the Midwest. The group soon realized that it "didn't feel right, playing the songs they currently had. Almost forcing ourselves into sound." They had a meeting and came to the conclusion to start over. During this period of change, Fasel and Knox were playing in The Fastest Kid Alive. Shortly afterwards, Schuck was replaced by Brian Blake. Blake had emailed the band after he found out they needed a drummer.
Real Friends didn't have a permanent second guitarist, often having their friends to substitute. Eric Haines soon joined as a rhythm guitarist. Until Haines joined Fasel and Knox would typically write the songs and they didn't have "another guitarist's opinion", according to Fasel. Shortly after the release of the Everyone That Dragged You Here EP, the band's popularity increased and the audience at their shows also increased. The band later released the Put Yourself Back Together EP. Reviewing the EP for Rock Sound, Andy Biddulph said noted that he would not be "surprised" if the band was "mixing it with the big boys in a year's time". In November, the group supported The Wonder Years on their UK shows, included UK Warped Tour.
Fearless signed the band in December 2013. The band were initially hesitant to sign to a label but called Fearless "different. They made it feel more like a family." The group "still wanted full control of our band" while Fearless would help with marketing and distribution, according to Fasel. The band recorded their debut studio album in February with producer Seth Henderson. The band released its debut studio album, Maybe This Place Is the Same and We're Just Changing on July 22, 2014. The album sold over 10,300 copies, charting at number 24 on the Billboard 200. The band played on the 2014 Vans Warped Tour supporting the album's release, appearing on the Journey's Stage. More Acoustic Song EP was released for Record Store Day in April 2015. One of the tracks, an acoustic version of "Late Nights in My Car", features Kevin Jordan from This Wild Life.
Fearless Records announced that a new Real Friends record would be released on their label in 2016, through a post on their official Twitter account, which was made on December 22, 2015. Prior to the Fearless announcement, the band had made several references to the recording of a new album throughout 2015 on their Facebook and Twitter pages. Real Friends finished recording their second full-length album on the road, in February 2016. Prior to the album's announcement, the band began to play a new song entitled "Colder Quicker" during their live sets. On April 1, 2016, the band announced the title of their new album as being The Home Inside My Head, along with the album's release date, cover art and track listing. Additionally, on the same day the band released a music video for "Colder Quicker". The album was released on May 27, 2016.
On November 16, 2017 the band released a single entitled "Get By". On June 18, 2018 the band announced the new album 'Composure' set for release on July 13, 2018 to their home town fans during an RSVP Acoustic session. It was preceded two weeks prior by a single entitled "From the Outside", which was accompanied by a music video.
Style and influences
Real Friends has been described as pop punk and emo, as well as emo pop punk. Punknews reviewer said "If American Football went totally pop-punk, Real Friends would be the result." Vocalist Dan Lambton has been described as a cross between The Starting Line's Kenny Vasoli, The Wonder Years' Dan Campbell and The Dangerous Summer's AJ Perdomo. Bassist Kyle Fasel has cited American Football, Dashboard Confessional, The Early November, Jimmy Eat World, The Promise Ring, Saves the Day, The Starting Line, Spitalfield, Taking Back Sunday and Thursday as influences.
Bassist Kyle on the often used phrase "sleepy eyes and bony knees":
I think there’s something that needs to be explained on our end here. We released a new EP on June 4th titled “Put Yourself Back Together.” There are some references in the songs that mention sleepy eyes and bony knees. There have been some negative comments regarding the amount of times we mention those two things. I want to make this post to explain the detailed meanings of both of those subjects. I assure all of you out there that we would never put something in multiple songs that doesn’t have a great amount of meaning. These songs are my life summed up into some verses and choruses. These songs are my therapy, and that goes for the four other dudes in my band too. So here we go….
