The song is an exploration of the intricacies of love, the feeling of loss, and the warmth of nostalgia with the knowledge that the end of a romance isn’t the end of knowing someone who you love.
“Best Friend” was certified platinum by the RIAA on July 31, 2020.
Best Friend
Rex Orange County Lyrics
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'Cause right now I see all these people that love me
But I still feel alone
Can't help but check my phone
I could've made you mine
But no, it wasn't meant to be and see, I wasn't made for you
And you weren't made for me
Though it seemed so easy
And that's because I wanna be your favorite boy
I wanna be the one that makes your day
The one you think about as you lie awake
I can't wait to be your number one
I'll be your biggest fan and you'll be mine
But I still wanna break your heart and make you cry
But won't you wait?
You know it's too late
I'm on my own shit now
Let me tell you how it feels to be fucking great
I feel great
Whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa
You need to be yourself
Love someone for loving you instead of someone really cool
That makes your heart melt
Who knows what you truly felt?
You're still my favorite girl
You better trust me when I tell you
There ain't no one else more beautiful in this damn world
In this damn world
You're gonna wanna be my best friend, baby
You're gonna wanna be my best friend
I said that
You're gonna wanna be my best friend, baby
You're gonna wanna be my best friend, best friend
You're gonna wanna be my best friend, baby
You're gonna wanna be my best friend
Best friend
You're gonna wanna be my best friend, baby
You're gonna wanna be my best friend
I say that I'm happy
I say that I'm happy
But no, no, no, no
No, no, no
Oh, I still wanna be your favorite boy
I wanna be the one that makes your day
The one you think about as you lie awake
And I can't wait to be your number, your number one
I'll be your biggest fan and you'll be mine
But I still wanna break your heart and make you cry
I still wanna be your favorite boy
I wanna be the one
I might just be the one
The song "Best Friend" by Rex Orange County is about the conflicting emotions of wanting to be in love with someone and also wanting to maintain a friendship. The first verse speaks about being surrounded by people who love the singer, yet still feeling alone because the person they want to be with isn't there. Checking their phone highlights the hope of a message from the desired person. The second verse admits that the person perhaps missed a chance to be with the desired love interest as they weren't meant to be together - it may have seemed easy, but it wasn't right. Regardless, the singer still wants to be the object of the love interest's affection, the one they think about and make their day, as well as break their heart, which is conveyed in the chorus.
The second half of the song addresses the love interest directly. It counsels that instead of loving someone "really cool," they should love someone who loves them back. The final refrain repeats the chorus as a reminder that the love interest will want to be friends with the singer, and that they still want to be the love interest's favorite boy. The song weaves together conflicting emotions, addressing the tension between desire and reality, and ultimately recognizes that, while relationships don't always work out, friendship can still grow from honest communication.
Line by Line Meaning
I should've stayed at home
I regret coming out because despite being surrounded by people who love me, I still feel lonely.
Can't help but check my phone
I keep looking at my phone hoping for someone to message me and make me feel less alone.
I could've made you mine
I had feelings for you and could have pursued a relationship, but it wasn't meant to be.
And you weren't made for me
We weren't compatible and even though it seemed like it would be easy, it wasn't.
That makes your heart melt
Don't be fooled by someone who seems cool, love someone who loves you back.
You're still my favorite girl
Even though we didn't end up together, you're still special to me and I think you're beautiful.
You're gonna wanna be my best friend, baby
I know eventually you'll realize that I'm someone worth being friends with and you'll want to be my best friend.
I say that I'm happy
I try to convince myself that I'm happy, but deep down I know I'm not.
Oh, I still wanna be your favorite boy
I still want to be the one who brings you happiness and makes you feel special.
Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group, Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: Alexander O'Connor, Benjamin Ross Ash
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@TheBuioGod
Lyrics
I should've stayed at home
'Cause right now I see all these people that love me
But I still feel alone
Can't help but check my phone
I could've made you mine
But no, it wasn't meant to be and see, I wasn't made for you
And you weren't made for me
Though it seemed so easy
And that's because I wanna be your favorite boy
I wanna be the one that makes your day
The one you think about as you lie awake
I can't wait to be your number one
I'll be your biggest fan and you'll be mine
But I still wanna break your heart and make you cry
But won't you wait?
You know it's too late
I'm on my own shit now
Let me tell you how it feels to be fucking great
I feel great
Whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa
You need to be yourself
Love someone for loving you instead of someone really cool
That makes your heart melt
Who knows what you truly felt?
