I'm With Her
Rhett Miller Lyrics


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This is a girl
On a different planet
In a constellation faraway
We are in love
And you can't deny

I'm with her
Sha-la-la-la
I'm with her
Sha-la-la-la

Livin' alone
Livin' all alone in a black hole I call Hollywood
Looking for love, that I could not find
I had a dream
That she would orbit around me
Her heavenly body hovering
We were in love
And I closed my eyes
Now

I'm with her
Sha-la-la-la
I'm with her
Sha-la-la-la

I was underground
I found a whole new world to put my troubles in
You lived miles above the earth
Until you came down to bring me home again

Now I'm with her
Sha-la-la-la
I'm with her
Sha-la-la-la

We will be wed
And we will procreate
And we will examine life on another plane
And we are in love, with the big blue sky

I'm with her
Sha-la-la-la
I'm with her
Sha-la-la-la
I'm with her
Sha-la-la-la




I'm with her
Sha-la-la-la

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of Rhett Miller's song "I'm With Her" revolve around a man's love for a woman who is on a different planet in a faraway constellation. The opening lines set the stage for the rest of the song, depicting the woman as someone who exists in a completely different world. The lyrics convey the singer's deep affection for her and the impossibility of denying their love.


The second verse reveals the singer's earlier struggles with finding love when he lived in Hollywood. Then he finally had a dream that the woman he loves would orbit around him, and their love story could begin. The bridge of the song talks about how the singer found a whole new world underground that allowed him to escape his troubles, while the woman he loves lived miles above the earth. She comes down to bring him home again. Finally, the chorus repeats the phrase "I'm with her" as a declaration of the singer's commitment and love for her.


Overall, the song seems to be a metaphor for the journey of finding love, no matter where the woman is located. This song highlights the theme of longing and dreaming for a relationship that many people may experience in real life.


Line by Line Meaning

This is a girl
Rhett is referring to his love interest who is essentially an alien to him, as she is from another planet.


On a different planet
Rhett's love interest is literally from a different planet than him.


In a constellation faraway
Rhett's love interest is so far away from him that she exists in another constellation altogether.


We are in love
Rhett and his love interest are romantically involved with each other.


And you can't deny
Rhett is certain of his love and no one can convince him otherwise.


I'm with her
Rhett is stating that he is in a relationship with his love interest and is committed to her.


Sha-la-la-la
This is a repeated chorus line that serves as a melodic interlude between verses.


Livin' alone
Rhett was once single and living by himself.


Livin' all alone in a black hole I call Hollywood
Rhett feels isolated and disconnected in the heart of show business.


Looking for love, that I could not find
Rhett was searching for love but struggled to find it on his own.


I had a dream
Rhett experienced a dream involving his love interest.


That she would orbit around me
Rhett imagines his love interest circling around him like a planet would orbit a star.


Her heavenly body hovering
Rhett is being figurative, describing his love interest as otherworldly, ethereal, and hovering in his orbit.


We were in love
Rhett and his love interest shared a strong romantic connection.


And I closed my eyes
Rhett is experiencing a moment of pure bliss and closes his eyes in contentment.


I was underground
Rhett had a difficult time and was feeling down or out of sorts.


I found a whole new world to put my troubles in
Rhett discovered a new sense of hope or happiness that allowed him to escape his prior stressors.


You lived miles above the earth
Rhett's love interest is so far removed from him that she lives miles above the earth.


Until you came down to bring me home again
Rhett feels like his love interest is a beacon of hope, leading him back to a happier state of being.


We will be wed
Rhett and his love interest are planning to get married.


And we will procreate
Rhett and his love interest plan on starting a family together.


And we will examine life on another plane
Rhett and his love interest are eager to go beyond the norm and explore life on a new level.


And we are in love, with the big blue sky
Rhett's love interest shares his passion for the beauty and wonder of the world around them.




Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group, Peermusic Publishing, Kobalt Music Publishing Ltd.
Written by: ANDREW WILLIAMS, STEWART RANSOM MILLER

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