Tried To Be A Man
Rickie Lee Jones Lyrics


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'Round here we don't need no one trying to set us straight
Heck, I got a red neck in plaid suit
And he's on TV real late balalaikas tolling
Sheba plays the flute
There's a communist and capitalists
They all think I'm cute

You know, I'm out of rehab
You know, I'm with the band
Anyway I think it's time to say
Exactly what I am
Cause I tried to be a man
But that's just not meant to be
You know I
Tried to be a man
That's not what I came to be

Well, there's seven years of famine
And seven years of drought
Seven years of Sam
And you know what I'm talking about
And it won't take very long before its hard to tell
If they're trying to take you back with him
To heaven or to hell
They make her so pretty
She won't be pretty long
She'll be rising out of the sea of planet Babylon

Cause she tried to be a man
That's not what she came to be
She tried to be a man
That's not what she came to be

She's living down on Bronson
She never blinks her eyes
The family in Wisconsin
Look like they're hypnotized
I get a strange sensation
When I lay down in my bed
In fact, if you could drop me on the corner
Here instead on planet Babylon
That's where they wrote the book
Hey there's something here about you
Come on and take a look
It says you tried to be a man
But that's not what you came to be
It says, it says, it says, it says
You tried to be a man
But that's not what you came to be
Came to be




What you came to be
That's not what you came to be

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to Rickie Lee Jones's song Tried To Be A Man, on the surface, appear to be nonsensical and random. However, upon closer inspection, it becomes clear that the song is about identity and the struggle to find one's true self. The opening line of the song, "Round here we don't need no one trying to set us straight," sets the tone for the rest of the lyrics. The singer is rejecting the idea that anyone else can tell them who they are or how they should be living their life.


The next few lines, which describe a red-necked man on TV and the sound of balalaikas and a flute, serve to underscore the idea that the world is a chaotic and confusing place. The reference to communists and capitalists thinking she's cute further highlights the singer's feeling of being lost in a world that doesn't make sense to her.


The chorus of the song, "Cause I tried to be a man / But that's just not meant to be," is a statement of resignation. The singer has tried to fit into the mold that society has set for her, but she realizes that it's not who she is supposed to be. The verses that follow speak to the struggle of living in a world that doesn't understand you, and the desire to find a place where you belong.


Overall, Tried To Be A Man is a lyrically dense song that requires multiple listens to fully comprehend. It's a meditation on identity, the struggle to find oneself in a chaotic world, and the realization that sometimes being true to oneself means rejecting the expectations of others.




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Felice Marie Berkley


on It Must Be Love

One of my fav. songs..!

Felice Marie Berkley


on Comin' Back To Me

Very pretty song.

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