Please Don't Tell Her I Have a Girlfriend
Reel Big Fish Lyrics


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Please don't tell her I have a girlfriend
Please don't tell her I have a girlfriend
Cause it's so hard
Can't even pretend
That I only want to be her friend

Well I don't deserve it
You know that it's true
But she said that she would
And you know I would to
Oh-oh
What am I gonna' do?

Please don't tell her I have a girlfriend
Please don't tell her I have a girlfriend
Cause it's so hard
Can't even pretend
That I only want to be her friend

Well I know that actions speak louder than words
And thinking is bad
But doing's much worse
Oh-oh
But I'm so perverse

Please don't tell her I have a girlfriend
Please don't tell her I have a girlfriend
Cause it's so hard
Can't even pretend
I only want to be her friend

Well I know I can keep a secret
I know I can keep a secret
Can you keep my secret?

Oh please don't tell her
That I have a girlfriend
Cause it's so hard
I can't even pretend

Please don't tell her I have a girlfriend
Please don't tell her I have a girlfriend
Cause it's so hard




Can't even pretend
That I only want to be her friend

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to Reel Big Fish's "Please Don't Tell Her I Have a Girlfriend" tell a story of a man who is struggling with feelings for another woman while still being in a relationship. The singer pleads for the listener not to reveal his secret because he cannot bear the thought of his girlfriend finding out. He acknowledges that he does not deserve to be with either woman, but feels drawn to both nonetheless. He realizes that his actions may betray his true feelings, but he cannot help the desire he has for the other woman. Ultimately, he begs for the listener's discretion and silence, knowing that he cannot bear the consequences of his actions being exposed.


The lyrics highlight the complexity of human emotion and the struggle to balance conflicting desires. The song conveys a sense of guilt, shame, and confusion, with the singer caught in between two women he cares for deeply. The plea for secrecy further emphasizes the weight of his actions and the potential harm they could cause.


Overall, "Please Don't Tell Her I Have a Girlfriend" is a poignant and relatable depiction of the complexities of romantic relationships and the internal struggles we face when we feel drawn in different directions.


Line by Line Meaning

Please don't tell her I have a girlfriend
I beg of you not to disclose to her that I am in a romantic relationship


Cause it's so hard
It is a difficult situation for me to navigate


Can't even pretend
I am unable to even feign romantic disinterest


That I only want to be her friend
I cannot pretend that I do not have romantic feelings for her


Well I don't deserve it
I am not worthy of her affection


You know that it's true
You are aware of this fact


But she said that she would
Despite this, she has expressed interest in me


And you know I would to
And I have reciprocated those feelings


What am I gonna' do?
I do not know how to proceed in this situation


Well I know that actions speak louder than words
I understand that actions carry more weight than words alone


And thinking is bad
Merely thinking about acting on my feelings is morally questionable


But doing's much worse
However, actually acting on my feelings would be even worse


But I'm so perverse
Despite knowing this, I am still tempted to act on my feelings


Well I know I can keep a secret
I am confident in my ability to keep this situation confidential


Can you keep my secret?
Can you also be entrusted with keeping this information private?


Oh please don't tell her
I implore you not to reveal this information to her


That I have a girlfriend
That I am currently in a committed romantic relationship


Cause it's so hard
Because this revelation would complicate our relationship


I can't even pretend
I am unable to even pretend that I do not have romantic feelings for her




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