The Man That Never Was
Rick Springfield Lyrics


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I can't say that I like her manners,
I can't say that I like her face.
Carved up on a silver platter,
Served warm she's a real head case.
I won't wait for an invitation,
I can't stay for the sacrifice.
I won't die as an unknown soldier,
I won't even try.

Sometimes you make me play the fool,
Sometimes you use me like a tool,
You are the the whip the drives the mule,
But I brings the goods right back to you.
You break my back,
You break my balls,
You break my heart,
Just because.
Sometimes you make me feel like,
Just like the man that never was.
Just like
Just like
Just like the man that never was.

I drown in a mixed emotion,
Washed up on a foreign shore.
Face down in the salty ocean,
Meet me there, I don't care,
Anywhere is no where.
I fly right and I know she loves me,
I fly wrong and I'm DOA.
I'm bombed out like an old cathedral,
And I'm blown away.

Sometimes you make me play the fool,
Sometimes you use me like a tool,
You are the whip that the drives the mule,
But I bring the goods right back to you.
You break my back,
You break my balls,
You break my heart,
Just because.
Sometimes you make me feel like,
Just like the man that never was.
Just like
Just like
Just like the man that never was.

Just like,
Just like,
Just like the man that never was.

Made your mark then
"Nice to know you",
You were never loved.
We have so much more in common,
Just like
Just like
Just like the man that never was.

Just like the man that never was.
Just like
Just like
Just like the man that never was.

I am




I am
I am the man that never was.

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of Rick Springfield's song The Man That Never Was describe the struggles of a man in a toxic relationship, where his partner dominates and mistreats him. The opening lines express his dislike and disapproval of her manners and face. He feels that his partner is like a head case, served warm on a silver platter, which means that she is quickly angered and reacts harshly to the slightest provocation. He doesn't want to wait for an invitation or sacrifice himself more in this relationship; he doesn't want to die without recognition or purpose, as an unknown soldier. In the chorus, he compares himself to the man that never was, that is, someone who never existed, someone who is unrecognized and invisible to society's standards. He feels that his partner often makes him feel like a fool, using him like a tool, breaking his back, balls, and heart just because she can.


The second verse of the song begins with him expressing his emotions, feeling lost and abandoned, washed up on a foreign shore. He tries to cope with the relationship by flying in the right direction, where he thinks his partner loves him, but if he makes a mistake, he might be dead on arrival (DOA). He feels bombed out, and like an old cathedral, he's blown away, indicating that the relationship has consumed too much of him. The chorus repeats, and in the bridge, he sings about how his partner has made her mark, and now she knows it's time to go. He feels that they have so much more in common, both of them are made to feel like the man that never was.


Overall, The Man That Never Was is a song that talks about the struggles of an abusive relationship, where one partner dominates and controls the other. Rick Springfield's powerful lyrics and rock sound provide a warning message for those in relationships that can be emotional and physically abusive.


Line by Line Meaning

I can't say that I like her manners,
I dislike her behavior.


I can't say that I like her face.
I find her physically unattractive.


Carved up on a silver platter,
She's been put on display for all to see.


Served warm she's a real head case.
She's unstable and difficult to deal with.


I won't wait for an invitation,
I won't wait for permission.


I can't stay for the sacrifice.
I can't afford to stay and endure the consequences.


I won't die as an unknown soldier,
I won't be forgotten.


I won't even try.
I won't bother with it.


Sometimes you make me play the fool,
I feel foolish because of your actions.


Sometimes you use me like a tool,
You manipulate me to serve your needs.


You are the the whip the drives the mule,
You control the situation, I just follow.


But I brings the goods right back to you.
I still manage to deliver what you want.


You break my back,
You make me work hard.


You break my balls,
You annoy and frustrate me.


You break my heart,
You hurt me emotionally.


Just because.
Without any apparent reason.


Sometimes you make me feel like,
You make me feel as if I don't exist.


Just like the man that never was.
Like someone who is invisible and ignored.


I drown in a mixed emotion,
I feel overwhelmed with various feelings.


Washed up on a foreign shore.
I feel isolated and unfamiliar with my surroundings.


Face down in the salty ocean,
I feel helpless, vulnerable, and alone.


