My Valentine
Rhett Miller Lyrics


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Loving you, sadly, is a beautiful thing
Stars from your head hit the floor
Shock therapy loses it's sting, baby you want more
Sex in war time is sweeter than peace
Yeah, it's the one sweet thing about war
Wanting you is one of the million of these
Baby, get out on the dance floor
Get out on the dance floor

[Chorus]
Make up your mind, mind my valentine
You say you love me yet you treat me unkindly
Got to make up your mind, mind my valentine
Give me a signal, baby, show me a sign

Life during wartime is a beautiful song
Where does that highway lead
You will be glad, someday, you brought me along, babe
You will have a need
You will have a need

[Chorus:Repeat x2]

Operation overload without a doubt
My, my valentine would you please step out
We gotta smoke some grass, we gotta shake our asses
Right this instant, oh oh

Time passes
You got to live against it
Time passes
You got to live against it

[Chorus]





Give me a signal baby, show me a sign
Don't keep it secret baby, I'll show you mine

Overall Meaning

In the song "My Valentine," Rhett Miller expresses the beauty and sadness of loving someone. The line "loving you, sadly, is a beautiful thing" suggests that even though the relationship may cause pain, it is still worth the experience. The next line, "stars from your head hit the floor," further emphasizes the complexity of the relationship, possibly referencing the moments of frustration or anger that occur. The line "sex in war time is sweeter than peace" is a contradictory statement, as war is usually associated with chaos and destruction, but Miller uses it as a metaphor for the intense passion and desire that can arise during difficult times.


The chorus, "make up your mind, mind my valentine, you say you love me yet you treat me unkindly," reflects the doubts and insecurities that come with an uncertain relationship. Miller asks for a signal or a sign to show that the love is real and ultimately worth pursuing. The lines "operation overload without a doubt, my, my valentine would you please step out" suggest that the singer is feeling overwhelmed and needs clarity from the other person.


The song's repeated references to time passing suggest a fear of missed opportunities or regret. Ultimately, Miller leaves it up to the listener to decide whether the relationship is worth fighting for, with the final line "give me a signal baby, show me a sign, don't keep it secret baby, I'll show you mine."


Line by Line Meaning

Loving you, sadly, is a beautiful thing
Despite the sadness that comes with loving you, it's still a beautiful feeling


Stars from your head hit the floor
You're so mesmerizing that stars seem to be falling from your head


Shock therapy loses its sting, baby you want more
Even though the pain of our relationship is like shock therapy, you want more of it


Sex in war time is sweeter than peace
The only sweet thing about war is that sex during it is more intense


Wanting you is one of the million of these
Wanting you is just one of the many things I feel for you


Baby, get out on the dance floor
Let's forget our problems and dance together


Make up your mind, mind my valentine
Please make a decision about our relationship, my love


You say you love me yet you treat me unkindly
You claim to love me, but your actions show otherwise


Got to make up your mind, mind my valentine
You need to decide what you want from this relationship, my love


Give me a signal, baby, show me a sign
Please let me know how you feel about us, my love


Life during wartime is a beautiful song
Even in the midst of chaos, there can be beauty


Where does that highway lead
We don't know where we're going in this relationship


You will be glad, someday, you brought me along, babe
You'll eventually realize that having me in your life was a good thing


You will have a need
You'll realize that you need me


Operation overload without a doubt
We're reaching our limit in this relationship


My, my valentine would you please step out
My love, can we take a step back and assess our relationship?


We gotta smoke some grass, we gotta shake our asses
Let's relax and have some fun together


Right this instant, oh oh
Let's do it now, without delay


Time passes
Time moves on, whether we're ready or not


You got to live against it
We need to make the most of our time and live our lives fully


Don't keep it secret baby, I'll show you mine
Don't hide your feelings from me, I'll be open with you




Lyrics © Kobalt Music Publishing Ltd.
Written by: STEWART RANSOM MILLER

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