For as much as the world has changed since Real Friends first emerged in 2010, the band’s mission hasn’t. The Illinois quintet continue to bleed without apology and write songs that make it okay to feel everything: the ups, the downs, and anything else in between. Rather than shy away from emotion, the group run right towards it with distortion cranked and hearts opened, tightening their careful distillation of pop and punk on each subsequent release. When the band—Dave Knox (lead guitar), Kyle Fasel(bass), Eric Haines (rhythm guitar), and Brian Blake (drums) —welcomed vocalist Cody Muraro in 2020, the goal stayed the same as they crafted new music for Pure Noise Records.
Over the years, Real Friends have forged and strengthened a deep connection with fans. The group’s 2014 full-length debut, Maybe This Place Is the Same and We’re Just Changing, marked a turning point. Rock Sound named it one of the “Top 50 Albums of the Year.” 2016’s The Home Inside My Head maintained this momentum with further acclaim and sold out shows. In 2018, Composure incited applause from Music Connection, Alternative Press, Substream Magazine, New Noise, and Billboard who described it as “raw.” To date, they’ve also amassed over 100 million streams and counting. In 2021, they turned the page on a new chapter with the singles “Nervous Wreck” and “Storyteller.”
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In the fall of 2010 bassist Kyle Fasel "wasn't happy" with the music he was working on and wished to start over. Fasel called lead guitarist Dave Knox and the pair soon started talking about the goals they wished to achieve. Fasel didn't expect it to lead anywhere. Vocalist Dan Lambton, who was friends with Knox, received a call from Fasel, asking if he would like to join him and Knox. They were soon joined by drummer Aaron Schuck. The band recorded its debut EP, This Is Honesty, in the spring of 2011. Following the release of the EP, the band began playing shows around the Midwest. The group soon realized that it "didn't feel right, playing the songs they currently had. Almost forcing ourselves into sound." They had a meeting and came to the conclusion to start over. During this period of change, Fasel and Knox were playing in The Fastest Kid Alive. Shortly afterwards, Schuck was replaced by Brian Blake. Blake had emailed the band after he found out they needed a drummer.
Real Friends didn't have a permanent second guitarist, often having their friends to substitute. Eric Haines soon joined as a rhythm guitarist. Until Haines joined Fasel and Knox would typically write the songs and they didn't have "another guitarist's opinion", according to Fasel. Shortly after the release of the Everyone That Dragged You Here EP, the band's popularity increased and the audience at their shows also increased. The band later released the Put Yourself Back Together EP. Reviewing the EP for Rock Sound, Andy Biddulph said noted that he would not be "surprised" if the band was "mixing it with the big boys in a year's time". In November, the group supported The Wonder Years on their UK shows, included UK Warped Tour.
Fearless signed the band in December 2013. The band were initially hesitant to sign to a label but called Fearless "different. They made it feel more like a family." The group "still wanted full control of our band" while Fearless would help with marketing and distribution, according to Fasel. The band recorded their debut studio album in February with producer Seth Henderson. The band released its debut studio album, Maybe This Place Is the Same and We're Just Changing on July 22, 2014. The album sold over 10,300 copies, charting at number 24 on the Billboard 200. The band played on the 2014 Vans Warped Tour supporting the album's release, appearing on the Journey's Stage. More Acoustic Song EP was released for Record Store Day in April 2015. One of the tracks, an acoustic version of "Late Nights in My Car", features Kevin Jordan from This Wild Life.
Fearless Records announced that a new Real Friends record would be released on their label in 2016, through a post on their official Twitter account, which was made on December 22, 2015. Prior to the Fearless announcement, the band had made several references to the recording of a new album throughout 2015 on their Facebook and Twitter pages. Real Friends finished recording their second full-length album on the road, in February 2016. Prior to the album's announcement, the band began to play a new song entitled "Colder Quicker" during their live sets. On April 1, 2016, the band announced the title of their new album as being The Home Inside My Head, along with the album's release date, cover art and track listing. Additionally, on the same day the band released a music video for "Colder Quicker". The album was released on May 27, 2016.