Sleepy eyes refers to a time in my life in 2011. I was going through a very messy break up which then lead to a love triangle and that lead me to be depressed. The girl that I was in love with since I was eighteen had found someone else that she grew to love. She told me that she still loved me as well though. This lead to lots of sleepless nights and some weight loss as well. Thirty pounds of weight loss to be exact. Listen to our song “Floorboards” for more details on that whole situation. Well anyway, this situation and some other ones over the past few years have led me to not being able to sleep at night. I had resorted to sleeping pills in 2011 when I was depressed. I also consider myself a night owl in general. I haven’t gone to bed before 2 am in years. But mainly sleepy eyes is something that I think we have all been through in life. It’s about those nights when you’re so overworked and have so much going on that you can’t fall asleep, even if you are physically tired. Not only do I write these songs for my own therapy, but I would hope that some of you could find some peace in them. So of course I’m going to reference this subject multiple times. And that is sleepy eyes.
Bony knees is a subject that pops up in a lot of our songs as well. I will keep it general at first here. I in fact do physically have bony knees. But I will surely say that there is a way deeper meaning behind these bony knees. It kind of all dates back to my depression in 2011. Like I stated before there was some weight loss, which made these knees a little more bony than before. I also found myself physically and mentally down on my knees while going through depression. Even after 2011, after I started feeling better, I would still find myself down and out on my bony knees physically and mentally. We all go through dirt in life and lot of times it makes us fall on our knees for awhile. I can easily say that dirt has put me on my knees more than I want to say. But the beautiful part about falling on your knees is getting back up. And that’s the main point of the bony knees reference. You have to get up in life and move on. We have all been there and we will all be there again. When I write bony knees in a song it reminds me of how I put all of the bullshit behind me and moved on. And that is bony knees.
I just wanted to clear this all up. I don’t want anyone to ever think that we are using this as some sort of gimmick or something. We keep things real and it will always be that way. I hope you can all now find deeper meaning and connection with sleepy eyes and bony knees.
Isolating Everything
Real Friends Lyrics
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Just to feel some kind of pride
Dismissing actualities is making matters worse
The ink will fade but it won't go away
A baggy shirt hides my hollow frame
Lie down and get sucked in
As if I was keeping a secret from you
You could throw out your line
A call in temporary clarity
It'll never stop
It'll never stop this
I live in the middle of a lake
And I don't know how to swim
I've isolated everything
Everywhere I go, I am consistently alone
A baggy shirt hides my hollow frame
Lie down and get sucked in
You act as if I have this healing touch
As if I was keeping a secret from you
You could throw out your line
A call in temporary clarity
It'll never stop
It'll never stop this
Cautions only ever made me worry
You know that cautions only ever made me worry
[?]
Because cautions only ever made me worry
[?]
Because cautions only ever made me worry
Cautions only ever made me worry
Cautions only ever made me worry
Cautions only ever made me worry
Cautions only ever made me worry
The lyrics of Real Friends's song "Isolating Everything" highlight themes of rushing through life, disconnect, isolation, and the negative impact of dismissive attitudes. The first verse describes the tendency to rush through life in search of pride, but this only worsens matters when we ignore the reality of our situations. The line "The ink will fade but it won't go away" suggests that although we may try to ignore or forget our problems, they will continue to affect us.
The next set of lyrics emphasizes the feeling of emptiness and isolation. The singer feels as if their true self is concealed behind a baggy shirt, symbolizing their attempt to hide their vulnerabilities and insecurities. The phrase "lie down and get sucked in" implies a feeling of being consumed or overwhelmed by their circumstances.
The chorus brings attention to the perceived expectations others may have of the singer. They are seen as someone with a healing touch or a keeper of secrets, which may lead to feelings of pressure or the need to maintain a facade. The line "A call in temporary clarity" suggests that even if they try to reach out for help or understanding, it won't provide a lasting solution to their isolation. The repetition of "It'll never stop, it'll never stop this" reinforces a sense of hopelessness or the feeling that their isolation is a persistent issue.
