Caned
Richard Hawley Lyrics


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To set the stage
To coin a phrase
You really are quite dumb

And so in brief
With great relief
I have to say I’m going
But I’m not paid enough
To be the one you want
And I’m not caned enough
To be the one you love

So don’t pretend
To comprehend
In your drunken haze

With that in mind
I think you’ll find
You’re just a little vague

But I’m not paid enough
To be the one you want




And I’m not caned enough
To be the one you love.

Overall Meaning

The song Caned by Richard Hawley is an emotional statement against a toxic relationship. The lyrics articulate the sense of frustration and disillusionment that the singer experiences when trying to escape the destructive cycle of their bond. The song begins with a sarcastic statement, as the singer sets the scene by thanking their partner for being "quite dumb". The use of irony is clear as the statement serves to underline that the singer is no longer willing to put up with their partner's behavior.


The singer is convinced of the need to leave and expresses that decision with a sense of relief. However, they acknowledge that it is not an easy situation, as they are not paid or caned enough to stay in a relationship that is characterized by emotional pain and abuse. The lyrics touch on the idea that sometimes people stay in relationships for financial stability or out of addiction, as in the case of substance abuse.


The chorus is the core of the message, with the singer making it clear that they are not willing to be someone's punching bag anymore. The lyrics are straightforward and frank, with the use of the word "cane" standing out as a metaphor for the addiction that is at the core of many toxic relationships.


Line by Line Meaning

To set the stage
To start this conversation


To coin a phrase
Using a well-known expression


You really are quite dumb
You are not very smart


And so in brief
In short


With great relief
Feeling free and happy


I have to say I’m going
I'm leaving


But I’m not paid enough
I don't earn enough money


To be the one you want
To give you what you desire


And I’m not caned enough
I'm not drunk enough


To be the one you love
To be loved by you


So don’t pretend
Do not fake


To comprehend
To understand fully


In your drunken haze
In your state of drunkenness


With that in mind
Considering what I just said


I think you’ll find
You might realize


You’re just a little vague
You are not very clear


But I’m not paid enough
I don't earn enough money


To be the one you want
To give you what you desire


And I’m not caned enough
I'm not drunk enough


To be the one you love
To be loved by you




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