On November 16, 2017 the band released a single entitled "Get By". On June 18, 2018 the band announced the new album 'Composure' set for release on July 13, 2018 to their home town fans during an RSVP Acoustic session. It was preceded two weeks prior by a single entitled "From the Outside", which was accompanied by a music video.
Style and influences
Real Friends has been described as pop punk and emo, as well as emo pop punk. Punknews reviewer said "If American Football went totally pop-punk, Real Friends would be the result." Vocalist Dan Lambton has been described as a cross between The Starting Line's Kenny Vasoli, The Wonder Years' Dan Campbell and The Dangerous Summer's AJ Perdomo. Bassist Kyle Fasel has cited American Football, Dashboard Confessional, The Early November, Jimmy Eat World, The Promise Ring, Saves the Day, The Starting Line, Spitalfield, Taking Back Sunday and Thursday as influences.
Bassist Kyle on the often used phrase "sleepy eyes and bony knees":
I think there’s something that needs to be explained on our end here. We released a new EP on June 4th titled “Put Yourself Back Together.” There are some references in the songs that mention sleepy eyes and bony knees. There have been some negative comments regarding the amount of times we mention those two things. I want to make this post to explain the detailed meanings of both of those subjects. I assure all of you out there that we would never put something in multiple songs that doesn’t have a great amount of meaning. These songs are my life summed up into some verses and choruses. These songs are my therapy, and that goes for the four other dudes in my band too. So here we go….
Sleepy eyes refers to a time in my life in 2011. I was going through a very messy break up which then lead to a love triangle and that lead me to be depressed. The girl that I was in love with since I was eighteen had found someone else that she grew to love. She told me that she still loved me as well though. This lead to lots of sleepless nights and some weight loss as well. Thirty pounds of weight loss to be exact. Listen to our song “Floorboards” for more details on that whole situation. Well anyway, this situation and some other ones over the past few years have led me to not being able to sleep at night. I had resorted to sleeping pills in 2011 when I was depressed. I also consider myself a night owl in general. I haven’t gone to bed before 2 am in years. But mainly sleepy eyes is something that I think we have all been through in life. It’s about those nights when you’re so overworked and have so much going on that you can’t fall asleep, even if you are physically tired. Not only do I write these songs for my own therapy, but I would hope that some of you could find some peace in them. So of course I’m going to reference this subject multiple times. And that is sleepy eyes.
Bony knees is a subject that pops up in a lot of our songs as well. I will keep it general at first here. I in fact do physically have bony knees. But I will surely say that there is a way deeper meaning behind these bony knees. It kind of all dates back to my depression in 2011. Like I stated before there was some weight loss, which made these knees a little more bony than before. I also found myself physically and mentally down on my knees while going through depression. Even after 2011, after I started feeling better, I would still find myself down and out on my bony knees physically and mentally. We all go through dirt in life and lot of times it makes us fall on our knees for awhile. I can easily say that dirt has put me on my knees more than I want to say. But the beautiful part about falling on your knees is getting back up. And that’s the main point of the bony knees reference. You have to get up in life and move on. We have all been there and we will all be there again. When I write bony knees in a song it reminds me of how I put all of the bullshit behind me and moved on. And that is bony knees.
I just wanted to clear this all up. I don’t want anyone to ever think that we are using this as some sort of gimmick or something. We keep things real and it will always be that way. I hope you can all now find deeper meaning and connection with sleepy eyes and bony knees.
Skeletons
Real Friends Lyrics
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When I heard that voice call me in for the night
I remember when love was just a word and not a fight
All I had to worry about were broken bones and being left alone
Way back then there were monsters in my closet
And now there's just skeletons hiding in there
The clock is ticking away
The sunburn on my shoulders kept warm back then
Like the heat from the blacktop again and again
I remember when smoke didn't fill my lungs
When my hands were lost and so young
It seemed like the houses were touching the sky
And I thought this smile on my face would never lie
Oh, the summer we were staring at the sun
The summer we were staring at the
Oh, the summer we were staring at the sun
Way back then there were monsters in my closet
And now there's just skeletons hiding in there
The clock is ticking away
The leaves are still falling every day
The sunburn on my shoulders kept warm back then
Like the heat from the blacktop again and again
In the song "Skeletons" by Real Friends, the lyrics portray the theme of time passing and growing up. The singer reminisces about their youth and the innocence they once had. The first lines of the song mention their fear of the dark and the comfort they had in a voice calling them to bed, showing the dependency they had in their early years. As the song progresses, the lyrics mention how love was once effortless and now it has become something worth fighting for.