The following verse further emphasizes the isolation theme by comparing the singer's existence to being in the middle of a lake without knowing how to swim. This metaphorical lake represents their isolated state, and the inability to swim symbolizes their struggle to navigate relationships and connect with others. The line "Everywhere I go, I am consistently alone" highlights the pervasiveness of their isolation.
The chorus repeats, again referring to the pressure of being perceived as someone with healing abilities or secrets. The line "Cautions only ever made me worry" suggests that the singer's tendency to overthink and worry intensify when they feel cautious or pressured by others. The repetition of "Cautions only ever made me worry" emphasizes the adverse effect of such caution.
Overall, the lyrics of "Isolating Everything" depict a sense of rushing through life and dismissing realities, leading to a worsening sense of isolation. The singer feels alone and struggles to connect with others due to their hidden vulnerabilities. The song explores the impact of perceived expectations and the negative consequences of dismissive attitudes, leaving the singer feeling trapped in their isolated state.
Line by Line Meaning
We rush through our lives
We move quickly and haphazardly through our lives
Just to feel some kind of pride
Only to experience a false sense of accomplishment
Dismissing actualities is making matters worse
Ignoring reality is exacerbating the situation
The ink will fade but it won't go away
The effects may diminish, but they will still linger
A baggy shirt hides my hollow frame
I wear loose clothing to conceal how empty I feel inside
Lie down and get sucked in
Give in to the overwhelming emotions and circumstances
You act as if I have this healing touch
You believe I possess the ability to fix everything
As if I was keeping a secret from you
As if there is something I am hiding from you
You could throw out your line
You can reach out for help or communication
A call in temporary clarity
An attempt to gain a temporary moment of understanding
It'll never stop
The struggle and isolation will persist
It'll never stop this
This feeling of being alone and disconnected will endure
I live in the middle of a lake
I exist in a state of isolation and vulnerability
And I don't know how to swim
I lack the skills or knowledge to navigate through life's challenges
I've isolated everything
I have distanced myself from everyone and everything
Everywhere I go, I am consistently alone
No matter where I am, I always feel isolated and alone
Cautions only ever made me worry
Warnings and precautions only heightened my anxiety
You know that cautions only ever made me worry
You are aware that warnings only increased my anxiety
[?]
This line is unclear and cannot be reworded for meaning
Because cautions only ever made me worry
Because warnings and precautions always caused me anxiety
[?]
This line is unclear and cannot be reworded for meaning
Cautions only ever made me worry
Warnings and precautions always caused me anxiety
Cautions only ever made me worry
Warnings and precautions always caused me anxiety
Cautions only ever made me worry
Warnings and precautions always caused me anxiety
Cautions only ever made me worry
Warnings and precautions always caused me anxiety
Lyrics © BMG Rights Management
Written by: DAN LAMBTON
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01UofMfan
[Verse 1]
We rush through our lives
Just to feel some kind of pride
Dismissing actualities is making matters worse
The ink will fade but it won't go away
[Pre-Chorus]
A baggy shirt hides my hollow frame
Lie down and get sucked in
[Chorus]
You act as if I have this healing touch
As if I was keeping a secret from you
You could throw out your line
A call in temporary clarity
It'll never stop
It'll never stop this
[Verse 2]
I live in the middle of a lake
And I don't know how to swim
I've isolated everything
Everywhere I go I am consistently alone
[Pre-Chorus]
A baggy shirt hides my hollow frame
Lie down and get sucked in
[Chorus]
You act as if I have this healing touch
As if I was keeping a secret from you
You could throw out your line
A call in temporary clarity
It'll never stop
It'll never stop this
[Bridge]
Cautions only ever made me worry
You know that cautions only ever made me worry
You best forget your things and leave
Because cautions only ever made me worry
You best forget your things and leave
Because cautions only ever made me worry
Cautions only ever made me worry
Cautions only ever made me worry
Cautions only ever made me worry
Cautions only ever made me worry
Dvoki
We rush through our lives
Just to feel some kind of pride
Dismissing actualities is making matters worse
The ink will fade but it won’t go away
[Pre-Chorus]
A baggy shirt hides my hollow frame
Lie down and get sucked in
[Chorus]
You act as if I have this healing touch
As if I was keeping a secret from you
You could throw out your line
A call in temporary clarity
It’ll never stop
It’ll never stop this
[Verse 2]
I live in the middle of a lake
And I don’t know how to swim
I’ve isolated everything
Everywhere I go I am consistently alone
[Pre-Chorus]
A baggy shirt hides my hollow frame
Lie down and get sucked in
[Chorus]
You act as if I have this healing touch
As if I was keeping a secret from you
You could throw out your line
A call in temporary clarity
It’ll never stop
It’ll never stop this
[Bridge]
Cautions only ever made me worry
You know that cautions only ever made me worry
[?]
