Dateless Losers
Reel Big Fish Lyrics


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We are all on our own with no one by our side
You are so lucky, beautiful and bright
All the cool kids go steady they're making
Out at 12- we sit in our rooms alone
By ourselves it's Friday
No phone call, nobody asked us out
We are the dateless losers lonely until we die!
So unappreciated, why, why, why, why?
We're not so bad you know
But you won't give us a chance
Take us to the movies, to dinner, or to dance
Not perfect, not too hip, but we need lovin' too




We are the dateless losers lonely until we die!
So unappreciated why, why, why, why?

Overall Meaning

In Reel Big Fish's song, "Dateless Losers," the lyrics speak to those who feel left behind in the dating world. The opening verse sets the scene for the listener - feeling alone with no one by their side. Then, the subject of the song is jealous of those who seem to have it more together. They describe someone as "lucky, beautiful and bright" and reference "all the cool kids" - something the subject feels left out of. Instead, they sit alone in their room on a Friday night, with no phone call or invitation out for the evening.


The chorus of the song is the most memorable section. The phrase "We are the dateless losers lonely until we die!" is easy to sing along to and has a catchy rhythm. The message of the song is particularly relevant to anyone who has ever felt like they don't fit in. Whether it be in the dating world or another aspect of life, it's easy to relate to the feeling expressed in the song. The lyrics express sadness that these people feel unappreciated and overlooked.


The final verse is a plea for someone to give them a chance. They don't claim to be perfect or the coolest people in the room, but they argue that they still deserve love and attention. In a way, the song is a call to action for listeners to be more open to those who might not seem like the typical person they would go out with. It's a message about looking beyond appearances and seeing what someone has to offer on a deeper level.


Line by Line Meaning

We are all on our own with no one by our side
We are alone and have no romantic partner to share our experiences with.


You are so lucky, beautiful and bright
You have it easy with your attractiveness and charm.


All the cool kids go steady they're making
All the popular and well-liked people are in relationships and enjoying themselves.


Out at 12- we sit in our rooms alone
While others are out having fun and socializing, we are stuck at home by ourselves.


By ourselves it's Friday
Friday nights are especially lonely because we have no one to spend them with.


No phone call, nobody asked us out
No one is interested in us romantically and we are constantly overlooked.


We are the dateless losers lonely until we die!
We feel like we will never find love and will be alone forever.


So unappreciated, why, why, why, why?
We feel unrecognized and unacknowledged in our loneliness and desire for companionship.


We're not so bad you know
Despite being dateless, we still have positive qualities and deserve love.


But you won't give us a chance
People see our lack of dating experience as a red flag and are unwilling to give us a fair chance.


Take us to the movies, to dinner, or to dance
We just want a basic date and a chance to connect with someone.


Not perfect, not too hip, but we need lovin' too
We are not the coolest or most interesting people, but we still have the same emotional needs as everyone else.


So unappreciated why, why, why, why?
We continue to feel ignored and undervalued in our dating lives.




Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group
Written by: AARON BARRETT, CARLOS F. GARZA, DAN REGAN, MATT WONG, SCOTT ALLEN KLOPFENSTEIN

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