You Don't Say
Richard Thompson Lyrics


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I saw your old flame
Walking down the street
She's back in town again
She's looking out for you
She says you used her
And you were indiscreet
It really wounded her
When you bid adieu

Do you mean she still cares
Do you mean she still cares
Do you mean she still cares
Oh you don't say

Do you mean she still cares (Do you mean she still cares)
Do you mean she still cares (Do you mean she still cares)
Do you mean she still cares
But you don't say (you don't say)

She keeps half a ring
She says you've kept the other
She says you broke your word
When you pursue another
She says "You're getting love
Mixed up with sympathy
Young man, do your duty
And come on back to me"

Do you mean she still cares (Do you mean she still cares)
Do you mean she still cares (Do you mean she still cares)
Do you mean she still cares
Oh you don't say (you don't say)

Oh do you mean she still cares
Do you mean she still cares
Do you mean she still cares
Oh you don't say

She says her heart aches
Like you had bought and sold her
She took all her hopes
And pinned them on your shoulder
She sends you rosemary
And by this gift you're given
Remember love heals
And old wrongs forgiven

Do you mean she still cares (Do you mean she still cares)
Do you mean she still cares (Do you mean she still cares)
Do you mean she still cares
Oh you don't say (you don't say)

Do you mean she still cares
Oh do you mean she still cares




Do you mean she still cares
Oh you don't say

Overall Meaning

In Richard Thompson’s “You Don’t Say”, the singer sees their ex-partner’s old flame walking down the street. She tells the singer that he used her and was indiscreet, which hurt her deeply. The old flame still cares for the singer, but he doesn’t say if he feels the same way.


The singer highlights the mixed emotions of a past relationship. The ex-partner's old flame reappears, which acts as a reminder of a time when both parties were different people. The old flame still cares for the singer, which creates a sense of confusion for the singer. The refrain “do you mean she still cares” emphasizes the singer's confusion and fear of vulnerability, and is juxtaposed with the phrase “you don't say” which shows the singer's disregard for the complexities of the relationship. It is a sad love song, and the final message is one of hope for healing and forgiveness.


Line by Line Meaning

I saw your old flame
I am aware of the person you used to be with


Walking down the street
She was walking around outside


She's back in town again
She returned to the place where she used to live


She's looking out for you
She is trying to find you or keep tabs on you


She says you used her
She claims that you took advantage of her


And you were indiscreet
You were not careful or secretive about what you did


It really wounded her
It hurt her a lot emotionally


When you bid adieu
When you said goodbye


Do you mean she still cares
Are you implying that she still has feelings for you


Oh you don't say
You are being sarcastic or dismissive


She keeps half a ring
She has part of a ring that used to belong to both of you


She says you've kept the other
She believes that you still have the other half of the ring


She says you broke your word
She claims that you did not keep a promise or agreement


When you pursue another
When you started a relationship with someone else


She says 'You're getting love
She thinks that you are confusing love with something else


Mixed up with sympathy
You are being kind or feeling sorry for someone instead of actually loving them


Young man, do your duty
She is giving you a command or obligation as a man


And come on back to me'
She wants you to return to her


She says her heart aches
She is really sad about something


Like you had bought and sold her
She feels like you used her like property


She took all her hopes
She had high expectations or dreams for the future


And pinned them on your shoulder
She relied on you to make these hopes a reality


She sends you rosemary
She is giving you a plant usually associated with love and remembrance


And by this gift you're given
She hopes that you will appreciate the gesture


Remember love heals
She believes that love can fix things


And old wrongs forgiven
She thinks that by putting the past behind you, you can move on and start over




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Comments from YouTube:

@mrdr999999

One of the best songs ever written a real classic which deserves greater recognition. Perfection.

@jimmytrafficant

Great song, just keeps getting better over the years!!!!

@honeychurchgipsy6

I agree with BucksStudent - Mirror Blue is an excellent album - and Richard Thompson has continued to get better and better through the years

@LetMeGoForever

That's not true. Of course, it's subjective, but he wrote incredible songs on those albums, and his playing was even more unique. Mirror Blue was revolutionary for the time, and not just for the percussion, but the acoustic guitar through an electric amp.

@LetMeGoForever

But that was a different time. Artists have to move forward.

@TessaCoker

Sooooo eighties!

@rotsa1

Bucks- I would rather be locked in a room listening to "Disco's Greatest Hits"...NOT! Of COURSE it's subjective, but IMO Joe Boyd brought something to the sound of not only RT, but Fairport Convention and Nick Drake (and others), that only a very special record producer can. What would Simon and Garfunkel have sounded like without Roy Halee at the helm? They were TERRIBLE prior to his refinement of their distinctive vocal sound. Others come to mind. T Bone Burnett is one of the greats as well.

@rotsa1

The great old Joe Boyd days. Was never as good with Mitchell Froom.

@georgecav

Great track but the video clip so not rt

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