Rita Hayworth was born Margarita Carmen Cansino, the daughter of Eduardo Cansino (Sr.) and Volga Haworth (sic) in Brooklyn, New York. She was trained as a dancer from childhood, and was on stage by the age of six as a member of The Cansinos, a famous family of Roma Gitano Spanish dancers working in vaudeville. At age sixteen Rita attracted the attention of film producers as part of "The Dancing Cansinos" and was signed by Fox Studios in 1935. After her option was not renewed by Fox, Rita freelanced at minor film studios before signing with Columbia Pictures in 1937.
Rita's metamorphosis began after a name change from Rita Cansino to Rita Hayworth and extensive painful electrolysis to raise her hairline. After two more years of minor roles she gave an impressive performance in Howard Hawks' Only Angels Have Wings (1939) as part of an ensemble cast headed by Cary Grant . Her sensitive portrayal of a disillusioned wife sparked the interest of other studios. Between assignments at Columbia Pictures she was borrowed by Metro Goldwyn Mayer for George Cukor's Susan and God (1940) with Joan Crawford and Warner Brothers for Raoul Walsh's The Strawberry Blonde (1941) with James Cagney.
While on loan to Fox Studios for Rouben Mamoulian's Blood and Sand (1941) starring Tyrone Power, Rita achieved stardom with her sizzling performance as the amoral and seductive Doña Sol des Muire. This Technicolor film forever branded her as one of Hollywood's most beautiful redheads. Ironically, Carole Landis was the original choice for the role but was replaced by Rita Hayworth prior to filming because she refused to dye her blonde hair red. Fox then borrowed Rita from Columbia and dyed her raven hair auburn which soon became Hayworth's best remembered feature. Her stardom was solidified when she made the cover of Time Magazine as Fred Astaire's new dancing partner in You'll Never Get Rich (1941).
The "love goddess" image was cemented with Bob Landry's 1941 Life magazine photograph of her (kneeling on a bed in a silk and lace nightgown), which caused a sensation and became (at over five million copies) one of the most requested wartime pinups. During World War II she ranked with Betty Grable, Dorothy Lamour, Hedy Lamarr, and Lana Turner as the pinup girls most popular with servicemen. Rita would also become Columbia's biggest star of the 1940s, under the watchful eye of studio chief Harry Cohn, who recognized her value. After she made Tales of Manhattan (1942) at Twentieth Century Fox opposite Charles Boyer, Cohn would not allow Hayworth to be loaned out to other studios.
Hayworth's well-known films include the musicals that made her famous: You'll Never Get Rich (1941) and You Were Never Lovelier (1942) (both with Fred Astaire, who wrote in his autobiography that Rita "danced with trained perfection and individuality"), My Gal Sal (1942) with Victor Mature, and her best known musical, Cover Girl (1944) with Gene Kelly. Although her singing voice was dubbed in her movies, Rita was one of Hollywood's best dancers, imbued with power, precision, tremendous enthusiasm, and an unearthly grace. Cohn continued to effectively showcase Hayworth's talents in Technicolor films: Tonight and Every Night (1945) with Lee Bowman, and Down to Earth (1947), with Larry Parks. Her erotic appeal was most notable in Gilda (1946), a black-and-white film noir directed by Charles Vidor, which encountered some difficulty with censors. This role — in which Hayworth in black satin performed a legendary one-glove striptease — made her into a cultural icon as the ultimate femme fatale. Alluding to her bombshell status, in 1946 her likeness was placed on the first nuclear bomb to be tested after World War II at Bikini Atoll in the Marshall Islands, as part of Operation Crossroads.
Hayworth performed one of her best remembered dance routines, the samba from 1945's Tonight and Every Night, while pregnant with her first child, Rebecca Welles. Hayworth was also the first dancer to partner both Fred Astaire and Gene Kelly on film - the others being Judy Garland, Cyd Charisse, Vera Ellen, and Leslie Caron.
Hayworth gave one of her most acclaimed performances in Orson Welles' The Lady from Shanghai (1948), though it failed at the box office. The failure was in part attributed to the fact that director/co-star Welles had Hayworth's famous red locks cut off and the rest dyed blonde for her role. This was done without Harry Cohn's knowledge or approval who was furious over the change. Her next film, The Loves of Carmen (1948) with Glenn Ford, was the first film co-produced by Columbia and Rita's own production company, The Beckworth Corporation (named for her daughter Rebecca). It was Columbia's biggest moneymaker for that year. She received a percentage of the profits from this and all of her subsequent films until 1955, when Hayworth dissolved Beckworth to pay off debts she owed to Columbia.
Rita left her film career in 1948 to marry Prince Aly Khan, the heir to the Aga Khan III, leader of Shia Ismaili Muslims. The couple moved to Europe, causing a media frenzy. Joseph L. Mankiewicz, in writing and directing 1954's The Barefoot Contessa, was said to have based his title character, Maria Vargas (played on film by Ava Gardner), on Hayworth's life and her marriage to Khan.
