Mistress
Red House Painters Lyrics


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The light color in the room
The sunshine seeping in
Doesn't mix with the black of
Death's angel looming in

I've had enough of the
Brutal beatings and name callings
To lose me to this bed
Bruised internally, eternally

Your praise little gifts you spent your money
And stuffed me with
Didn't amount to anything
The attention I need is much more serious

A kind of weight you couldn't lift
Even if your cheap career depended on it
I need someone much more mysterious
To be my, to be my miss
To be my mistress

To be my, to be my miss
To be my mistress
To be my, to be my miss
To be my mistress




To be my, to be my miss
To be my mistress

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of "Mistress" by Red House Painters touch on themes of domestic violence, abuse, and the search for a more satisfying relationship. The opening lines describe the juxtaposition of light and darkness in a room, with the sunshine representing hope and positivity while "Death's angel" looms in the form of memories of abuse. The singer has been beaten and verbally abused to the point where they "lose [them] to this bed," indicating a sense of helplessness and defeat.


The chorus provides some insight into what the singer is looking for in a relationship. The gifts and attention from their previous partner were not enough, and they need something "much more serious" and "mysterious." The weight of their traumatic past is described as something that their previous partner couldn't lift even if their "cheap career depended on it."


The repeated phrase "to be my mistress" can be interpreted in different ways. It could be a call for a partner who is willing to take charge and dominate, or it could be a way of rejecting the traditional roles of husband and wife in favor of a more unconventional relationship.


Overall, "Mistress" is a song that deals with heavy subject matter while still leaving room for interpretation and personal meaning.


Line by Line Meaning

The light color in the room
The bright, cheerful color in the room.


The sunshine seeping in
The sunlight filtering through.


Doesn't mix with the black of
The light doesn't blend with the dark shadow of.


Death's angel looming in
The angel of death hovering ominously nearby.


I've had enough of the
I'm tired of enduring the


Brutal beatings and name callings
Physical assaults and verbal abuse


To lose me to this bed
To surrender to this bed


Bruised internally, eternally
Emotionally and physically injured, forever damaged


Your praise little gifts you spent your money
Your meaningless gifts and lavish spending


And stuffed me with
And showered me with


Didn't amount to anything
Was insignificant and couldn't change anything


The attention I need is much more serious
I require genuine and significant attention


A kind of weight you couldn't lift
An emotional burden too heavy for you to bear


Even if your cheap career depended on it
Regardless of the sacrifices you would make for your career


I need someone much more mysterious
I long for someone enigmatic and intriguing


To be my, to be my miss
To become my partner


To be my mistress
To become my lover / secret partner


To be my, to be my miss
To become my one and only


To be my mistress
To become my lover / secret partner


To be my, to be my miss
To become my soulmate


To be my mistress
To become my lover / secret partner




Lyrics © Kobalt Music Publishing Ltd.
Written by: Mark Edward Kozelek

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