You're still my favorite girl
You better trust me when I tell you
There ain't no one else more beautiful in this damn world
In this damn world
You're gonna wanna be my best friend, baby
You're gonna wanna be my best friend
I said that
You're gonna wanna be my best friend, baby
You're gonna wanna be my best friend, best friend
You're gonna wanna be my best friend, baby
You're gonna wanna be my best friend
Best friend
You're gonna wanna be my best friend, baby
You're gonna wanna be my best friend
I say that I'm happy
I say that I'm happy
But no, no, no, no
No, no, no
Oh, I still wanna be your favorite boy
I wanna be the one that makes your day
The one you think about as you lie awake
And I can't wait to be your number, your number one
I'll be your biggest fan and you'll be mine
But I still wanna break your heart and make you cry
I still wanna be your favorite boy
I wanna be the one
I might just be the one
@dilminha9649
Lyrics:
I should've stayed at home
'Cause right now I see all these people that love me
But I still feel alone
Can't help but check my phone
I could've made you mine
But no, it wasn't meant to be
And see I wasn't made for you
And you weren't made for me
Though it seemed so easy
And that's because I wanna be your favourite boy
I wanna be the one that makes your day
The one you think about as you lie awake
I can't wait to be your number one
I'll be your biggest fan and you'll be mine
But I still wanna break your heart and make you cry
But won't you wait?
You know it's too late
I'm on my own shit now
Let me tell you how it feels to be fucking great
I feel great
You need to be yourself
Love someone for loving you
Instead of someone really cool
That makes your heart melt
Who knows what you truly felt
You're still my favourite girl
You better trust me when I tell you
There ain't no one else more beautiful
In this damn world
In this damn world
You're gonna wanna be my best friend, baby
You're gonna wanna be my best friend
(I said that)
You're gonna wanna be my best friend, baby
You're gonna wanna be my best friend (best friend)
You're gonna wanna be my best friend, baby
You're gonna wanna be my best friend (best friend)
You're gonna wanna be my best friend, baby
You're gonna wanna be my best friend
I say that I'm happy
I say that I'm happy
But no, no, no, no
No, no, no, oh
I still wanna be your favourite boy
I wanna be the one that makes your day
The one you think about as you lie awake
And I can't wait to be your number, your number one
I'll be your biggest fan and you'll be mine
But I still wanna break your heart and make you cry
I still wanna be your favourite boy
I wanna be the one
I might just be the one
@rizkyhasan2464
I should've stayed at home
'Cause right now I see all these people that love me
But I still feel alone
Can't help but check my phone
I could've made you mine
But no, it wasn't meant to be and see, I wasn't made for you
And you weren't made for me
Though it seemed so easy
And that's because I wanna be your favorite boy
I wanna be the one that makes your day
The one you think about as you lie awake
I can't wait to be your number one
I'll be your biggest fan and you'll be mine
But I still wanna break your heart and make you cry
But won't you wait?
You know it's too late
I'm on my own shit now
Let me tell you how it feels to be fucking great
I feel great
Whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa
You need to be yourself
Love someone for loving you instead of someone really cool
That makes your heart melt
Who knows what you truly felt?
You're still my favorite girl
You better trust me when I tell you
There ain't no one else more beautiful in this damn world
In this damn world
You're gonna wanna be my best friend, baby
You're gonna wanna be my best friend
I said that
You're gonna wanna be my best friend, baby
You're gonna wanna be my best friend, best friend
You're gonna wanna be my best friend, baby
You're gonna wanna be my best friend
Best friend
You're gonna wanna be my best friend, baby
You're gonna wanna be my best friend
I say that I'm happy
I say that I'm happy
But no, no, no, no
No, no, no
Oh, I still wanna be your favorite boy
I wanna be the one that makes your day
The one you think about as you lie awake
And I can't wait to be your number, your number one
I'll be your biggest fan and you'll be mine
But I still wanna break your heart and make you cry
I still wanna be your favorite boy
I wanna be the one
I might just be the one
@skylaellison5967
I smile like an idiot Everytime this comes on my playlist
@sofaco
same lol
@farheenmonsur4852
Me too but I think im the only one smiling about a best friend and not a bf
@Titan.....
straight up tho
@marthaestrada3602
Dont we all
@funkyfun9226
Lmao same.
My older brother calls it my goofy grin.
@gabisilva2279
We all have those strangers that once we called “besties”
@HorriblyDated
Thats so deep im shaking and crying rn
@kazukaasaiki8762
But I'm the reason they don't want me anymore...
@mochicloudss6927
felt this