After the marriage collapsed in 1951, Hayworth returned to America with great fanfare to film a string of hit films: Affair in Trinidad (1952) with favorite costar Glenn Ford, Salome (1953) with Charles Laughton and Stewart Granger, and Miss Sadie Thompson (1953) with Jose Ferrer and Aldo Ray, for which her performance won critical acclaim. Then she was off the big screen for another four years, due mainly to a tumultuous marriage to singer Dick Haymes. In 1957, after making Fire Down Below with Robert Mitchum and Jack Lemmon, and her last musical Pal Joey with Frank Sinatra and Kim Novak, Rita finally left Columbia. She got good reviews for her acting in such films as Separate Tables (1958) with Burt Lancaster and The Story on Page One (1960) with Anthony Franciosa, and continued working throughout the 1960s. Hayworth made her last film, The Wrath of God , in 1972.
After about 1960, Hayworth suffered from extremely early onset of Alzheimer's disease, which was not diagnosed until 1980. She continued to act in films until the early-1970s and made a well-publicized appearance on The Carol Burnett Show near the end of her career. In 1977, Hayworth was the recipient of the National Screen Heritage Award (see above photo). Lynda Carter starred in a 1983 biopic of her life. She lived in an apartment at the San Remo in New York City.
Following her death from Alzheimer's in 1987 at age 68, she was interred in the Holy Cross Cemetery in Culver City, California; location: Grotto, Lot 196, Grave 6 (right of main sidewalk, near the curb). Her marker includes the inscription ""To yesterday's companionship and tomorrow's reunion."
One of the major fundraisers for the Alzheimer's Association is the annual Rita Hayworth Gala, which is held in New York City and Chicago. Hayworth’s daughter, Princess Yasmin Aga Khan, has been the hostess for these events, which since 1985 have raised more than $42 million for the Association.
I've Been Kissed Before
Rita Hayworth Lyrics
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Arms have held me fast
You can tell by my kiss
You weren't the first
And you won't be the last
With heart and soul I kiss them
And file the memory under M
That may be the only time
I think about them
I've been kissed before
Only fools tell when
I was born to be kissed
To kiss and be kissed
And I'll be kissed again
How hard is broken nightly
A smile that they misunderstood
Unless you treat it lightly
You'd better be going while the going is good
Many loves have I
You were just one more
But someday I'll be kissed
And maybe I'll doubt
That I've been kissed before
That I've been loved before
On that day that I'm kissed...
I'll even deny...
that I've been kissed before
(repeat)
Many loves have I
You were just one more
But someday I'll be kissed
And maybe I'll doubt
That I've been kissed before
That I've been loved before
On that day that I'm kissed...
I'll even deny...
that I've been kissed before
The lyrics of Rita Hayworth's "I've Been Kissed Before" tell the story of a woman who has been kissed many times before, and suggests that the act of kissing is nothing new or special to her. As she sings about how she has been kissed in the past, she mentions how she kisses passionately—but then "files" the memory away to be forgotten if necessary. She states that she has been kissed by many, and that the man she's currently kissing is just one more in a long line of "loves" she has had.
Throughout the song, the singer's attitude towards kissing belies a sense of emptiness and detachment. While she states that she kisses with "heart and soul," those words come across as empty and meaningless, as she makes it clear that the kisses themselves don't really matter to her. Instead, they are simply another experience that she has had, adding to the long list of moments that she's experienced before moving on to the next one.
The repeated refrain of "I've been kissed before" is a telling line, speaking to the sense of weariness that the singer seems to feel. It suggests that, even as she moves from kiss to kiss, nothing is really changing for her. The fact that she ends the song by saying that, one day, she'll be kissed again suggests that she realizes that she can't escape this cycle, no matter how hard she tries.
Overall, the song is a poignant meditation on the nature of love and physical intimacy. Even as the singer acknowledges the many kisses she's had in the past, she seems to be searching for something more meaningful and substantial.
Line by Line Meaning
I've been kissed before
I've experienced intimacy before
Arms have held me fast
I've been physically embraced before
You can tell by my kiss
My expertise indicates my prior experiences
You weren't the first
You're not my first lover
And you won't be the last
You're not my last lover either
With heart and soul I kiss them
I kiss with passion and depth
And file the memory under M
I store the memory in my mind
Tomorrow if I miss them
If I reminisce the next day
That may be the only time
It might just be that one time
Only fools tell when
Only naive people would say when
I was born to be kissed
I was meant to experience intimacy
To kiss and be kissed
To give and receive physical affection
And I'll be kissed again
I'll experience intimacy again in the future
How hard is broken nightly
It's difficult to cope with a shattered heart every night
A smile that they misunderstood
My smiling was misinterpreted by some partners
Unless you treat it lightly
If you don't handle it with care
You'd better be going while the going is good
You should leave before it's too late
Many loves have I
I've had many lovers
But someday I'll be kissed
I'll experience intimacy again someday
And maybe I'll doubt
I might question
That I've been kissed before
Whether I ever experienced intimacy before
That I've been loved before
Whether I was ever loved before
On that day that I'm kissed...
When I experience intimacy again...
I'll even deny...
I might even refuse to believe...
that I've been kissed before
that I ever had intimacy before
Writer(s): Lester Lee, Bob Russell
Contributed by Nicholas K. Suggest a correction in the comments below.