In 2000, Dave Douglas replaced Stephen Cushman on drums. In 2004, John Warne, formerly of Ace Troubleshooter replaced Brian on bass guitar. In 2005,Jon Schneck joined on with additional guitars, as well as banjo, bells, and backing vocals. In 2008, Ethan Luck, formerly of The O.C. Supertones and Demon Hunter replaced Dave on drums.
The band has released 9 albums, including 2 Christmas albums, as well as 6 EPs, and some other miscellaneous projects. Starting in 2000 with their second album, Relient K was signed to Gotee Records, a Christian record label. In 2004, their album Mmhmm shot them into mainstream popularity when it released at #15 on Billboard 200, and was released on Gotee, Mono Vs. Stereo (both Christian record labels), as well as Capitol, a secular label. They stayed with Gotee/Capitol until 2007, and their album Five Score and Seven Years Ago released at #6. Their latest album, Forget and Not Slow Down was released in 2009 with Mono Vs. Stereo. The band has done very well in both the Christian and mainstream music industries. The band has received numerous awards including a Grammy Award nomination in 2003 for Best Rock Gospel Album and two Dove Awards. The band has sold over 2 million records, with three albums being given gold certification by the RIAA.
The band's musical style has changed over the years, starting off as very pop-punk, and maturing into a unique sort of pop-alternative-rock, with many songs varying in style, and some including acoustic guitars, piano, banjo, synths, bells, etc. Through the years, their lyrics and songwriting have matured, but they have not lost their silly side and sense of humor. They still often reference their Christian faith throughout their songs.
Matt Thiessen, the band's main songwriter, also has a solo side project, Matthew Thiessen and the Earthquakes. He has also collaborated with Owl City. Dave Douglas also had a solo side project, Agnes.
Come Right Out and Say It
Relient K Lyrics
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This point you've been trying to make
So rather than imply, why don't you just verbalize
All the things that you're trying to say?
I guess it turned out so well
But I'm beginning to see that instead, it's trouble
Into a pattern, we fell
Why don't you come right out and say it?
Even if the words are probably gonna hurt
I'd rather have the truth than something insincere
Why don't you come right out and say it?
What it is you're thinking
Though I'm thinking, it's not what I wanna hear
I better check my pride
Because I was starting to think, I was onto something good
But things started to slide
And I'm thinking in retrospect, understanding that I misunderstood
Thought I could make up your mind
You had a decision locked up so tight, it couldn't be touched
Thought you were being so kind
By keeping your mouth sealed shut rather than just opening it up
Why don't you come right out and say it?
Even if the words are probably gonna hurt
I'd rather have the truth than something insincere
And why don't you come right out and say it?
What it is you're thinking
Though I'm thinking, it's not what I wanna hear
And now try to guess what goes on in your head
'Cause in your mind, I just might find all those things you left unsaid
Now try to make you not regret anything, later on, after I'm gone
You'll wish that you had listened to me, had listened to me
Why don't you come right out and say it?
Even if the words are gonna hurt we're better off this way
Why don't you come right out and say, come right out and say
What I know you're thinking anyway?
Why don't you come right out and say it?
Even if the words are probably gonna hurt
I'd rather have the truth than something insincere
Why don't you come right out and say it?
What it is you're thinking, oh, what is it you're thinking?
Why don't you?
What it is you're thinking
Though I'm thinking, it's not what I wanna hear
The lyrics to Relient K's song Come Right Out And Say It describe a communication breakdown in a relationship. The singer is tired of the other person implying things and not directly stating what they want to say. They would rather hear the truth, even if it hurts, than continue with insincere or unclear communication. The singer thought they were onto something good in the relationship, but it has started to slide and they realize they misunderstood the other person's intentions. The chorus repeats the plea for the other person to be honest and say what they are thinking, even if it's not what the singer wants to hear.
The song captures the frustration of hidden meaning and the desire for clear communication in a relationship. It highlights the importance of honesty even when it's difficult. The lyrics also express the fear of regret and the desire to avoid further misunderstandings by addressing the issue head-on.
Line by Line Meaning
I better rest my eyes 'cause I am growing weary of
This point you've been trying to make
So rather than imply, why don't you just verbalize
All the things that you're trying to say?
I'm tired of hearing you beat around the bush. Instead of suggesting things, just come out and say what you mean.
I guess it turned out so well
But I'm beginning to see that instead, it's trouble
Into a pattern, we fell
Of prolonging the inevitable
Things seemed good at first, but now I see that we're just delaying the inevitable and it's causing problems.
Why don't you come right out and say it?
Even if the words are probably gonna hurt
I'd rather have the truth than something insincere
Why don't you come right out and say it?
What it is you're thinking
Though I'm thinking, it's not what I wanna hear
Just be honest with me, even if it hurts. I don't want insincerity. Tell me what you're thinking, even if it's not what I want to hear.
I better check my pride
Because I was starting to think, I was onto something good
But things started to slide
And I'm thinking in retrospect, understanding that I misunderstood
I need to swallow my pride because I was thinking things were going well, but they started to fall apart, and looking back, I realize I misunderstood the situation.
Thought I could make up your mind
You had a decision locked up so tight, it couldn't be touched
Thought you were being so kind
By keeping your mouth sealed shut rather than just opening it up
I thought I could influence your decision, but you've already made up your mind and won't budge. You thought you were being kind by not speaking up, but it's causing problems.
And now try to guess what goes on in your head
'Cause in your mind, I just might find all those things you left unsaid
Now try to make you not regret anything, later on, after I'm gone
You'll wish that you had listened to me, had listened to me
I'm trying to figure out what you're thinking and what you're not saying. I don't want you to regret anything later, after I'm gone. You'll wish you listened to me when you had the chance.
Why don't you come right out and say it?
Even if the words are gonna hurt we're better off this way
Why don't you come right out and say, come right out and say
What I know you're thinking anyway?
It's better for us to deal with the truth, even if it's painful. Just say it, don't hold back. I already know what you're thinking, so just say it.
Why don't you come right out and say it?
Even if the words are probably gonna hurt
I'd rather have the truth than something insincere
Why don't you come right out and say it?
What it is you're thinking, oh, what is it you're thinking?
Just say it, even if it hurts. Don't be insincere. Tell me what you're thinking. What's on your mind?
Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group, Capitol CMG Publishing
Written by: MATTHEW THIESSEN
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steve frederick
2020 this songs still making me think after many years!
Venus Florent
Even if the words are probably gonna hurt, I'd rather have the truth than something insincere
Sara Rivera
Omg the nostalgia...
Prior2Popular
I love RK they da best
Edo Cordova
Si Avril Lavigne volvió con el pop punk xD Relient K, te necesitamos en acción 🤍
Brandon
Lovely
Tou Lane
Song reminds me of my ex but now that I see it...screw you! Plenty of fish out there lol
Axelle de Roeck
🌹
Kimberly Wood
Ohio is for lovers! 2023
PlayStation Hero
2019 anyone?