Because cautions only ever made me worry
[?]
Because cautions only ever made me worry
Cautions only ever made me worry
Cautions only ever made me worry
Cautions only ever made me worry
Cautions only ever made me worry
01UofMfan
[Verse 1]
We rush through our lives
Just to feel some kind of pride
Dismissing actualities is making matters worse
The ink will fade but it won't go away
[Pre-Chorus]
A baggy shirt hides my hollow frame
Lie down and get sucked in
[Chorus]
You act as if I have this healing touch
As if I was keeping a secret from you
You could throw out your line
A call in temporary clarity
It'll never stop
It'll never stop this
[Verse 2]
I live in the middle of a lake
And I don't know how to swim
I've isolated everything
Everywhere I go I am consistently alone
[Pre-Chorus]
A baggy shirt hides my hollow frame
Lie down and get sucked in
[Chorus]
You act as if I have this healing touch
As if I was keeping a secret from you
You could throw out your line
A call in temporary clarity
It'll never stop
It'll never stop this
[Bridge]
Cautions only ever made me worry
You know that cautions only ever made me worry
You best forget your things and leave
Because cautions only ever made me worry
You best forget your things and leave
Because cautions only ever made me worry
Cautions only ever made me worry
Cautions only ever made me worry
Cautions only ever made me worry
Cautions only ever made me worry
01UofMfan
thanks
Paddie Corley
"you best forget your things and leave"
Chris G
Home inside my head is the best album they ever made❤️❤️
Vinícius Oliveira
@Kris Yap Composure has more catch songs in my opinion.
Kris Yap
Funny thing is Real Friends said this album didn’t hit well. I honestly think Home inside my head was way better than composure
Dvoki
We rush through our lives
Just to feel some kind of pride
Dismissing actualities is making matters worse
The ink will fade but it won’t go away
[Pre-Chorus]
A baggy shirt hides my hollow frame
Lie down and get sucked in
[Chorus]
You act as if I have this healing touch
As if I was keeping a secret from you
You could throw out your line
A call in temporary clarity
It’ll never stop
It’ll never stop this
[Verse 2]
I live in the middle of a lake
And I don’t know how to swim
I’ve isolated everything
Everywhere I go I am consistently alone
[Pre-Chorus]
A baggy shirt hides my hollow frame
Lie down and get sucked in
[Chorus]
You act as if I have this healing touch
As if I was keeping a secret from you
You could throw out your line
A call in temporary clarity
It’ll never stop
It’ll never stop this
[Bridge]
Cautions only ever made me worry
You know that cautions only ever made me worry
[?]
Because cautions only ever made me worry
[?]
Because cautions only ever made me worry
Cautions only ever made me worry
Cautions only ever made me worry
Cautions only ever made me worry
Cautions only ever made me worry
Paddie Corley
Scratch that, it's "you best forget your things and leave"
Paddie Corley
I think maybe it's "you best pick up your things and leave" but I may be wrong idk
Arif Zakaria
I love people like you. Thank you!