Lights Out
Reuben Lyrics


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So here's how it is,
I'm tired of being tired,
Bored of being bored,
(But I don't wanna be lonely)

She's looking at me,
And I cannot see,
A place we agree,
(But I don't wanna be lonely)

I don't make her laugh,
I don't make her smile,
I don't make her move,
(But I don't wanna be lonely)

And I'm mouthing these words,
I'm dying to say,
To someone I think I know,
"It's a joke got out of hand,
But I think I understand"

And it won't be long before I get the guts,
To risk loneliness and do these things I must,
To ignore my head and put all my trust in my heart,

'Cause I don't want this,
No, I don't want this, no, no,

Here's how it is,
You like the idea,
Of someone around,
('Cause you don't wanna be lonely)

It's not about you,
It's not about me,
It's not about us at all,

It's a story so old it's been told and re-told,
And if I want my freedom, I've got to be bold,
It's a shame and it's a crime,
I have wasted all this time,

'Cause I've known for months all the moves to make,
And goodbyes, they give me a belly ache,
So no "One last kiss for old times' sake"
'Cause I'm gone,

Yeah,

Thrown again,
Thrown again,
Thrown again, oh,

Yes, let's talk about all the things we have in common,
If these are mistakes then I would make them all again,
It's so unbelievable you actually exist,
Let's make this a memory of us, 'Cause we've got

Lights out, sound low,
I wanna know, how far can this go?,
Lights out, sound low,
I wanna know, how far can this go?,

Lights out, sound low,
I wanna know, how far can this go?,
Lights out, sound low,
I wanna know, how far can this go?,

'Cause we were born for tonight,
For this very moment,
We were born for tonight,
For these secrets stolen,





Lights out...

Overall Meaning

The song "Lights Out" by Reuben is a reflection of the fear of loneliness and the longing for connection. The verse opens with the singer expressing tiredness and boredom, but quickly qualifying that what they really fear is loneliness. The chorus reiterates this theme, with the repeated phrase "I don't wanna be lonely." The second verse introduces a love interest, but the singer struggles to connect with her. He recognizes that the problem is not just about him, but rather an issue with "us" in general.


The lyrics then pivot to a realization that the best course of action is to take a risk and follow one's heart. The singer acknowledges that there has been a prolonged delay in starting this process, and that goodbyes will be difficult. The last few lines of the song describe a moment of intense intimacy between the two characters, as the lights go out and the volume is turned down. The singer expresses a desire to understand the limits of this connection, to see how far it can go.


Overall, Reuben's "Lights Out" speaks to the universal fear of loneliness and the transformative power of human connection. It encourages listeners to be brave, to take risks, and to trust in the power of the heart to overcome fear and doubt.


Line by Line Meaning

So here's how it is,
This is how things stand as of now


I'm tired of being tired,
I'm exhausted of being exhausted


Bored of being bored,
I'm fed up of being fed up


(But I don't wanna be lonely)
But I don't desire to be alone


She's looking at me,
She's staring at me


And I cannot see,
I can't find a way to agree


A place we agree,
We can't find a mutual ground


(But I don't wanna be lonely)
But I don't want to feel loneliness


I don't make her laugh,
I can't make her laugh


I don't make her smile,
I can't make her smile


I don't make her move,
I can't make her move


(But I don't wanna be lonely)
But I don't want to experience solitude


And I'm mouthing these words,
And I'm silently saying these words


I'm dying to say,
I'm eager to say


To someone I think I know,
To someone I believe I'm familiar with


"It's a joke got out of hand,
"It's a prank that went too far


But I think I understand"
But I think I comprehend now


And it won't be long before I get the guts,
Soon I'll have the courage


To risk loneliness and do these things I must,
To take a chance and carry out what I have to


To ignore my head and put all my trust in my heart,
To disregard my mind and have faith in my heart


'Cause I don't want this,
Because I don't want this


No, I don't want this, no, no,
No, I don't want this, no, no


Here's how it is,
Here's how the situation stands


You like the idea,
You're fond of the concept


Of someone around,
Of having someone nearby


('Cause you don't wanna be lonely)
(Because you don't want to be alone)


It's not about you,
It's not just about you


It's not about me,
It's not just about me


It's not about us at all,
It's not about either of us


It's a story so old it's been told and re-told,
It's a tale so ancient it's been recounted several times


And if I want my freedom, I've got to be bold,
And if I desire liberty, I need to be brave


It's a shame and it's a crime,
It's unfortunate and unjust


I have wasted all this time,
I've squandered all this time


'Cause I've known for months all the moves to make,
Because I've been aware of all the steps to take for months


And goodbyes, they give me a belly ache,
Farewells make me feel queasy


So no "One last kiss for old times' sake",
So, no phrase like "One last kiss out of nostalgia"


'Cause I'm gone,
Because I'm leaving


Thrown again,
Disappointed once again


Thrown again,
Let down again


Thrown again, oh,
Deceived again, oh


Yes, let's talk about all the things we have in common,
Certainly, let's discuss all the similarities we share


If these are mistakes then I would make them all again,
If these are errors, then I would repeat them all over again


It's so unbelievable you actually exist,
It's so incredible that you genuinely exist


Let's make this a memory of us,
Let's make this a memorable moment shared by both of us


'Cause we've got
Because we possess


Lights out, sound low,
Lights off, volume reduced


I wanna know, how far can this go?,
I'm curious, how much potential does this have?


Lights out, sound low,
Lights off, volume reduced


I wanna know, how far can this go?,
I'm curious, how much potential does this have?


Lights out, sound low,
Lights off, volume reduced


I wanna know, how far can this go?,
I'm curious, how much potential does this have?


Lights out, sound low,
Lights off, volume reduced


I wanna know, how far can this go?,
I'm curious, how much potential does this have?


'Cause we were born for tonight,
Because we were meant for this night


For this very moment,
For this exact moment


We were born for tonight,
We were meant for this night


For these secrets stolen,
For these stolen secrets


Lights out...
Lights off...




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Comments from YouTube:

sexyharambae

many years and still listening. never found a band more truly loved and appreciated in all this time. shame there just wasn't enough of us. genuinely sad every time I listen because I know I will never see them live again. RIP Reuben, the best rock band of my time.

Matt Butler

i love this song! where can i download it i been wantin to download it for a long time? its a catchy tune! :-D

1zv

one of the best UK bank rock songs of the 00s

sayjunglelove

god i fucking loved this band and this tune!!!

Steve Bradley

This song!!!!!

dragythuno

I've spoken to Jamie and he refuses to even speak of the band. It's so sad. His record label almost ruined him... and his music is amonst the best i've ever heard.

Brian Davis

muchas gracias mate!!!!

downtownhashbrown

please, please, please, come back. and come to the u.s. for a little tour. please. i only just discovered you a few months ago. dunno what rock i was under but, no matter there is no denying their greatness. hooked from note one that i heard from reuben. fan for life

brianedification

where the hell can you buy it?

brianedification

ive tried those, i found out the reason i couldnt was cos i am in australia

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