My Lovely Man
Red Hot Chili Peppers Lyrics


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I used to shout
Across the room to you
And you'd come dancin'
Like a fool
Shuffle step
You funky mother
Come to me
All warm as covers

Rest with me
My lovely brother
For you see
There is no other
Memory so sad and sweet
I'll see you soon
Save me a seat

Well I'm cryin'
Now my lovely man
Yes I'm cryin'
Now and no one can
Ever fill the
The hole you left my man
I'll see you later
My lovely man if I can

In my room
I'm all alone
Waiting for you
To get home

Listen to Roberta Flack
But I know you won't come back

Well I'm cryin'
Now my lovely man
I'll see you later
My lovely man if I can

Just in case
You never knew
I miss you slim
I love you too
See my heart
It's black and blue
When I die
I will find you

Well I'm cryin'
Now my lovely man
Yes I'm cryin'
Now and no one can
Ever fill the
The hole you left my man




I'll see you later
My lovely man if I can

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of Red Hot Chili Peppers' song My Lovely Man are a tribute to the band's former guitarist, Hillel Slovak, who died of a heroin overdose in 1988. This is apparent in the poignant chorus, "Well I'm cryin', now my lovely man. Yes, I'm cryin' now and no one can ever fill the hole you left, my man. I'll see you later, my lovely man if I can." The song is written from the perspective of a mourning friend or band member who is trying to come to terms with Slovak's passing.


The first verse talks about how Slovak used to dance and move around the room when called upon. The singer of the song is nostalgic about the good times with Slovak, remarking, "Memory so sad and sweet, I'll see you soon, save me a seat." The second verse depicts the loneliness and sadness of the person left behind, who is waiting for Slovak to come back home but knows he never will: "In my room, I'm all alone, Waiting for you to get home. Listen to Roberta Flack, but I know you won't come back."


The song ends with a heartfelt expression of love by the singer towards Slovak, "Just in case you never knew, I miss you slim, I love you too. See my heart, it's black and blue. When I die, I will find you." - this shows the deep connection the two had shared, and the pain that the singer is going through in dealing with the loss of a loved one.


Line by Line Meaning

I used to shout
I would call out to you loudly


Across the room to you
From one end of the room to the other


And you'd come dancin'
You would come to me dancing


Like a fool
In a silly manner


Shuffle step
A specific dance move


You funky mother
You cool person


Come to me
Approach me


All warm as covers
Warm and comforting


Rest with me
Relax with me


My lovely brother
Beloved friend


For you see
Because you understand


There is no other
No one else like you


Memory so sad and sweet
A bittersweet memory


I'll see you soon
We will meet again shortly


Save me a seat
Wait for me


Well I'm cryin'
Expressing my sorrow with tears


Now my lovely man
My dear friend


Yes I'm cryin'
I am shedding tears


Now and no one can
No one can stop me


Ever fill the
Replace the


The hole you left my man
The void you left behind


I'll see you later
I will see you again


If I can
If it is possible


In my room
Alone in my personal space


I'm all alone
No one is with me


Waiting for you
Expecting your return


To get home
To come back


Listen to Roberta Flack
Listening to sad music


But I know you won't come back
I am aware that you won't return


Just in case
As a precaution


You never knew
If you didn't know


I miss you slim
I miss you, my thin friend


I love you too
I also love you


See my heart
Understand my feelings


It's black and blue
It is bruised and hurt


When I die
At the end of my life


I will find you
I will search for you




Lyrics © Peermusic Publishing
Written by: Michael Balzary, John Anthony Frusciante, Anthony Kiedis, Chad Smith

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