Who Do You Love
Richard Carpenter Lyrics


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Some girls sit by the phone at home alone
hopin' maybe you'll call
Not you, you'll break a date
You wouldn't wait at all
If I'm hard to handle (tell me 'bout it)
Here's my angle (think about it)
Takes two to tango and I ought to know
Who do you, Who do you, Who do you love?
Who do you, Who do you, Who do you love?
Who do you love?
Some girls do it right every night
and never ask for more
Not you, you know the score
You always ask what for
Where's the danger (tell me 'bout it)
We'll be strangers (think about it)
If it ever changes, I ought to know
Who do you, Who do you, Who do you love?




Who do you, Who do you, Who do you love?
Who do you love?

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of Richard Carpenter’s “Who Do You Love” paints a picture of a relationship where both parties have different perspectives on love and commitment. The song begins by contrasting the singer to other girls who are at home waiting by the phone for their love interest to call. In contrast, the singer's love interest is non-committal, always breaking dates and not willing to wait for them.


The second verse contrasts the singer with girls who are content with little acts of love and never ask for more. In contrast, the singer's love interest always wants more and is not content with the status quo. The singer is asking their love interest about their perspective on love, wondering who they truly love.


The chorus is a simple repetition of the question “Who do you love?” Though the exact meaning of the question is not clear, it appears to be the singer asking their love interest about the depth of their love and whether the singer is included in that love.


Overall, the song seems to be about unrequited love and the difficulties of being with someone who does not love you as much as you love them. It's an interesting take on relationships and the different perspectives people can have on love and commitment.


Line by Line Meaning

Some girls sit by the phone at home alone
Some girls wait idly by the phone, hoping for your call while they are alone at home


hopin' maybe you'll call
They hope that you will pick up the phone and give them a ring


Not you, you'll break a date
You are not like that, you would cancel your plans without hesitation


You wouldn't wait at all
You don't believe in waiting and would rather take action immediately


If I'm hard to handle (tell me 'bout it)
If I am difficult to handle, go ahead and say it


Here's my angle (think about it)
I have a perspective on this, take a moment and consider it


Takes two to tango and I ought to know
It takes two to make a relationship work and I have firsthand experience with that


Who do you, Who do you, Who do you love?
Who is it that you truly love?


Some girls do it right every night
Some girls always do the right thing when it comes to love


and never ask for more
They never expect anything beyond what they are receiving


Not you, you know the score
You, on the other hand, are not satisfied with the usual and expect more


You always ask what for
You are always looking for a reason behind everything


Where's the danger (tell me 'bout it)
What is the risk involved? I want to know about it


We'll be strangers (think about it)
Our relationship will not be the same anymore, consider that


If it ever changes, I ought to know
If anything changes between us, I deserve to know about it


Who do you, Who do you, Who do you love?
Who is it that you truly love?


Who do you love?
I want to know who your heart belongs to




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