Mommy Where's Daddy?
Red Hot Chili Peppers Lyrics


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Mommy, where's daddy?
Mommy, where's daddy?

Right here, girl
Sweet thing, you look so sad
Cheer up, don't you know your dad is bad
Give daddy a kiss, girl
Oh, dad

There ain't no problem I can't face, 'cos
Your daddy's got a bigger bag of tricks
Give daddy a kiss, girl
Oh, dad

Mommy, where's daddy?
Mommy, where's daddy?

Come on, sit on your daddy's lap 'cos
I'm the one who pats your back
Give daddy a kiss, girl
Oh, dad

Lemme see now where to begin
Lemme start by tuckin' you in
Give daddy a kiss, girl
Oh, dad





Mommy, where's daddy?

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to Red Hot Chili Peppers' song "Mommy Where's Daddy?" are a disturbing commentary on the sexual abuse of a child by their own father. The child is asking where their father is, but the father is already there, and is sexually exploiting them. The father tells the child to cheer up and that he has a "bigger bag of tricks" to solve any problems they may have. The lines "come on, sit on your daddy's lap 'cos I'm the one who pats your back" and "lemme start by tuckin' you in" highlight the father's predatory behavior towards his own child. The song ends with the child asking repeatedly "mommy, where's daddy?", perhaps indicating a feeling of confusion and helplessness.


The subject matter of the song and its lyrics have been controversial since its release in 1985. Some have criticized the band for creating such a disturbing narrative, while others have praised them for highlighting a taboo issue that needs to be addressed.


Line by Line Meaning

Mommy, where's daddy?
The child is asking about the whereabouts of their father.


Right here, girl
The father is physically present in the room with the child.


Sweet thing, you look so sad
The father is trying to comfort the child who appears to be upset.


Cheer up, don't you know your dad is bad
The father is trying to use humor to make the child feel better.


Give daddy a kiss, girl
The father is asking for affection from the child.


Oh, dad
The child responds to the father's request for a kiss.


There ain't no problem I can't face, 'cos
The father is expressing confidence in his ability to handle any situation that may arise.


Your daddy's got a bigger bag of tricks
The father is assuring the child that he has many ways of solving problems.


Come on, sit on your daddy's lap 'cos
The father is asking the child to sit on his lap to engage in physical closeness.


I'm the one who pats your back
The father is reminding the child of his role as a comforter and caregiver.


Lemme see now where to begin
The father is trying to figure out how to proceed in caring for the child.


Lemme start by tuckin' you in
The father is beginning the process of putting the child to bed.


Mommy, where's daddy?
The child repeats their initial question about the father's whereabouts.




Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: ANTHONY KIEDIS, CLIFF MARTINEZ, JACK SHERMAN, MICHAEL PETER BALZARY

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Most interesting comment from YouTube:

Mike D

Daddy from: people under the stairs

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* * Not sure why, but immediately I thought of "Daddy" from the people under the stairs



All comments from YouTube:

Sombrero

seeing these guys live before the 90s is definitely a bucket list item on my time travel itinerary

Glo

Me too

Bolo

Saw Peps in '86 in tiny bar in So Ca, wasn't even pack, sitting waiting for them to start, I heard some commotion coming from back of the bar, When I turned my head I saw 4 skinny dudes with no shirts on slowing walking in unison together in step "butts-to-nuts" - at first I was like, who the hell are these guys??? Then I realized it was the damn Peppers - they continued to walk through the crowd up to the tiny stage, strapped on their instruments and blazed into Black Flags Nervous Breakdown
Seen million bands going back to 1975 but this was one of the coolest intros I even seen
Amazing show
Peppers up to Hillel's death, this is truly the only real Chilli Peps - their energy was off the chart

Air Guitar

When I first heard this song when I was like 13, I thought it was the creepiest thing ever. I thought it was fucking weird.. Now, no words can describe the groove in this song. Sure, the singing is a little creepy but it's also pretty funky. Usually the vocals is what adds to the groove, as well as of course bass, guitar, drums.

Ice Garmendia

The voice from Anthony on the first 3 albums was more natural, less tuned up, but it had a lot of personality and made those albums so special.

sethamphetamine xd

yea i think they were just crazy on drugs when they made this song

Brian Montes de oca

Jack Sherman Genius ❤️❤️❤️

Spacedawg

To me, these songs on that album have some kind of "desert" vibe. It reminds me of hot summers and funky nights of my youth. This and "Why dont you love" me are my favourites.

Nas Oinotna

probably my favourite album from the reds, these guys used to funk good !

Fli

@Inka D. Ibañez One Hot Minute was good, but Dave killed their wtule5

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