The lyrics also mention how bad habits and damage to their physical and emotional health have taken over their lives. They used to fear monsters under the bed, but now the skeletons in their closet represent their regrets and mistakes. The metaphor of the clock ticking and leaves falling depicts the unstoppable nature of time and how it has taken them away from their youth. The chorus repeats the idea that the past is now filled with skeletons, as though the memories are now just bones of what once was.
The bridge of the song specifically mentions a summer where they were "staring at the sun," perhaps implying they were carefree and not worried about the consequences of their actions. However, the last line of the bridge reminds the listener that their hands were "lost and so young," indicating that they didn't know any better.
Overall, the song "Skeletons" captures the bittersweet nature of growing up. The past is filled with both happy memories and painful regrets, portrayed through the use of metaphor and imagery.
Line by Line Meaning
I won't forget when I couldn't go to bed with the lights off
I still remember when I couldn't fall asleep in the dark
When I heard that voice call me in for the night
When I heard my parents call me to come inside for the night
I remember when love was just a word and not a fight
I recall a time when love didn't involve conflict and disagreements
All I had to worry about were broken bones and being left alone
My biggest concerns were physical injuries and feeling lonely
Way back then there were monsters in my closet
In the past, I believed there were scary creatures hiding in my closet
And now there's just skeletons hiding in there
Nowadays, nothing truly terrifying resides in my closet, just old memories
The clock is ticking away
Time continues to pass by, unrelenting
The leaves are still falling every day
The autumn season continues, and leaves still drop from the trees daily
The sunburn on my shoulders kept warm back then
I remember the feeling of being sunburnt, which gave me warmth in the past
Like the heat from the blacktop again and again
Like the consistent, hot feeling of pavement on a sunny day
I remember when smoke didn't fill my lungs
I have a memory of a time when I didn't inhale smoke
When my hands were lost and so young
When I was inexperienced and unsure about life
It seemed like the houses were touching the sky
The buildings looked so tall that it appeared like they reached the sky
And I thought this smile on my face would never lie
My facial expressions seemed authentic and genuine in the past
Oh, the summer we were staring at the sun
Reminiscing on the summer when we used to stare at the sun for long periods of time
The summer we were staring at the
Continuation of previous line
Oh, the summer we were staring at the sun
Reemphasizing point from earlier in the song
Way back then there were monsters in my closet
Reusing a line from earlier in the song for emphasis
And now there's just skeletons hiding in there
Repeating a line from earlier in the song for emphasis
The clock is ticking away
Final repetition of a line from earlier in the song that signifies the passing of time
The leaves are still falling every day
Final repetition of a line from earlier in the song that signifies the constant change and progression of life
The sunburn on my shoulders kept warm back then
Final repetition of a line from earlier in the song that represents the warmth and comfort of simpler times
Like the heat from the blacktop again and again
Final repetition of a line from earlier in the song that represents the familiar sensation of warm pavement on a sunny day
Contributed by Riley W. Suggest a correction in the comments below.
cincykid87x
Man this song is so good. I've listened to it on repeat 5 times now. Keep em coming, boys
cvaughan14
This song just makes me feel so good. Thank you Real Friends
JARED INTERNET
soo amazing<3 so is the acoustic version
Zach Balter
I saw them live and ever since i loved them
xTanner22
You can tell his lyrics have matured so much. Still amazing though
Elizabeth Schneider
real friends takes my thoughts and makes them beautiful
Destiny Holt
This song is seriously rad, might be a new favorite.
Logan Wills
Still one of my favorites 😪
Ash J
replaying forever.
dasai hernandez
i always cry when i hear this is that normal ;-;