Meet me there, I don't care,
Regardless of the danger or hardship, I'm willing to face it.


Anywhere is no where.
Everywhere feels the same, I can't escape.


I fly right and I know she loves me,
When I'm doing well, I know she cares for me.


I fly wrong and I'm DOA.
When I make mistakes, I suffer greatly.


I'm bombed out like an old cathedral,
I'm devastated like a ruined building.


And I'm blown away.
I'm overwhelmed with emotions.


Made your mark then "Nice to know you",
You've left your impact and moved on without a care.


You were never loved.
You never had anyone who truly cared for you.


We have so much more in common,
We share similar experiences and feelings.


Just like the man that never was.
Like someone who is forgotten and overlooked.


I am the man that never was.
I'm a person who feels invisible and insignificant.




Lyrics © BMG Rights Management
Written by: CHRIS SHIFLETT, DAVID GROHL, MATT BISSONETTE, PAT SMEAR, RICK SPRINGFIELD, TAYLOR HAWKINS

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Most interesting comment from YouTube:

@smokinjz

I can't say that I like her manners,
I can't say that I like her face.
Carved up on a silver platter,
Served warm she's a real head case.
I won't wait for an invitation,
I can't stay for the sacrifice.
I won't die as an unknown soldier,
I won't even try.
Sometimes you make me play the fool,
Sometimes you use me like a tool,
You are the the whip the drives the mule,
But I brings the goods right back to you.
You break my back,
You break my balls,
You break my heart,
Just because.
Sometimes you make me feel like,
Just like the man that never was.
Just like
Just like
Just like the man that never was.
I drown in a mixed emotion,
Washed up on a foreign shore.
Face down in the salty ocean,
Meet me there, I don't care,
Anywhere is no where.
I fly right and I know she loves me,
I fly wrong and I'm DOA.
I'm bombed out like an old cathedral,
And I'm blown away.
Sometimes you make me play the fool,
Sometimes you use me like a tool,
You are the whip that the drives the mule,
But I bring the goods right back to you.
You break my back,
You break my balls,
You break my heart,
Just because.
Sometimes you make me feel like,
Just like the man that never was.
Just like
Just like
Just like the man that never was.
Just like,
Just like,
Just like the man that never was.
Made your mark then
"Nice to know you",
You were never loved.
We have so much more in common,
Just like
Just like
Just like the man that never was.
Just like the man that never was.
Just like
Just like
Just like the man that never was.
I am
I am
I am the man that never was.



All comments from YouTube:

@gcmotorman6379

It's awesome to hear Rick Springfield rocking again. He is every bit still relevant. I called him on TV a few years ago and learned that he was battling depression. I wish you all the best and hope that he's conquered that beast. He's worked a lot harder than many people realize and for many many years. And you got to admit the guy looks great to be his age

@Rikitocker

People saying this sounds like a Foo's track need to realize that Dave grew up listening to music that was like this from people like Rick! This is all about paying hommage to people like Rick Springfield and the vibe that that music brought - it was the early 80's blend of pop punk edge found in top 40 back then. I know cause I was there ...

@peterzang

Rick has been around since the 70s. Writes great songs and plays great. It was the General Hospital thing that turned some people off. The guy needed money. And it's not like he was robbing gas stations!

@Rikitocker

Peter Gerstenzang  Rick was also in the very first episode of Battlestar Galactica playing Apollo's brother Zac ... he is killed by the Cylons in the first ep - he was great in it too!

@peterzang

Rikitocker I like the guy, what can I say. Except....Right on Rikitocker!

@Rikitocker

Peter Gerstenzang Me too Peter ... music back then was great - the Top 40 had a great guitar based edge to it - bands like Elvis Costello and XTC etc, great times for music ... oh and The Cars etc.

@peterzang

Rikitocker Absolutely correct. Hard rockin' but with melody. 

@dddlll2471

this is a great track .... big up Rick an 80s pop legend

@atreb56

Rick always rocks. Love this song. Gives his all at concerts. Love Rick and Foo Fighters.

@randylegend8909

Foo Fighters with Rick Springfield.....play with all you got and leave it all on the field!!!! Excellent!!!!

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