I've Been Kissed Before
Rita Hayworth Lyrics


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I've been kissed before
Arms have held me fast
You can tell by my kiss
You weren't the first
And you won't be the last

With heart and soul I kiss them
And file the memory under M
Tomorrow if I miss them
That may be the only time
I think about them

I've been kissed before
Only fools tell when
I was born to be kissed
To kiss and be kissed
And I'll be kissed again

How hard is broken nightly
A smile that they misunderstood
Unless you treat it lightly
You'd better be going while the going is good

Many loves have I
You were just one more
But someday I'll be kissed
And maybe I'll doubt
That I've been kissed before
That I've been loved before
On that day that I'm kissed...
I'll even deny...
that I've been kissed before

(repeat)

Many loves have I
You were just one more
But someday I'll be kissed
And maybe I'll doubt
That I've been kissed before
That I've been loved before
On that day that I'm kissed...




I'll even deny...
that I've been kissed before

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of Rita Hayworth's "I've Been Kissed Before" tell the story of a woman who has been kissed many times before, and suggests that the act of kissing is nothing new or special to her. As she sings about how she has been kissed in the past, she mentions how she kisses passionately—but then "files" the memory away to be forgotten if necessary. She states that she has been kissed by many, and that the man she's currently kissing is just one more in a long line of "loves" she has had.


Throughout the song, the singer's attitude towards kissing belies a sense of emptiness and detachment. While she states that she kisses with "heart and soul," those words come across as empty and meaningless, as she makes it clear that the kisses themselves don't really matter to her. Instead, they are simply another experience that she has had, adding to the long list of moments that she's experienced before moving on to the next one.


The repeated refrain of "I've been kissed before" is a telling line, speaking to the sense of weariness that the singer seems to feel. It suggests that, even as she moves from kiss to kiss, nothing is really changing for her. The fact that she ends the song by saying that, one day, she'll be kissed again suggests that she realizes that she can't escape this cycle, no matter how hard she tries.


Overall, the song is a poignant meditation on the nature of love and physical intimacy. Even as the singer acknowledges the many kisses she's had in the past, she seems to be searching for something more meaningful and substantial.


Line by Line Meaning

I've been kissed before
I've experienced intimacy before


Arms have held me fast
I've been physically embraced before


You can tell by my kiss
My expertise indicates my prior experiences


You weren't the first
You're not my first lover


And you won't be the last
You're not my last lover either


With heart and soul I kiss them
I kiss with passion and depth


And file the memory under M
I store the memory in my mind


Tomorrow if I miss them
If I reminisce the next day


That may be the only time
It might just be that one time


Only fools tell when
Only naive people would say when


I was born to be kissed
I was meant to experience intimacy


To kiss and be kissed
To give and receive physical affection


And I'll be kissed again
I'll experience intimacy again in the future


How hard is broken nightly
It's difficult to cope with a shattered heart every night


A smile that they misunderstood
My smiling was misinterpreted by some partners


Unless you treat it lightly
If you don't handle it with care


You'd better be going while the going is good
You should leave before it's too late


Many loves have I
I've had many lovers


But someday I'll be kissed
I'll experience intimacy again someday


And maybe I'll doubt
I might question


That I've been kissed before
Whether I ever experienced intimacy before


That I've been loved before
Whether I was ever loved before


On that day that I'm kissed...
When I experience intimacy again...


I'll even deny...
I might even refuse to believe...


that I've been kissed before
that I ever had intimacy before




Writer(s): Lester Lee, Bob Russell

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