Apathetic Way To Be
Relient K Lyrics


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Yeah I'm not angry, and no I'm not upset
It's taken me a while, but this is what I've learned
Emotional attachment is really not a threat
When I'm simply not concerned

The things that I take on I soon shrug off
'Cause I know no one will ever be content
With the way things are or with what they've got
So I've given up and now I'm just indifferent

You all laugh at me like I'm not happy
With anything, anytime, anywhere
And the half of me is all about apathy
And the other half just doesn't care

I must admit that all the words you spoke I hated
'Cause I don't see just how I can be motivated
Enough to break a sweat over a dying race
It seems our fate is something we've already embraced

Yeah, being apathetic's a pathetic way to be
But I don't care
What matters to you does not matter to me
'Cause I don't care

So take a wild guess it's
Like I just couldn't care less if
All the things you find impressive
Just blew up and made those messes
That you'll frantically repair
Like it's a life or death affair
And all the while you're unaware
For this you really shouldn't care
But it's so hard to see the reality
That the end will be the end of things
And our hearts are all we get to bring
So let's go ahead and make them worth something

I'm well aware that everything is a far cry from alright
I'm well aware that all of us can at times be too uptight
And possibly the remedy is a dose of apathy




You point your finger at you
I'll point mine right back at me

Overall Meaning

In Relient K's song "Apathetic Way To Be", the singer is discussing their lack of emotional attachment to anything, claiming that it's not a threat because they're simply not concerned. They've given up on trying to make anything better because no one will ever be content with what they have. The singer is aware that their apathy is a "pathetic" way to be, but they simply do not care. They believe that nothing matters, and that we have already embraced our ultimate fate.


The lyrics seem to criticize not only the singer's own apathetic attitude, but also a general attitude of futility in society. The lines "I'm well aware that everything is a far cry from alright" and "all of us can at times be too uptight" suggest that the singer is not completely oblivious to the world around them, but believes that apathy is the only way to deal with it.


Overall, the lyrics of "Apathetic Way To Be" explore the idea of giving up on hope and progress, and accepting the inevitability of our fate. It's a dark and cynical view, but one that may resonate with those who feel overwhelmed by the problems of the world.


Line by Line Meaning

Yeah I'm not angry, and no I'm not upset
I am not experiencing any strong negative emotions at the moment.


It's taken me a while, but this is what I've learned
Over time, I have come to realize something important.


Emotional attachment is really not a threat
Caring too deeply about something or someone does not pose any danger to me.


When I'm simply not concerned
If I am indifferent, I will not let things bother me.


The things that I take on I soon shrug off
If I attempt to care, I ultimately do not invest any real effort.


'Cause I know no one will ever be content
I realize that it is impossible for anyone to be completely satisfied with their current situation.


With the way things are or with what they've got
Whether it is their circumstances or possessions, people will never be fully satisfied.


So I've given up and now I'm just indifferent
Because of this realization, I have stopped trying and am now apathetic.


You all laugh at me like I'm not happy
Others find my lack of enthusiasm amusing, assuming I am not content.


With anything, anytime, anywhere
Regardless of the situation or circumstance, I remain unimpressed.


And the half of me is all about apathy
A significant portion of my attitude is characterized by indifference.


And the other half just doesn't care
The remainder of my outlook involves an absence of concern.


I must admit that all the words you spoke I hated
Honestly, I detested everything that you said to me.


'Cause I don't see just how I can be motivated
Unfortunately, I cannot find any inspiration to change my perspective.


Enough to break a sweat over a dying race
I cannot summon enough energy to care about a lost cause.


It seems our fate is something we've already embraced
For me, it feels like my future is predetermined and I have no chance of changing it.


Yeah, being apathetic's a pathetic way to be
I recognize that a lack of enthusiasm is not a desirable trait.


But I don't care
Despite this acknowledgement, I remain unconcerned.


What matters to you does not matter to me
Your priorities have no impact on my own.


'Cause I don't care
Again, I feel no emotional attachment to anything or anyone.


So take a wild guess it's
You can try to infer what I am thinking, but it may be difficult to determine.


Like I just couldn't care less if
Regardless of the outcome, I will not be affected by the situation.


All the things you find impressive
To you, certain accomplishments or possessions are noteworthy.


Just blew up and made those messes
If those things were to be destroyed or lost, it would be a disaster.


That you'll frantically repair
You would be panicked and desperate to fix what was broken.


Like it's a life or death affair
The situation would seem like a matter of extreme importance.


And all the while you're unaware
You do not realize that I remain completely indifferent to the matter.


For this you really shouldn't care
In reality, you should not place so much importance on these things.


But it's so hard to see the reality
Unfortunately, it can be difficult for people to acknowledge the situation for what it really is.


That the end will be the end of things
Ultimately, everything will come to its inevitable conclusion and cease to exist.


And our hearts are all we get to bring
At the end of the day, all we truly have is our emotional selves.


So let's go ahead and make them worth something
It is essential that we put effort into cultivating meaningful emotional connections with others.


I'm well aware that everything is a far cry from alright
I have come to terms with the fact that everything is not okay.


I'm well aware that all of us can at times be too uptight
It is not uncommon for people to become overly stressed about various issues.


And possibly the remedy is a dose of apathy
It is conceivable that the cure for such anxiety could simply be indifference.


You point your finger at you
You are directing blame towards yourself.


I'll point mine right back at me
I am acknowledging my own role in the situation.




Lyrics © CAPITOL CHRISTIAN MUSIC GROUP, Universal Music Publishing Group, Capitol CMG Publishing
Written by: MATTHEW ARNOLD THIESSEN

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